dual personalities

The outlook wasn’t brilliant for the Mudville nine that day

by chuckofish

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“This was a new recognition that perfection is admirable but a trifle inhuman, and that a stumbling kind of semi-success can be more warming. Most of all, these exultant yells for the Mets were also yells for ourselves, and came from a wry, half-understood recognition that there is more Met than Yankee in every one of us. I knew for whom that foghorn blew; it blew for me.”

–Roger Angell, The Summer Game

Yes, let’s keep this in mind.

The Cards have had a rough few weeks, but things are looking up, okay? Can we all just lighten up?

“A wet knot stays tied longer’n a dry knot”*

by chuckofish

The realization that daughter #2 is getting married in three weeks (!) really hit me this weekend. Most things are taken care of and all, but a lot of people will be descending on our flyover town and–wow–it is a real thing.

Anyway, the OM got moving on his patio project and with the indispensable help of the boy, built a little paved space for the barbecue where there had previously been some bushes.

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I worked in the yard, pulling vines etc and generally wore myself out. It is a lot easier to do that these days.

I also started re-reading Jan Karon’s most recent book, the appropriately titled, Come Rain or Come Shine–about Dooley’s country wedding on the lawn, which is surprisingly similar to daughter #2’s planned nuptials. (Hers is not a potluck and there is no bull in the field, but…)

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‘Lord,’ he said aloud as he switched on the ignition, ‘may it please you to give us a wonderful day with good weather. That said, Lord–and I mean this sincerely–your will be done.’

I am committed to Father Tim’s attitude. I am not going to worry about the weather, there being no point. Que sera sera.

The wee babes came over for dinner with their parents on Saturday night.

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The twins turned 6 months old this weekend, but adjusted for preemies, they are like 3 month-olds. They have come so far! We are so thankful.

Have a good week!

*Willie in Come Rain or Come Shine

Those are the memories that make me a wealthy soul*

by chuckofish

The DH and I have fundamentally different approaches to cleaning house. He likes to do things incrementally, one box at a time, over a period of weeks or months. But when I get the urge to clean, which admittedly isn’t that often, I like to go at it all at once and get it done. After nearly twenty-eight years of marriage, we’ve learned when to do things my way and when to do things his way, which is to say that the incremental method prevails. We are slowly (oh so slowly) excavating our attic, although truth be told, this is one project that requires the DH’s tortoise-steady approach. It’s actually kind of fun to see what’s in boxes that have not been opened in decades. One contained an assortment of favorite baby clothes.

Those little outfits certainly bring back memories. 1990 was a good year in baby fashion, don’t you think?

In another box, I found a little metal box in which I had carefully filed cards for books that I read between 1971 and 1978. Not everything made it on the list, but it was interesting. 1973 included:

  • Jack London, The Call of the Wild (summer)
  • John Buchan, Prester John
  • Lloyd Douglas, The Robe
  • Roger Zelazny, Nine Princes in Amber
  • James Fenimore Cooper, The Last of the Mohicans
  • Mary Chase, “Harvey”
  • Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird
  • Robert Graves, I, Claudius
  • Robert Graves, Goodbye to All That
  • Lew Wallace, Ben Hur
  • C. P. Wren, Beau Geste
  • W. Saroyen, The Human Comedy
  • C. S. Lewis, Out of the Silent Planet
  • John Buchan, Sick Heart River
  • John Buchan, The 39 Steps
  • Kingsley, “Men in White”
  • James Hilton, Lost Horizon
  • Victoria Holt, Bride of Pendorric 
  • Herb Gardner, “A Thousand Clowns”
  • E. M. Forster, A Passage to India 
  • Van Dyke, The Other Wise Man

In 1972, I seem to have read all the available Mary Stewart books and a few other quality romances, but I also managed some literature, including Jane Eyre,  Lord Jim, and The Deerslayer. I had eclectic tastes, and still do. It was fun looking through the card file, which besides the book cards contained this wonderful pencil (!) postcard posted July 13, 1973 by our dear brother.

He and a friend were hitchhiking to Alaska, where they planned to make piles of money working in a fish factory. In practical terms, the plan lacked some essentials, such as funding.

Hi, Faithful family,

Am at present on Rt. 15, almost to the Canadian border. Have had pretty good luck, having spent only $.70/each. Our longest wait was in Neb.(as might be expected) — five hours — on Wed. We were entertained in both K.C. and Casper by Tom’s friends, and on two occasions were fed by the people who had picked us up. We drove right by Teapot Dome in Wyo., and have seen some extraordinary sights in Montana, namely the head waters of the Missouri, and, of course, the Rockies. We figure that when we reach Edmonton, Alberta, we will be halfway to Alaska. If at all possible, we plan to cross the arctic circle. If we feel like it we may detour to see the Klondike in the Yukon. Am doing just fine — had apple pie for our last meal in the U.S.

