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“You may never be as wise as an owl but you’ll always be a hoot to me! “*

by chuckofish

Ding dong, it’s Friday once again. Sunday is the OM’s birthday, so I am sure we will celebrate the passage of another year in some wild and crazy way (haha). But it won’t be anything cool like this:

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John Wayne has been gone for thirty-seven years, but he still has an official Instagram account! And it’s a good one! I also like Gemma Correll’s Instagram–she captures the introvert like no one else.

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Speaking of the internet…this is my kind of guy–a commando chaplain! Except for his stance on female priests, he was kind of perfect.

And there is wild scifi stuff going on at my flyover university. It’s a locust and it’s wearing a backpack!

Have a good weekend!

*Susan Cooper in Spy (2015)

Snap out of it!

by chuckofish

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Tuesday I received a care package from daughter #1. It was full of the treats she had planned on bringing with her on her doomed visit over the 4th of July holiday.

How sweet is that?

Tonight I will indulge myself with a face mask while reading about Viggo Mortensen.

And, hey, doesn’t this picture featured on Chinoiserie Chic look like my bedroom?!

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Well, kind of. You get the idea from this badly lit iPhone photo, right?

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We had a big storm yesterday and lots of people have no electricity. Luckily we have our power, but lots of tree branches and leaves came down. Quelle mess! Of course, the storm hit just as I was driving home–yikes–I thought my little car might blow away! Ah, flyover weather…

Have a calm and peaceful Thursday! The weekend is just around the corner…

Walking out the gate

by chuckofish

Did you know that National Simplicity Day was observed yesterday (July 12th) in Thoreau’s honor? I did not know this.

However, there are so many of these “unofficial” holidays, one can hardly be expected to keep track of them all.

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Poor Thoreau. I have no doubt that he would be totally non-plussed by his latter day popularity. I mean what would he think of everyone contemplating simplicity on a special day, and texting each other Thoreau memes on their iPhones? Oy.

I have to say, though, that I have given a lot of thought lately to this idea: “It is desirable that a man live in all respects so simply and preparedly that if an enemy take the town… he can walk out the gate empty-handed and without anxiety.” (Walden)

If an enemy took the town, I could do that. I have a lot of stuff, but it is just stuff.  I would take great-great-great-grandmother Hannah Patten’s sampler (out of the frame and rolled up) with me.

For now, I’m dealing with a typical flyover summer…

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Cherish your moodiness

by chuckofish

"Melancholy Promenade" by Diego Rivera, 1904

“Melancholy Promenade” by Diego Rivera, 1904

Now I yearn for one of those old, meandering, dry, uninhabited roads, which lead away from towns, which lead away from temptation, which conduct to the outside of earth, over its uppermost crust; where you may forget in what country you are travelling; where no farmer can complain that you are treading down his grass, no gentleman who has recently constructed a seat in the country that you are trespassing; on which you can go off half-cock and wave adieu to the village; along which you may travel like a pilgrim, going nowhither; where travellers are not too often to be met; where my spirit is free; where the walls and fences are not cared for, where your head is more in heaven than your feet on earth; which have long reaches where you can see the approaching traveller half a mile off and be prepared for him; not so luxuriant a soil as to attract men; some root and stump fences which do not need attention; where travellers have no occasion to stop, but pass along and leave you to your thoughts; where it makes no odds which way you face, whether you are going or coming; whether it is morning or evening, mid-noon or midnight; where earth is cheap enough by being public; where you can walk and think with least obstruction, there being nothing to measure progress by; where you can pace when your breast is full, and cherish your moodiness; where you are not in false relations with men, are not dining nor conversing with them; by which you may go to the uttermost parts of the earth.

–H.D. Thoreau, A Writer’s Journal

It is the birthday of Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862), so let’s celebrate by reading the longest sentence ever (see above) and having some alone-time in the out-of-doors.

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“The Tree” by John Milne Donald, 1861

Cheers to Henry David Thoreau! Enjoy your Tuesday.

You win some, you lose some…

by chuckofish

This weekend I finished She Shall Have Murder by Delano Ames (I did not correctly guess who the murderer was!), went to several estate sales where I picked up a few books, and had dinner out with some old friends at a “gastropub” in hipster Maplewood.

muddledEmboldened by the example of daughter #2, I even  ordered a specialty cocktail–a Blue Berry Bourbon Tonic–which I enjoyed very much.

