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Some prouder pageantry

by chuckofish

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A toast to our brother, whose birthday we celebrate today! I’m sure he will be celebrating Thoreau-style.

The stillness was intense and almost conscious, as if it were a natural Sabbath, and we fancied that the morning was the evening of a celestial day. The air was so elastic and crystalline that it had the same effect on the landscape that a glass has on a picture, to give it an ideal remoteness and perfection. The landscape was clothed in a mild and quiet light, in which the woods and fences checkered and partitioned it with new regularity, and rough and uneven fields stretched away with lawn-like smoothness to the horizon, and the clouds, finely distinct and picturesque, seemed a fit drapery to hang over fairy-land. The world seemed decked for some holiday or prouder pageantry, with silken streamers flying, and the course of our lives to wind on before us like a green lane into a country maze, at the season when fruit-trees are in blossom.

Why should not our whole life and its scenery be actually thus fair and distinct? All our lives want a suitable background. They should at least, like the life of the anchorite, be as impressive to behold as objects in the desert, a broken shaft or crumbling mound against a limitless horizon. Character always secures for itself this advantage, and is thus distinct and unrelated to near or trivial objects, whether things or persons.

–from “A Week on the Concord and Merrimack Rivers” by Henry David Thoreau

A Sunlit Picture of Hell*

by chuckofish

It was a difficult week for England. First, the media continued moaning and hand-ringing over ‘Brexit’.  I think this is the best response I’ve seen (it’s short, funny and very English):

 

Then, the English soccer team embarrassed itself by losing to Iceland. The Washington Post  marked the event with the pithy headline, “England Exits Europe twice in Four Days.”

Moving into the weekend, the English faced the solemn commemoration of the Battle of the Somme. Yesterday, July 1st, marked the hundredth anniversary of the first day of the five-month long battle. An unmitigated disaster, the British forces suffered nearly 60,000 casualties (including over 20,000 dead) on day 1. Whole battalions were wiped out.  Siegfried Sassoon wrote a vivid description of the opening scene in his war diary:

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The Somme is still a big deal in England, where people still care about their history, probably because they actually learn about it in school.

British horse guards commemorating the Somme at Thiepval cemetary

British horse guards commemorating the Somme at Thiepval cemetery

After a week like that, it’s no wonder they’ll continue to ignore the start of American Independence on July 4th. Who’d want to be reminded of that? Unfortunately, except for barbecues and fireworks, we will ignore it too. Most people in this country seem either to reject our history or see it as irrelevant, but then they don’t really learn much about it in school, so what can one expect?

As you go into this 4th of July weekend, why not do something that’s actually related to Independence Day? Visit your local historical society, go to a parade, watch an appropriate movie (not The Patriot or the Independence Day movies!), read a history book, visit an old cemetery, or just think about how lucky you are to live here.

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Lest we forget.

*Siegfried Sassoon

 

 

Tout va not bien

by chuckofish

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Daughter #1’s flight was canceled and there were no flights until Sunday, so her trip to flyover country for the three-day weekend is not happening. The best laid plans, man…

 

Tout va bien

by chuckofish

Olivia de Havilland turns 100 today! You go, girl!

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Here she is with Leslie Howard. I know just how you feel, Olivia.

And it’s Friday and daughter #1 is arriving tonight for a three-day weekend visit! Hazzah!

The forecast is for thunderstorms, but who cares?

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At least we won’t be frying eggs on the pavement like we were last week.

We have no Big Plans beyond “toodling around” town in my Mini Cooper.

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This is a treat for her. (She lives in NYC and hardly ever gets to ride in a car!)

We’ll probably visit the needlepoint store and maybe we’ll look at wallpaper samples at Reineke’s.

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We’ll go out to lunch and go to our favorite flyover grocery store to stock up on the necessities.

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Maybe we’ll fit in Grant’s Farm and Ted Drewes and maybe not. But in between those predicted showers we’ll get the OM to barb-b-que some hamburgers. The boy and daughter #3 will drop by.

We’ll celebrate the 4th of July flyover-style with a big parade–which is now televised! Mimosas, anyone?

Sounds like a plan to me. It’s the little things, right?

And, hey, why do I not have one of these?

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Have a great long weekend and 4th of July!

Remember thy servant

by chuckofish

The other evening I attended the memorial service of a dear friend who died a few weeks ago, aged eighty.  Barb was the exact opposite of me–extremely extroverted and effervescent, always on the go, always pitching in. She was like Auntie Mame–you know, “Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!” She was not starving.

Barb was the person who got me to venture across the street to Ivy-Selkirk’s Auction House and started me on the road to estate sale-ing. She never understood timidity. She was a Just Do It person. We disagreed about many things, but unlike a lot of people these days, we respected each other’s opinions. We agreed, after all, on the important things.

After years of Catholic school and child-rearing and being told what she could and couldn’t do, Barb finally threw up her hands and turned her back on the RC Church. She became an Episcopalian at age 55 and she never looked back. She became a pillar of her new church and it was packed for her funeral.

