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“Chair’d in the adamant of Time”*

by chuckofish

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I feel so sorry for anyone who misses the experience of history, the horizons of history. We think little of those who, given the chance to travel, go nowhere. We deprecate provincialism. But it is possible to be as provincial in time as it is in space. Because you were born into this particular era doesn’t mean it has to be the limit of your experience. Move about in time, go places. Why restrict your circle of acquaintances to only those who occupy the same stage we call the present?”

–David McCullough, “Recommended Itinerary” in Brave Companions

I concur.

As we approach Independence Day on July 4, why not read some history?

*Walt Whitman, “America”; the painting is by Childe Hassam.

“Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests”*

by chuckofish

How was your weekend? After a busy week at work, I was up for a down weekend.

We took the door off a bedroom doorway upstairs, so that we could fit the leather wing chair from downstairs through it. This was quite a process.

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We put the door back on.

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The OM and I went to Steak n’ Shake for lunch. The boy and daughter #3 came over for dinner.

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I went to a couple of estate sales. One was in our old neighborhood–a very nice old house, well-maintained (but not pretentiously so) and full of interesting stuff reflective of lives well lived. It is nice to see people’s collections and interests–even if they are not things that particularly interest me. They had a box of LP’s that was very familiar–the Kingston Trio!–and lots of books. I bought a couple of books and a plate.

The other home was in a neighborhood that was previously terra incognita to me until I started venturing out to estate sales. It is in a south county neighborhood where all the streets have names relating to General Grant and Julia Dent (Grantwood Village) so you can see how I would find it appealing. This particular house was clearly owned by someone who had probably worked at Anheuser-Busch his entire life in the brewing division and collected beer steins. They had traveled abroad and had a party basement with a full bar (with tap) that was wonderfully mid-century modern. There was absolutely nothing for me in this house, but, again, it was pleasant to be in a home where people had been happy. Somehow you can always tell.

I guess I am just a snoop at heart, but I do love to look into houses and make suppositions about the people who lived there.

We had a thunderstorm, thank heavens, and it rained for some time on Saturday afternoon. It was raining while I was talking to my DP on the phone and I saw what at first I thought was a large cat across the street at our neighbors house. Then I realized it was a fox nosing around. It  looked healthy enough, so I’m not sure why it was out and about in the  late afternoon, but it was very exciting to see.

Life goes on despite all the sound and fury in the world. It is always the little things, like seeing a fox or checking out some stranger’s beer stein collection or seeing the boy and his lovely wife, that make us the happiest. Good to remember.

Luke 9:58

Ah that full-bellied moon she’s a shining on me*

by chuckofish

When I took a walk this morning quite early (6:30!) the moon was still visible.

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And it got me thinking about a curious piece of folklore that I recently came across; namely, that some women (usually witches) have the power to “draw down the moon.” The earliest reference to this phenomenon that I’ve encountered is in a 7th century BC Neo-Assyrian letter in which the writer denounces some Syrians to the king, claiming that:

Zazâ, the wife of Tarṣî, and her sons should not be kept alive, O king, my lord! The priest is a brother-in-law of Tarṣî. Their wives bring down the moon from the sky!

Interestingly, the notion that sorceresses can bring down the moon also appears in Greek and Roman tradition. Thessalian women were particularly associated with the act. In Aristophanes’ play, Clouds (lines 749-56), one character says, “I would buy a witch woman, a Thessalian, and take down the moon at night. Then I’d shut it up in a round box like a face mirror, and then I’d keep it there.”

Aglaonike, a Thessalian 'astronomer'

Aglaonike, a Thessalian ‘astronomer’

Plato, Plutarch, Livy and others repeat similar stories. Lucan references it in his Pharsalia:

Magic the starry lamps from the heaven can tear,

And shoot them gleaming through the dusky air;

Can blot fair Cynthia’s countenance serene,

And poison with foul spells the silver queen….

Till down, and downward still, compell’d to come,

On hallow’d herbs she sheds her fatal foam.

The image persisted into the modern age. Extolling the wonders of the telescope in 1859, the amateur astronomer, poet, and right Reverend Jeremiah Horrox wrote:

…Blest with this (telescope)

Thou shalt draw down the moon from heaven and give

Our earth to the celestial spheres and fix

Each orb in its own ordered place to run

Its course sublime in strict analogy.

It’s funny how traditions and imagery get transferred and transformed over time. There are loads of similar examples. For instance, the word Abracadabra is very, very old and started life as a potent ancient spell against fever. There really is very little new under the sun!