Love, Your roving boy, Chris

Yes, folks, they each spent 70 cents, not 70 dollars. The postcard is quite clear on that. They were frugal because they were also broke. Alas, their lack of funds prevented them from entering Canada. They were turned back at the border by Mounties concerned that they did not have sufficient funds to see them through the wilderness. The story goes that they attempted to cross surreptitiously on foot, only to be chased back by border patrol. Things were different then, to say the least. Being young and carefree, my brother took the long route home, hitchhiking through the west and southwest on his way. No doubt he could tell us some wild stories.

I wonder what else I’ll find in the attic…

Before I sign off, I’d like to congratulate our nephew, Foster (son of the wild hitchhiker), who just defended his dissertation and earned his Ph.D. in History!! Here he is enjoying a few celebratory glasses of champagne!

Well done, Foster!

 

*Bob Seger, Travelin’ Man

 

Jesus, give the weary Calm and sweet repose

by chuckofish

It’s Friday already! I had a busy week and it zoomed by (which is usually the way, right?)

Anyway, I am ready for the weekend. We have been experiencing beautiful weather all week which I have not really been able to enjoy. Sometimes I sit on the patio after work, just to get outside for awhile. Of course, it’s supposed to get hot this weekend.

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C’est la vie.

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Hopefully I’ll get to see the wee babes.

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The wee babes wearing “peanut butter and jelly” onesies that some well-meaning friend made for them…zut alors! oh, the indignity…

Meanwhile I’ll toast my BFF, who has always been my sister and Dual Personality, because I guess yesterday was National BFF Day! Where do they come up with these things?

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Well, I never need an excuse to toast my DP…or to toast!

Now the day is over,
Night is drawing nigh,
Shadows of the evening
Steal across the sky.

Now the darkness gathers,
Stars begin to peep,
Birds, and beasts and flowers
Soon will be asleep.

Jesus, give the weary
Calm and sweet repose;
With Thy tenderest blessing
May mine eyelids close.

Grant to little children
Visions bright of Thee;
Guard the sailors tossing
On the deep, blue sea.

Comfort those who suffer,
Watching late in pain;
Those who plan some evil
From their sin restrain.

Through the long night watches
May Thine angels spread
Their white wings above me,
Watching round my bed.

When the morning wakens,
Then may I arise
Pure, and fresh, and sinless
In Thy holy eyes.

Glory to the Father,
Glory to the Son,
And to Thee, blest Spirit,
While all ages run.

–Sabine Baring-Gould

 Have a good weekend!

Thursday inspiration

by chuckofish

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He said not:

thou shalt not be troubled,

thou shalt not be tempted,

thou shalt not be distressed,

but He said:

thou shalt not be overcome.

–Julian of Norwich

(The painting is Big Sky, New Mexico by Eric Sloane)

“Top-heavy was the ship as a dinnerless student with all Aristotle in his head.”*

by chuckofish

So Bob Dylan finally made his Nobel Laureate acceptance speech, the only requirement to claim the money that comes with the prize, with several days to spare. (The deadline was June 10.)

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And of course he spent a long portion of his speech talking about Moby-Dick! Bob never disappoints.

Huzzah for Bob! And here’s some Moby-Dick for your mid-week inspiration:

“Whether to admit Hercules among us or not, concerning this I long remained dubious: for though according to the Greek mythologies, that ancient Crockett and Kit Carson–that brawny doer of rejoicing good deeds, was swallowed down and thrown up by a whale; still, whether that strictly makes a whaleman of him, that might be mooted. It nowhere appears that he ever actually harpooned his fish, unless, indeed, from the inside. Nevertheless, he may be deemed a sort of involuntary whaleman; at any rate the whale caught him, if he did not the whale. I claim him for one of our clan.”

I will also note the passing a few days ago of rock legend Gregg Allman (1947–2017) who had been sober for twenty years and was a Christian. Funnily enough, he ended up an Episcopalian! Into paradise may the angels lead you. At your coming may the martyrs receive you, and bring you into the holy city Jerusalem.

*Herman Melville, Moby-Dick

Went the day well?

by chuckofish

The OM and I watched a little known British film the other night called Went the Day Well? (1942). Adapted from a story by Graham Greene and directed by Alberto Cavalcanti, it is a classic black and white Ealing studio film that tells the story of how an English village is taken over by Nazi paratroopers pretending to be English troops. It reflects the greatest potential nightmare of many at the time.

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I thought it was quite a shocking film and very suspenseful. The Germans are evil, of course, and the English, at first, are innocent and trusting.

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A fifth columnist and a German masquerading as a British soldier stand ironically in front of the WWI memorial in the village.

The violence (although nothing like the violence in Hacksaw Ridge) is also shocking. The vicar is murdered! The postmistress is bayonetted! Children are threatened and one plucky boy is shot! You want to shake your fist at the goddam Nazis and grab a tommy gun and mow them down yourself, so it is very satisfying when the townspeople finally wise up and take matters into their own hands, i.e. they fight back. I wanted to cheer when the vicar’s homely daughter, who has been nursing a crush on the village squire, kills him before he can let the Nazis into the barricaded manor house.

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It seems an appropriate choice to watch this movie on the anniversary of D-Day, don’t you think?