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The church she attended in the city is a self-styled “progressive” one and so there were liberties taken with the service–four speakers in the middle–but it was still very nice and even (surprisingly) Rite I. The readers, all adult grandchildren, were pretty terrible, but the scriptures were well chosen. The speakers–two friends and two children–were wonderful. They made everyone laugh, remembering Barb. The minister, young and wet behind the ears, was straight out of central casting–the guy to call when you need a nerdly, balding, beanpole cleric. I would not hold his looks against him, but his voice was high and thin and he raced through communion. He made me appreciate our rector and long for Arthur Shields.

It was a long service, but it was a celebration of Barb’s life, so why shouldn’t it be? Her friends and family will truly miss her. And we will remember her.

“Remember the wonderful works that he has done,” goes David’s song–remember what he has done in the lives of each of us; and beyond that remember what he has done in the life of the world; remember above all what he has done in Christ-remember those moments in our own lives when with only the dullest understanding but with the sharpest longing we have glimpsed that Christ’s kind of life is the only life that matters and that all other kinds of life are riddled with death; remember those moments in our lives when Christ came to us in countless disguises through people who one way or another strengthened us, comforted us, healed us, judged us, by the power of Christ alive within them. All that is the past. All that is what there is to remember. And because that is the past, because we remember, we have this high and holy hope: that what he has done, he will continue to do, that what he has begun in us and our world, he will in unimaginable ways bring to fullness and fruition.

Into paradise may the angels lead thee, Barb, and at thy coming may the martyrs receive thee, and bring thee into the holy city Jerusalem.

(The quote, of course, is Frederick Buechner.)

“All the cattle are standin’ like statues”*

by chuckofish

Everyone has a bucket list I guess. I know I do. But while many people may dream of traveling to the Amalfi Coast or other far flung locales, I would like to go to Oklahoma. Yes, I know…but Oklahoma is a state rich in history! It is, after all, the “I.T.”–the Indian Territory.

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It is also the home of the National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum, which I have always wanted to visit. I especially want to visit since finding out that my ancestor, John Wesley Prowers, is one of the “Great Westerners” in their Hall of Fame.

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There he is listed right after John Wesley Powell (the famous one-armed geologist) and before Ronald Reagan. He was inducted in 1963.

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Pretty cool, eh?

How can you not love a museum that has honored this guy?

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John Wayne being inducted into the Hall of Fame in 1965

On the way to Oklahoma City, I would stop in Tulsa, which is the home of the Thomas Gilcrease Institute of American History and Art, which houses the world’s largest and most comprehensive collection of art and artifacts of the American West.

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Tulsa is also the home of the Philbrook Museum of Art, located in part in the 1920s villa of oilman Waite Phillips (of Philmont fame).

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So one of these days we’ll get our kicks on Route 66 and head to Oklahoma.

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It’s on the List.

*Oscar Hammerstein, “Oh What a Beautiful Morning”

“Chair’d in the adamant of Time”*

by chuckofish

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I feel so sorry for anyone who misses the experience of history, the horizons of history. We think little of those who, given the chance to travel, go nowhere. We deprecate provincialism. But it is possible to be as provincial in time as it is in space. Because you were born into this particular era doesn’t mean it has to be the limit of your experience. Move about in time, go places. Why restrict your circle of acquaintances to only those who occupy the same stage we call the present?”

–David McCullough, “Recommended Itinerary” in Brave Companions

I concur.

As we approach Independence Day on July 4, why not read some history?

*Walt Whitman, “America”; the painting is by Childe Hassam.

“Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests”*

by chuckofish

How was your weekend? After a busy week at work, I was up for a down weekend.

We took the door off a bedroom doorway upstairs, so that we could fit the leather wing chair from downstairs through it. This was quite a process.

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We put the door back on.

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The OM and I went to Steak n’ Shake for lunch. The boy and daughter #3 came over for dinner.

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I went to a couple of estate sales. One was in our old neighborhood–a very nice old house, well-maintained (but not pretentiously so) and full of interesting stuff reflective of lives well lived. It is nice to see people’s collections and interests–even if they are not things that particularly interest me. They had a box of LP’s that was very familiar–the Kingston Trio!–and lots of books. I bought a couple of books and a plate.

The other home was in a neighborhood that was previously terra incognita to me until I started venturing out to estate sales. It is in a south county neighborhood where all the streets have names relating to General Grant and Julia Dent (Grantwood Village) so you can see how I would find it appealing. This particular house was clearly owned by someone who had probably worked at Anheuser-Busch his entire life in the brewing division and collected beer steins. They had traveled abroad and had a party basement with a full bar (with tap) that was wonderfully mid-century modern. There was absolutely nothing for me in this house, but, again, it was pleasant to be in a home where people had been happy. Somehow you can always tell.

I guess I am just a snoop at heart, but I do love to look into houses and make suppositions about the people who lived there.