I leave you with this joyous video of the Icelandic commentator describing the winning goal in the final minute of the game (sorry the video is blurry). His reaction perfectly captures how happy I feel about England’s exit from the EU (it’s about time).

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Keeping cool, flyover style

by chuckofish

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It is really hot here in flyover country–dog days hot–and it is only June! Time to break out the gin and tonics and read poetry!

Here is an appropriate poem by old William Cullen Bryant, who probably thought the temperature was roasting at 79-degrees. Try 99-degrees! Read the whole thing–it’s good!

It is a sultry day; the sun has drunk

The dew that lay upon the morning grass,

There is no rustling in the lofty elm

That canopies my dwelling, and its shade

Scarce cools me. All is silent, save the faint

And interrupted murmur of the bee,

Settling on the sick flowers, and then again

Instantly on the wing. The plants around

Feel the too potent fervors; the tall maize

Rolls up its long green leaves; the clover droops

Its tender foliage, and declines its blooms.

But far in the fierce sunshine tower the hills,

With all their growth of woods, silent and stern,

As if the scorching heat and dazzling light

Were but an element they loved. Bright clouds,

Motionless pillars of the brazen heaven;–

Their bases on the mountains–their white tops

Shining in the far ether–fire the air

With a reflected radiance, and make turn

The gazer’s eye away. For me, I lie

Languidly in the shade, where the thick turf,

Yet virgin from the kisses of the sun,

Retains some freshness, and I woo the wind

That still delays its coming. Why so slow,

Gentle and voluble spirit of the air?

Oh, come and breathe upon the fainting earth

Coolness and life. Is it that in his caves

He hears me? See, on yonder woody ridge,

The pine is bending his proud top, and now,

Among the nearer groves, chestnut and oak

Are tossing their green boughs about. He comes!

Lo, where the grassy meadow runs in wives!

The deep distressful silence of the scene

Breaks up with mingling of unnumbered sounds

And universal motion. He is come,

Shaking a shower of blossoms from the shrubs,

And bearing on the fragrance; and he brings

Music of birds, and rustling of young boughs,

And sound of swaying branches, and the voice

Of distant waterfalls. All the green herbs

Are stirring in his breath; a thousand flowers,

By the road-side and the borders of the brook,

Nod gaily to each other; glossy leaves

Are twinkling in the sun, as if the dew

Were on them yet, and silver waters break

Into small waves and sparkle as he comes.

–William Cullen Bryant, “Summer Wind”

Have a good weekend–keep cool!

“Your mind seems to jump around in the most unregulated way, Jane”*

by chuckofish

What are you reading?

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I just finished Still Life by Louise Penny, which my DP recommended. I read the whole thing and it held my interest, so I will probably try another one at some point. However, I had the murderer pegged very early–like, immediately. Clearly, it is a character-driven cozy, but I thought the author could have made it a little less obvious.

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Next up is Career of Evil, third in the “highly acclaimed series featuring private detective Cormoran Strike and his assistant Robin Ellacott” by Robert Galbraith (aka J.K. Rowling). I liked the first two, so chances are good I will like this one.

What I am really in the mood for is an old fashioned Delano Ames mystery–the ones featuring Dagobert Brown, black sheep of a titled English family, and Jane Hamish, a well-educated, self-supporting Englishwoman whom he eventually marries. He suggests that she write mysteries, which are based on their adventures. They are very funny.

And what you say? They are back in print?! Yes, I see they are.

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Well, add to cart! Huzzah!

Delano Ames, She Shall Have Murder, 1948

The shape of my life

by chuckofish

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The shape of my life today starts with a family. I have a husband, five children and a home just beyond the suburbs of New York. I have also a craft, writing, and therefore work I want to pursue. The shape of my life is, of course, determined by many other things; my background and childhood, my mind and its education, my conscience and its pressures, my heart and its desires. I want to give and take from my children and husband, to share with friends and community, to carry out my obligations to man and to the world, as a woman, as an artist, as a citizen.

But I want first of all — in fact, as an end to these other desires — to be at peace with myself. I want a singleness of eye, a purity of intention, a central core to my life that will enable me to carry out these obligations and activities as well as I can. I want, in fact — to borrow from the languages of the saints — to live “in grace” as much of the time as possible. I am not using this term in a strictly theological sense. By grace I mean an inner harmony, essentially spiritual, which can be translated into outward harmony. I am seeking perhaps what Socrates asked for in the prayer from Phaedrus when he said, “May the outward and the inward man be at one.” I would like to achieve a state of inner spiritual grace from which I could function and give as I was meant to in the eye of God.

