dual personalities

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven”*

by chuckofish

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Koichi Okumura (1888-1976)

You expected to be sad in the fall. Part of you died each year when the leaves fell from the trees and their branches were bare against the wind and the cold, wintery light. But you knew there would always be the spring, as you knew the river would flow again after it was frozen.”
― Ernest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast 

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We still have most of our leaves on the trees here in flyover country, but winter is coming…

That which hath been is now; and that which is to be hath already been; and God requireth that which is past. (Ecclesiastes 3:15)

The last five paintings are by Andrew Wyeth.

P.S. I watched Nevada Smith (1966) last night. “I’ve got a rifle, a horse and eight dollars. It’ll  hold.”

*Ecclesiastes 3:1

 

“Like Steve McQueen underneath your radar screen”*

by chuckofish

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Well, it’s been 38 years since old Steve McQueen died on November 7, 1980. Sigh.

Tonight I’ll drive (pretty) fast in my Mini Cooper in his memory. (He owned a Mini, among many other two- and 4-wheeled vehicles.)

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And I’ll watch one of my favorite S. McQ movies.

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I guess “The Magnificent Seven” is in the Westerns section.

Sounds like a good plan. 

*Sheryl Crow

The long gray line

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2018-11-05 at 9.44.39 AM.pngMy bon ami Dick posted on Facebook yesterday about going to a football game at West Point and I don’t think he will mind if I share what he said and some of his pictures from the event.

I had a great day yesterday. Ever since I was a youngster cheering on Doc Blanchard and Glenn Davis, I have wanted to see a game at West Point and I got my wish yesterday…I was not disappointed. It happened to be a game against the Air Force Academy with the Commander in Chief trophy at stake…Army prevailed in a thriller 17-14 which went down to the last minute or so of the game. Afterward, both teams joined one another in singing each academy’s alma mater with band accompaniment. The crowd’s energy was terrific and folks were very friendly. I got to thinking that this is the way college football used to be and should be. Those guys on the field may not have been 4 or 5 stars but they were good…and all are subject to the same academic rigors as all the other cadets, they are true “student athletes.” Anyway, it was a hell of a lot of fun!

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Yes, indeed, well said*.

BTW, DN was interviewed as the man in the street regarding the “Sideline Scandal”/debacle at the University of Maryland.

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🙄 Anyway, I’m glad to hear that they still play (and coach) football at West Point the old-fashioned way–like gentlemen/student-athletes.

P.S. As you know, our great-uncle Guy went to West Point, but having failed math, he retreated to the University of Vermont. He served his country in WWI and died in the Argonne Forest. We will think of him this week as Veterans Day approaches.

*Thank you, Dick!

“See, I am making all things new.”*

by chuckofish

Why do plumbing emergencies always happen on the weekend? Because they just do. C’est la vie.

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The OM keeps an eye on the plumber as he snakes the sewer line.

Well, we had one such emergency on Saturday. The OM dealt with it mostly, since daughter #1 and I were out garage/rummage sale-ing when it occurred. Don’t worry, I helped with the clean-up on Sunday (following the longest church service in history–Pledge Sunday, All Saints Sunday and two baptisms all in one.)

The wee babes and their parents were in Kansas City, so I didn’t get to see them! Daughter #1 hurried back to Mid-MO so she could catch them as they paused in Columbia on their drive back Sunday afternoon. Sigh. I missed seeing them.

Screen Shot 2018-11-04 at 5.15.21 PM.pngBut I had a fun weekend, nevertheless. The bluegrass concert on Friday night was great. We checked out all the new Christmas stuff at Home Goods. We watched one of our favorite movies, The Man Who Went Up a Hill But Came Down a Mountain (1995), in which Hugh Grant stars and actually plays a nice guy for a change.

Screen Shot 2018-11-04 at 1.01.59 PM.pngOn Sunday afternoon, after vacuuming and cleaning up, I went through my “keep out” closet where I stow all my presents (like Babe Paley, I shop for Christmas presents all year long) and made lists of what I have for Christmas and what I still need to do.

It is time to get serious about the holidays.

And now it is Monday (!) and I’m back at the salt mine…

*Revelation 21:5

“With mirth and laughter let old wrinkles come.”*

by chuckofish

Another busy week has flown by, but there’s good news. The travelers have arrived safely in Idaho, tired but happy. To think that barely a week ago we said our tearful goodbyes (and yes, there was a little snow on the ground)!

So much can happen in a week. Son #1 shaved off his beard and with it at least five years and all his street cred (yay!).

Meanwhile, son #3’s car got the death sentence (transmission failure) and he had to rush his wonderful cat Eve to the all-night animal clinic in Indianapolis after she ate some lead solder. I guess she had a kitty stomach pump. It all worked out and she is fine.