I also caught up on my House Beautiful reading. In her July column Charlotte Moss writes about taking a week and visiting some famous historic houses in Virginia with a friend (a great idea!) and how much we can learn from these beautiful house museums and gardens. Of course, I couldn’t agree more. I think it is a very important thing to do–especially with one’s children and grandchildren–and I would extend this to historic sites as well. She concludes by saying, “Go, see, do…three simple ideas I implore you to embrace. Explore your own town–what could be a better place to start? Then get out the map, make a mark, grab a friend, and fill’er up!”

I was inspired to get the OM motivated to do just that on Sunday. After a fair amount of hemming and hawing, he finally acquiesced and we set out for the old Fort Belle Fontaine County Park in north St. Louis County. This is the place where the first United States military installation west of the Mississippi River was established in 1805. Lewis and Clark’s Corps of Discovery expedition (1804-1806) spent the first night of their expedition on an island opposite Cold Water Creek and their last night two years later at the fort, which had been established in their absence. Other major expeditions left from this site between 1805 and 1819 to explore the newly acquired Louisiana Territory.

I had read about this little known place in an old article about WPA projects in St. Louis. The park includes massive stonework features that the Works Progress Administration added in the 1930s when the City of St. Louis owned the property. There are also great views of the Missouri River and you know how I love our river.

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I did not take these photos, as you will see, but you can see what’s in the park…

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Finding it was not easy–our GPS took us to a non-existent entrance–but we persisted and finally made it, only to be greeted by an excruciatingly unpleasant and uninformative park employee manning the gate, who gave us no instructions, only the evil eye for causing her to have to stand up and check us in. We drove around looking, but finally realized there was no way to get to the river and the fort by car–only by a 3-mile foot trail which was too long for the OM–so we left.

Since we were up north, we figured we would head over to Alton, IL to find somewhere to eat lunch, but that town had not unrolled its sidewalks yet–maybe they don’t on Sunday–and the sports bars and pubs were all shuttered. We could have gone to the casino (!) but we opted to go home. It was a 60-mile round-trip “Sunday drive.” Well, vous en gagnez un peu, vous en perdez un peu.

This experience will not deter me from exploring, and hopefully the OM will not throw in the towel either. So go, see, do! and good luck!

“If the wolves offer friendship, do not count on success”*

by chuckofish

As I scrolled through Netflix the other night, a Jordanian film called Theeb caught my eye and I watched it. Set in the magnificent Wadi Rum in 1916, Theeb chronicles the struggle of a Bedouin boy (the eponymous Theeb) to survive in the unpredictable, changing adult world.

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Despite the historical setting, WWI and the Arab Revolt provide a backdrop and nothing more. None of the main players in the Arab Revolt make an appearance or even get mentioned, albeit the briefly encountered Englishman is clearly reminiscent of T.E. Lawrence. Even Auda Abu Tayi, the great Howeitat leader, who actually lived in Wadi Rum, is excluded. Likewise, neither women nor religion play any role. Rather, the film concerns itself with the boy Theeb, his brother, and the antagonist, a guide turned brigand by geopolitical forces way beyond his control. It’s not perfect by any means, but it is beautifully filmed,

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well acted (the boy and his brother are not professional actors),

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and has good music (listen to the whole segment). Most reviewers call it an adventure and liken it to westerns, and while this assessment may be superficially true, I think it misses the point. What makes the film interesting is the distinctly Bedouin take on codes of behavior and survival. Theeb is definitely worth a view.

Incidentally, Wadi Rum is Jordan’s Monument Valley. If you aren’t up for Theeb but want to appreciate the incredible scenery, you can see it in Lawrence of Arabia, The Martian, Prometheus, Red Planet, The Last Days on Mars, or Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen. Clearly, this locale is a favorite stand-in for Mars.

*From the voice-over at the beginning of the movie: “In questions of brotherhood, never refuse a guest. Be the right hand of the right when men make their stand. And if the wolves offer friendship, do not count on success; they will not stand beside you when you are facing death.”

Freaky Friday

by chuckofish

Leon De Smet, A Girl by the Table, 1921

It’s Friday and the end to a busy week at work.

