dual personalities

A caged bird sings

by chuckofish

Clasped Hands of Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning by Harriet Goodhue Hosmer

Clasped Hands of Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning by Harriet Goodhue Hosmer

On this day in 1846 Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning eloped! You know the famous story of their love. Six years her junior, the poet Robert Browning exchanged 574 letters with Elizabeth Barrett over a twenty-month period. Immortalized in the 1930 play The Barretts of Wimpole Street, by Rudolf Besier, their romance was bitterly opposed by her father, who did not want any of his children to marry. After they married, her father never spoke to her again. Gee whiz.

Anyway, she was a darn good poet, mostly known today for her famous How Do I Love Thee sonnet. But she wrote a lot more than that. Here is the beginning of Aurora Leigh (1850) and a link so you can read the whole thing.

OF writing many books there is no end;
And I who have written much in prose and verse
For others’ uses, will write now for mine,–
Will write my story for my better self,
As when you paint your portrait for a friend,
Who keeps it in a drawer and looks at it
Long after he has ceased to love you, just
To hold together what he was and is.

You can read the rest here.

And if you feel like it, you can watch either of the film versions of the famous play:

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or

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(They are both pretty good. I prefer John Gielgud (in anything) to Charles Laughton, but I was never a big fan of Jennifer Jones.)

Mary, Mary

by chuckofish

It is daughter #1’s birthday today. I wish I could teleport to the Upper West Side and take her out to lunch. Sigh.

More than gems in my comb box
shaped by the God of the Sea,
I prize you, my daughter

–Otomo no Sakanoue Iratsume, eighth-century Japanese poet

Happy Birthday!

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Worthy of consideration

by chuckofish

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“Every man is more than just himself; he also represents the unique, the very special and always significant and remarkable point at which the world’s phenomena intersect, only once in this way, and never again. That is why every man’s story is important, eternal, sacred; that is why every man, as long as he lives and fulfills the will of nature, is wondrous, and worthy of consideration. In each individual the spirit has become flesh, in each man the creation suffers, within each one a redeemer is nailed to the cross.”

–Hermann Hesse

Darlin’, pardon me

by chuckofish

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This picture was taken over 10 years ago backstage at the high school during the production of Girl Crazy. The boy is in the middle flanked by his two best friends. He was in 10th grade in his long flowing hair phase. He and two upperclassmen (not pictured) were the “cowboy trio” who got to sing “I’m Bidin’ My Time” at various times during the musical. They were adorable.

This is the time period when some people got the idea that the boy looked like Andy Samberg.

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I can see it. But it drove the boy crazy.

People do this all the time. Sometimes they are on target; sometimes not so much. Something strikes them as similar. People are always looking for a connection, aren’t they? I wonder why that is?

I do it myself. People frequently remind me of my father and also my father-in-law. The classic example of this is Grumpy Old Men (1993), starring Jack Lemmon (my father) and Walter Matthau (my father-in-law).

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Jack Lemmon IS my father–the fair-haired skinny wasp in khaki pants right down to the Brooks Brothers porkpie hat. I think he even says, “GodDAMit!”. And Walter Matthau is Bob. They were the quintessential grumpy old men in real life–how wonderful that they made a movie about them.

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And a sequel.

As for why we do this, I guess it gives us comfort and makes the world less strange and intimidating. Makes sense to me.

All my heroes stand up straight*

by chuckofish

I had a good day yesterday. I stayed home to work, which means that I got plenty of other things done, but very little work. For example, I went to the dentist, the farmer’s market, the post office, grocery store, and liquor store (you can’t buy wine at the grocery store in this state), and worked on packing up extra china and cleaning son #3’s room, a task that gives new meaning to the term “Herculean.” I also got to listen to my new Gregory Alan Isakov CD — it’s just wonderful. Listen to “Second Chances”

and “Time will Tell”.

See, I told you he was great. Now go buy it — my dual personality already has.

Last night I watched “Everything is Illuminated” and I really liked it. It’s quirky in the right way but also made me cry. The music was perfect as were the actors, especially the grandfather and Alex, who is played by the lead singer of the strange, but occasionally wonderful, gypsy punk band, Gogol Bordello. The film is about odd and emotionally stunted Elijah Wood and his journey to the Ukraine to discover what happened to his grandfather during WWII. According to IMDB, it was filmed in the Ukraine and the Czech Republic — both of which have beautiful scenery as well as plenty of evidence of their violent pasts. And who knew that Liev Shreiber could write (screenplay from novel) and direct?

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Earlier in the week I watched a quirky Indie film on Netflix called “the Giant Mechanical Man” that I also liked a lot (yes, that’s 2 quirky movies in one week!). Although it was very “Indie”, it was also charming and kind of sad. Well worth a viewing.

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This post would not be complete without a book recommendation. In honor of recently departed Seamus Heaney, I’m reminding you all of his peerless translation of Beowulf. If you don’t have it handy, you can listen to him read it:

Beowulf is one of my favorites and every time I read it I get something new out of it.

So those are my recommendations for you this weekend. Take a listen or a look and let me know what you think!

*a line from “Second Chances”

Friday movie pick: such untamed emotion!

by chuckofish

Lucky Julie Harris. Laughing it up with these guys:

Julie Harris with Elia Kazan, Marlon Brando and James Dean in 1955

Julie Harris with Elia Kazan, Marlon Brando and James Dean in 1955

Julie Harris died last month. She was, of course, an American stage, screen, and television actress of the first rank. She won five Tony Awards, three Emmy Awards and a Grammy Award, and was nominated for an Academy Award. In 1994 she was awarded the National Medal of Arts. She was a member of the American Theatre Hall of Fame and received the 2002 Special Lifetime Achievement Tony Award.