–Anne Morrow Lindbergh, A Gift From the Sea

Today is the birthday of Anne Morrow Lindbergh, a very wise woman. She was also an American author, aviator, the wife of aviator Charles Lindbergh, and a graduate of Smith College.

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She was in fact celebrating her 50th reunion the year I graduated.  She gave a speech that year at Smith, “The Journey Not the Arrival,” which I don’t remember hearing–but I can’t believe I didn’t–which was later published. It is long out of print, but I am going to keep my eye peeled for that one!

Here is an interesting article with pictures by Jill Krementz taken around the time of her 50th reunion in 1978.

*The painting is by Dorothea Sharp

One day at a time

by chuckofish

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The “Serenity Prayer” is commonly attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr (June 21, 1892–June 1, 1971)  the Protestant theologian. Alcoholics Anonymous adopted the Serenity Prayer and began including it in AA materials in 1942.

Here’s the second part of the prayer:

Living one day at a time;
enjoying one moment at a time;
accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
that I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
forever in the next.
Amen.

Pretty great. Discuss among yourselves.

Smoke in my nostrils*

by chuckofish

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How was your weekend? Did you celebrate Father’s Day? The OM and I went to Ted Drewes for frozen custard after an annoying church service on Sunday.

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Frozen custard always helps when it is too early to have a drink.

The boy and daughter #3 came over on Saturday night to celebrate Father’s Day. We barbequed hot dogs and beans. They brought over a leather wing chair-recliner from her grandparents’ house for the OM and now he will probably never get out of it again. We laughed a lot about that at his expense.

Earlier in the weekend he had hung up a shade in a bathroom, an endeavor that took 45 minutes of goddamits to finish, so he deserved all the rewards of the weekend.

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The shade was my reward. Happy Monday.

*Isaiah 65:5

Those who are considered good, resemble each other in much*

by chuckofish

It’s Eurocup Soccer time again and this year I’ve become an ardent supporter of the wonderful underdog team from Iceland, which has never qualified for the competition before. I mean look at them. They’re Vikings:

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Everyone on the team has a name like Hörður Björgvin Magnússon, Ragnar Sigurðsson, or Birkir Bjarnason — there are no imports here. Something like 8% of the entire population of Iceland has made the trip to France to be supportive, and probably also because they get to wear Viking helmets and do awesome chants, which you can check out here (scroll down and you’ll find a video — ignore the whistling, it’s the Portuguese fans).

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In their first game Iceland managed to tie 1-1 with Portugal, one of the very top teams. Scoring even one goal  seemed almost miraculous, so let’s hear it for Iceland! They play against Hungary today at noon… be there or be square.

P.S. Watching sports with the DH is a good Father’s Day activity. Also, boy #3 arrived last night to take part in the festivities. Fun times ahead!

*Icelandic proverb = Mart er líkt með þeim sem góðir þykjast.

Deep thoughts for Friday

by chuckofish

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Ah, it is Friday again. Per usual I have no big plans for the weekend. I will be working on filling my kitchen with good vibes (see here.)

Father’s Day is Sunday, so hopefully we will see the boy and daughter #3 at some point, but nothing is on the calendar yet. I guess it is time to wrap up some Old Spice!

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Anyway, here are a few things to think about to put you in the mood for celebrating with your OM:

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“Never half-ass two things. Whole-ass one thing.” (Ron Swanson, Parks and Recreation)

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Our own pater was not one for handing out advice. (I could have used some.) In fact, he was not one for chatting with his kids. I guess that’s a pity, but certainly not uncommon. I had Ward Cleaver and John Wayne to stand in and I am not complaining.

As far as appropriate movies for the Father’s Day weekend, I would suggest:

To Kill a Mockingbird (1962) with Gregory Peck as one of the best fathers ever,

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The Bicycle Thief (1948) with Lamberto Maggiorani as a father who can’t catch a break in De Sica’s classic,

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East of Eden (1955) with Raymond Massey and James Dean as dueling father and son,

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or Rebel Without a Cause (1955) with Jim Backus and James Dean as dueling father and son,

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Big Jake (1971) starring John Wayne and two of his real-life sons and Christopher Mitchum (son of Robert) in pursuit of kidnappers,

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and Life is Beautiful (1997) with Roberto Benigni as the best father ever (next to Atticus Finch) who tries to protect his son emotionally and physically from Nazis in a concentration camp.

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There are plenty more, but these are the ones that come to mind.

Have a good weekend. See you on Monday when I will be able to say, “In the immortal words of Julius Cesar, ‘I left, I did nothing, I returned.’” (Larry David)