This went viral this week and I guess we know why.

Daughter #2 commented on yesterday’s post in a way that made me realize she had never heard the phrase “Go for the gusto, or don’t go at all!” and probably did not know its derivation–unlike us oldsters who remember those old Schlitz Beer ads from the 1970s. Here is one of them to jog your memory:

And here’s a little Freddy B. to start your weekend on a positive note, especially if you are feeling a little bummed.

God created us in joy and created us for joy, and in the long run not all the darkness there is in the world and in ourselves can separate us finally from that joy, because whatever else it means to say that God created us in his image, I think it means that even when we cannot believe in him, even when we feel most spiritually bankrupt and deserted by him, his mark is deep within us. We have God’s joy in our blood.

—Frederick Buechner, “The Great Dance” in Secrets in the Dark: A Life in Sermons, 240.

Meanwhile, tonight we can watch some good movies starring Olivia de Havilland (and Errol Flynn) on TCM.

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Have fun this weekend and–

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(The painting is ‘A Girl by the Table’ by Leon De Smet, 1921)

The greatest thing since sliced bread

by chuckofish

Sliced bread was  first sold on this day in 1928, advertised as “the greatest forward step in the baking industry since bread was wrapped.” This huge step for mankind was taken right here in my flyover state, in Chillicothe, Missouri!

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I guess they are still pretty proud of this fact.

Also on this day in 1954 Memphis DJ Dewey Phillips played “That’s All Right” for the first time on his Red, Hot, and Blue show. Listeners began phoning in, eager to find out who the singer was. It was Elvis Presley.

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The rest is history.

Today is also World Chocolate Day–celebrations include the consumption of chocolate. Well, duh.

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So what is our message for today? Enjoy the day! Take a risk! Eat dessert!

Speaking of going for the gusto, here is a picture of the boy playing ice hockey in his men’s league.wrc hockeyHe wanted to play as a youngster, but we encouraged him to speed skate instead, which he did for several years. Then he switched to lacrosse. Good to see him finally padded up and happy! (BTW, where’s your mouth guard?!)

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You don’t say!

by chuckofish

As you know, Olivia de Havilland turned 100 last week.

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Of course, you know that she is a two-time Oscar winner, but did you know that she is a devout Episcopalian and a lay reader to boot? Well, she is. Just like me.

She attends the Cathedral Church of the Holy Trinity in Paris (aka the American Cathedral in Paris).

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Here is an interesting article about Olivia and how she feels about lay reading–and within it a link to another, longer article.

I completely agree with Olivia, of course. Can you imagine having Olivia de Havilland as a lay reader in your church?

By the way, Olivia de Havilland is the Star of the Month on TCM, so they will be showing her movies every Friday in the month of July. Here’s the schedule.

In other news: TCM is “Presenting Shane and 100 other westerns” this month on Tuesday and Wednesday nights! Check out the schedule here.

SO many good movies!

Flyover weekend

by chuckofish

All my weekend plans were dashed, because Southwest Airlines canceled daughter #1’s flight and there was nothing else available until Sunday night that didn’t cost $1500.

I tried to rally myself, but was pretty unsuccessful. The OM and I ventured out to Franklin County to stock up on fireworks, which we did, but it was in a rainstorm, so, not much fun.

In fact, the whole weekend was a washout, literally and figuratively. Indeed, it rained all weekend.

Saturday night I watched 21 Jump Street AND 22 Jump Street in a sad attempt to amuse myself.

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Channing Tatum did the trick, but the effects were fleeting. Sunday night I tried again with My Blue Heaven (1990) and Uncle Buck (1989).

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Sigh. Monday morning I got up to watch the V.P. 4th of July Parade on television, only to find out that it had taken place on Saturday morning. Oops.

Thank goodness the boy and daughter #3 came over for the obligatory 4th of July bar-b-que.

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We ate burgers and watermelon and then we drove over to the high school to watch the local flyover fireworks display.IMG_2052When we got home we shot off the fireworks we had bought on Saturday. I felt much better–alls well that ends well, as they say.

And you know what else they say:

Depression is boring, I think
and I would do better to make
some soup and light up the cave.*

Now it is Tuesday and the work week has begun. Oh joy.

*The quote is from the poem “The Fury of Rain Storms” by Anne Sexton.