I remember watching my mother watch Julie play Emily Dickinson in The Belle of Amherst on television back in the 1976. My mother wept pretty much uncontrollably, which was quite unnerving to me. But Julie Harris was one of those actresses that loses herself in the part–she became Emily Dickinson. Awesome.

I haven’t had a Friday movie pick in some time, so I suggest we all watch Julie Harris in East of Eden, which introduced James Dean to the world. It was Julie’s second film. It only covers a small part of Steinbeck’s great novel, but it is a good movie taken on its own. James Dean’s performance is spectacular and he is ably supported by Raymond Massey, Jo Van FLeet, Burl Ives, and–of course–Julie Harris.

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Today is also the birthday of Elia Kazan (September 7, 1909 – September 28, 2003)–American director, producer, writer, actor, founder of the Actors Studio, and Williams College graduate. The New York Times described him as “one of the most honored and influential directors in Broadway and Hollywood history”. He was nominated for a Best Director Oscar for East of Eden, but lost to Delbert Mann, who won that year for Marty. C’est la vie.

Have a great weekend!

This and that

by chuckofish

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Lest you think the dual personalities are just two frumpy old ladies in sturdy shoes, here’s some fashion advice: leopard is the new neutral.

Of course, we’ve known this for years and have spiced up our wardrobes with animal prints whenever appropriate we felt like it. Anyway, I just wanted to mention these wonderful shoes (see selfie above) from J. Crew, which I have practically worn out as my go-to shoe for work this year. They go with everything and are so comfortable. And they are just so cute.

Recently one of the students at my flyover institute–a traditionally-built, African-American woman who is always dressed to the nines and in high-heels–told me that she had finally decided it would be okay for her to wear flats, because she admired mine.

So add fashion arbiter to my resume. Ha. Well, at the very least, I try not to embarrass my two twenty-something daughters. Here is yet another a picture from our recent trip when we were sporting matching Tom’s and the same bag.

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Meanwhile my lovely leopard flats are about to wear out. J. Crew is having a 25% off sale. What do you think?

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Too much for work?

Everything will be all right

by chuckofish

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“Above all, do not lose your desire to walk. Every day, I walk myself into a state of well-being and walk away from every illness. I have walked myself into my best thoughts, and I know of no thought so burdensome that one cannot walk away from it. But by sitting still, and the more one sits still, the closer one comes to feeling ill. Thus if one just keeps on walking, everything will be all right.”

― Søren Kierkegaard

Søren-Kierkegaard-Statue im Garten der Königlichen Bibliothek in Kopenhagen.

Søren-Kierkegaard-Statue im Garten der Königlichen Bibliothek in Kopenhagen.

I have been a big fan of Kierkegaard since I was in college and read:

“I have just now come from a party where I was its life and soul; witticisms streamed from my lips, everyone laughed and admired me, but I went away — yes, the dash should be as long as the radius of the earth’s orbit ——————————— and wanted to shoot myself.”

(Journal, 1836)

His writings about the authentic individual and his criticism of modern Christendom appealed to me.

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Yes, he was an existentialist and a Christian. I could relate.

“It is the duty of the human understanding to understand that there are things which it cannot understand, and what those things are. Human understanding has vulgarly occupied itself with nothing but understanding, but if it would only take the trouble to understand itself at the same time it would simply have to posit the paradox.”

(Journal, 1847)

I think I’ll take a walk now. How about you?

Just a reminder

by chuckofish

Hippopotamus, Egypt, Middle Kingdom, Dynasty 12

Hippopotamus, Egypt, Middle Kingdom, Dynasty 12

A pop of turquoise is always welcome in any decor. I like my hippo.

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Blue foo dogs work well too.

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blog.thepinkpagoda.us

Or a needlepoint pillow.

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It is the unexpectedness of the color.

But I like my hippo. Isn’t he great?

This hippo moves around.

This hippo moves around.

“Have nothing in your houses which you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful ” William Morris

Westward Ho…

by chuckofish

…or a few more things about our recent trip West.

I have never been a big fan of large hotels, especially ones that charge you $5o a day to park in their garage–so when I was planning our trip to Denver I decided to be adventurous and try airbnb.com. I read about it on a blog of course. You can rent an apartment or a room, a treehouse or a boat. You can find a unique space in 192 countries!

We stayed in a renovated Victorian house in a hip neighborhood in Denver only minutes from the Colorado History Museum. We had a room and a bathroom (and street parking) in this lovely home owned by Jim, a friendly former Marine who has been renovating homes in this neighborhood for thirty years.

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I would do it again in a minute.

Daughter #2 attributed much of our good karma to the fact that our house was on Emerson St.

Daughter #2 attributed much of our good karma to the fact that our house was on Emerson St.

We spent many hours in the Stephen Hart Library of the Colorado History Museum doing research, i.e. taking photos of each page in multiple files from 3 boxes of archives pertaining to John Simpson Hough, John Wesley Prowers and Frank Baron Hough. The staff at the library were all friendly, accommodating and helpful–like most of the people we encountered in Denver. They seemed genuinely happy that we were there visiting them.

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We also went to the Denver Art Museum, which was pretty impressive.

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And we squeezed in lunch with one of daughter #2’s BFFs who went to college in Colorado and never came home.

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I have a whole new appreciation for how that could happen. I mean you have to love a place that has a postcard featuring “The Coat”:

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And you have to love a state capitol with a statue of Kit Carson (wearing the aforementioned coat).

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And what trip is complete without a picture posed in front of a cannon?

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We left Denver for Wyoming after only two (very busy) days…

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But I’m sure we’ll be back!