And then we were all in one place

by chuckofish

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Didn’t do much this weekend. Stopped by a couple of estate sales, went deeper into the Longmire oeuvre, read the first lesson in the Pentecost service on Sunday (“The sun shall be turned into darkness, and the moon into blood, before the great and notable day of the Lord come.”), and went to Washington, MO with the OM to eat some lunch by the mighty Missouri River.

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I also watched the movie Hacksaw Ridge (2016), directed by Mel Gibson, which tells the true story of Desmond Doss, the first conscientious objector to win the Congressional Medal of Honor.

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(“Doss single-handedly entered enemy line of fire to retrieve approximately 75 casualties, carrying them one-by-one down a 400-foot escarpment. “*)

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Doss, a Seventh Day Adventist, who refused to carry a gun on religious grounds, although he served in a fighting unit as a medic, was ostracized at first by fellow soldiers for his pacifist stance. However, he went on to earn their respect and adoration for his bravery, selflessness and compassion after he risked his life — without firing a shot — to save 75 wounded men in the Battle of Okinawa. It is a pretty inspiring story and well told, and a throwback to heroic war stories of the Golden Age of Hollywood. The cast is good with Andrew Garfield excellent as Doss, playing it very straight, and the likable Vince Vaughan channeling John Wayne in the Sgt. Stryker role. 

But (and this is a big but) the computer-generated violence is over-the-top. Just because you can now show people having their legs blown off, doesn’t mean you should. The battle sequences are too much and obscene in their detail. It would have been possible to cut 20 minutes out of this movie and still gotten across the horror of the battle (and it was truly horrible, no doubt about it). Whatever happened to restraint and suggestion?

Mel Gibson, as we know, is a single-minded Roman Catholic, who, as we have seen in past movie outings, tends to wallow, literally and figuratively, in the blood of Christ. What was his childhood trauma anyway?

Well, it is a good movie nonetheless and well worth watching for the story of the modern Christian hero Desmond Doss. Nowhere in this movie is anyone invited to laugh at or even smirk at Pvt. Doss and I liked that.

And now it is Monday. I have several hard things to do this week, but none of them is climbing Hacksaw Ridge. Onward and upward.

*Read more here.

 

Seventy-six trombones led the big parade*

by chuckofish

Except here,  a tractor  or county emergency vehicle usually leads the way. But I get ahead of myself. Today is the Dairy Princess parade and festival in my North Country town. Downtown the Green is buzzing with activity. There’s a bouncy castle, a petting zoo, a cake walk, chicken barbecue and loads of vendors selling unnecessary plastic items or colorful tutus. My church is selling bottled water and salt potatoes (whatever they are).

The parade starts at 1:00. In a good year, bagpipers lead the way and there are floats, but lately it has been mostly emergency vehicles, farm machinery belching exhaust, and random people throwing penny candy at the crowd. C’est la vie.

I plan to go anyway. Who’d want to miss this guy?

While I’m off bonding with my community, the DH and son #1, who is home for his 5th college reunion, will be on campus enjoying various alumni weekend activities. The alumni keep away from the village hoi polloi and have their own parade.

When I’ve become exhausted by my dizzying small town social life, I’ll take up my needle and do more embroidery. See how I’ve progressed? I’ve done the outline, except for the flowers and leaves which I’m adding now. The little leaves are kind of blobby, but I’m still mastering my stitches.

My progress has been made possible by the brilliant gift of a needle-threader from my very sweet niece, Mary. Thank you!

What will they think of next?

Have a wonderful weekend!

*”The Music Man”. Dairy Princess photos from the blog, “Windswept Adventure,” and NCPR (north country public radio) via Google. SLU photo from http://www.stlawu.edu.

 

 

A landslide in the mind

by chuckofish

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“Perhaps there can be too much making of cups of tea, I thought, as I watched Miss Statham filling the heavy teapot. Did we really need a cup of tea? I even said as much to Miss Statham and she looked at me with a hurt, almost angry look, ‘Do we need tea? she echoed. ‘But Miss Lathbury…’ She sounded puzzled and distressed and I began to realise that my question had struck at something deep and fundamental. It was the kind of question that starts a landslide in the mind. I mumbled something about making a joke and that of course one needed tea always, at every hour of the day or night.”

–Barbara Pym, Excellent Women

Happy birthday to Barbara Pym, the English novelist, born in 1913. I am re-reading A Glass of Blessings and enjoying it very much. Just the thing to calm the mind after a short but stressful week at work. (At least until the next Walt Longmire mystery arrives in the mail.) I recommend her to you.

And this is funny.

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Have a good weekend.

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What have you got planned? Sunday is The Day of Pentecost:

Almighty God, on this day you opened the way of eternal life to every race and nation by the promised gift of your Holy Spirit: Shed abroad this gift throughout the world by the preaching of the Gospel, that it may reach to the ends of the earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

(The first painting is The Red Table (1919) by Leon de Smet (1881-1966); the second is by Mary Cassatt, Lady at the Tea Table (1883-85).)