We had a thunderstorm, thank heavens, and it rained for some time on Saturday afternoon. It was raining while I was talking to my DP on the phone and I saw what at first I thought was a large cat across the street at our neighbors house. Then I realized it was a fox nosing around. It  looked healthy enough, so I’m not sure why it was out and about in the  late afternoon, but it was very exciting to see.

Life goes on despite all the sound and fury in the world. It is always the little things, like seeing a fox or checking out some stranger’s beer stein collection or seeing the boy and his lovely wife, that make us the happiest. Good to remember.

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Ah that full-bellied moon she’s a shining on me*

by chuckofish

When I took a walk this morning quite early (6:30!) the moon was still visible.

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painting by Thomas van Stein

And it got me thinking about a curious piece of folklore that I recently came across; namely, that some women (usually witches) have the power to “draw down the moon.” The earliest reference to this phenomenon that I’ve encountered is in a 7th century BC Neo-Assyrian letter in which the writer denounces some Syrians to the king, claiming that:

Zazâ, the wife of Tarṣî, and her sons should not be kept alive, O king, my lord! The priest is a brother-in-law of Tarṣî. Their wives bring down the moon from the sky!

Interestingly, the notion that sorceresses can bring down the moon also appears in Greek and Roman tradition. Thessalian women were particularly associated with the act. In Aristophanes’ play, Clouds (lines 749-56), one character says, “I would buy a witch woman, a Thessalian, and take down the moon at night. Then I’d shut it up in a round box like a face mirror, and then I’d keep it there.”

Aglaonike, a Thessalian 'astronomer'

Aglaonike, a Thessalian ‘astronomer’

Plato, Plutarch, Livy and others repeat similar stories. Lucan references it in his Pharsalia:

Magic the starry lamps from the heaven can tear,

And shoot them gleaming through the dusky air;

Can blot fair Cynthia’s countenance serene,

And poison with foul spells the silver queen….

Till down, and downward still, compell’d to come,

On hallow’d herbs she sheds her fatal foam.

The image persisted into the modern age. Extolling the wonders of the telescope in 1859, the amateur astronomer, poet, and right Reverend Jeremiah Horrox wrote:

…Blest with this (telescope)

Thou shalt draw down the moon from heaven and give

Our earth to the celestial spheres and fix

Each orb in its own ordered place to run

Its course sublime in strict analogy.

It’s funny how traditions and imagery get transferred and transformed over time. There are loads of similar examples. For instance, the word Abracadabra is very, very old and started life as a potent ancient spell against fever. There really is very little new under the sun!

I leave you with this joyous video of the Icelandic commentator describing the winning goal in the final minute of the game (sorry the video is blurry). His reaction perfectly captures how happy I feel about England’s exit from the EU (it’s about time).

  • The Moon Song, Gregory Alan Isakov

 

Keeping cool, flyover style

by chuckofish

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It is really hot here in flyover country–dog days hot–and it is only June! Time to break out the gin and tonics and read poetry!

Here is an appropriate poem by old William Cullen Bryant, who probably thought the temperature was roasting at 79-degrees. Try 99-degrees! Read the whole thing–it’s good!

It is a sultry day; the sun has drunk

The dew that lay upon the morning grass,

There is no rustling in the lofty elm

That canopies my dwelling, and its shade

Scarce cools me. All is silent, save the faint

And interrupted murmur of the bee,

Settling on the sick flowers, and then again

Instantly on the wing. The plants around

Feel the too potent fervors; the tall maize

Rolls up its long green leaves; the clover droops

Its tender foliage, and declines its blooms.

But far in the fierce sunshine tower the hills,

With all their growth of woods, silent and stern,

As if the scorching heat and dazzling light

Were but an element they loved. Bright clouds,

Motionless pillars of the brazen heaven;–

Their bases on the mountains–their white tops

Shining in the far ether–fire the air

With a reflected radiance, and make turn

The gazer’s eye away. For me, I lie

Languidly in the shade, where the thick turf,

Yet virgin from the kisses of the sun,

Retains some freshness, and I woo the wind

That still delays its coming. Why so slow,

Gentle and voluble spirit of the air?

Oh, come and breathe upon the fainting earth

Coolness and life. Is it that in his caves

He hears me? See, on yonder woody ridge,

The pine is bending his proud top, and now,

Among the nearer groves, chestnut and oak

Are tossing their green boughs about. He comes!

Lo, where the grassy meadow runs in wives!

The deep distressful silence of the scene

Breaks up with mingling of unnumbered sounds

And universal motion. He is come,

Shaking a shower of blossoms from the shrubs,

And bearing on the fragrance; and he brings

Music of birds, and rustling of young boughs,

And sound of swaying branches, and the voice

Of distant waterfalls. All the green herbs

Are stirring in his breath; a thousand flowers,

By the road-side and the borders of the brook,

Nod gaily to each other; glossy leaves

Are twinkling in the sun, as if the dew

Were on them yet, and silver waters break

Into small waves and sparkle as he comes.

–William Cullen Bryant, “Summer Wind”

Have a good weekend–keep cool!