It’s alarming how fast things can change. We always seem to be rushing around, too busy to notice our surroundings or appreciate the wonderful people in our lives. Tomorrow is my DH’s birthday, but I’m afraid the celebration will be somewhat curtailed this year — or maybe just different. There’s a gratitude potluck lunch after church tomorrow and then a Guy Fawkes bonfire party at a colleague’s farm tomorrow night. I wonder whom we will burn in effigy?

The one present (aside from a family gathering) that I know my DH would like I can’t give him; that is free time — time to read, time to sit and think, time to do nothing at all. I guess we’d all like more of that. Edgar Allan Poe got it right when he wrote,

I think that human exertion will have no appreciable effect upon humanity. Man is now only more active – not more happy – nor more wise, than he was 6000 years ago.

Hear, hear! Let’s all get off the gerbil wheel and pursue happiness and wisdom slowly and quietly. That might have an appreciable effect upon humanity, mightn’t it? I, for one, want to let the wrinkles come with mirth and laughter and some peace and quiet, too.

As we head into November, do try to slow down and appreciate the little things in life — they’re what make it all worthwhile.

*Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice

Festina Lente*

by chuckofish

It is November and we are three weeks away from Thanksgiving! Zut alors!

I am also three weeks away from leaving on a big trip–a pilgrimage to the Holy Land! Am I ready? Not exactly. (I did renew my passport.) Good grief, I need to get my act together and fast. Hopefully, I will make some progress this weekend. Last weekend daughter #2 brought me a large suitcase to use for the trip, so I will start filling it up.

I have been reading up on Israel lately.

IMG_3531.JPGFullSizeRender-3.jpgFullSizeRender-2.jpgFullSizeRender-1.jpgI’ll be ready…in the meantime, time marches on relentlessly and November is turning out to be a very busy month. First up, the OM and I are going to see “legendary bluegrass group Hot Rize” at the Sheldon tonight. Daughter #1 is driving in for it. Maybe the boy will join us.

Screen Shot 2018-11-01 at 10.35.38 AM.pngBy the way, we did watch Pony Express (1952) one night this week, but I have to confess I fell asleep. This has less to do with the quality of the film and more to do with my being an old lady who gets up too early every day to be able to watch TV at night. I must say I thought the cinematography (of the little I saw) was very good and the location shots in Kanab, Utah were impressive.

Screen Shot 2018-11-01 at 1.39.48 PM.pngMaybe I’ll try again some time. On Halloween night we turned off the lights and proceeded to watch House of Wax (1953) with hometowner Vincent Price on TCM.

Screen Shot 2018-11-01 at 1.48.04 PM.pngI fell asleep. Maybe I should stop pretending and just turn in at 7:30 pm.

Have a good weekend. Get some rest.

“Lord, keep us steadfast in thy Word”*

by chuckofish

Happy birthday, Lyle Lovett!

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Lyle Pearce Lovett (born November 1, 1957) is a Grammy-winning country singer/songwriter and actor. I have seen him in concert at least three times.IMG_3530.JPGLovett still resides in North Harris County, Texas in the farming community of Klein, named after his great-great-grandfather and where he was raised. He hails from a long line of Texas Lutherans–there are several German enclaves in the state. As such, he always ends his albums with a hymn, a country tradition, and his way of a tithe.

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Today is also All Saints’ Day. It’s a good day to remember all the saints in your life, past and present.

Almighty God, you have knit together your elect in one communion and fellowship in the mystical body of your Son Christ our Lord: Give us grace so to follow your blessed saints in all virtuous and godly living, that we may come to those ineffable joys that you have prepared for those who truly love you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen. (BCP)

*Lyle Pearce Lovett

Ein feste Burg ist unser Gott*

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2018-10-30 at 1.24.29 PM.pngOctober 31, 1517 was the day Martin Luther nailed his Ninety-five Theses on the door of the All Saints’ Church in Wittenberg.

Screen Shot 2018-10-30 at 2.14.26 PM.pngDid you know that Luther’s theses are engraved into the door of All Saints’ Church, Wittenberg? The Latin inscription above informs the reader that the original door was destroyed by a fire, and that in 1857, King Frederick William IV of Prussia ordered a replacement be made.

Today is also the anniversary of our pater’s death in 1992. One of his former students gave me a picture of him and I have it in my office. He watches over me with a slightly annoyed look on his face.

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I forgave him for his many imperfections a long time ago and I don’t mind him hanging around in my office.

“A single gentle rain makes the grass many shades greener. So our prospects brighten on the influx of better thoughts. We should be blessed if we lived in the present always, and took advantage of every accident that befell us, like the grass which confesses the influence of the slightest dew that falls on it; and did not spend our time in atoning for the neglect of past opportunities, which we call doing our duty. We loiter in winter while it is already spring.”
― Henry David Thoreau, Walden

So join me in a toast tonight to Martin Luther and to ANC III.

And if you’re going to a Great Pumpkin party, make good choices!

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*Martin Luther

What are you reading?

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2018-10-29 at 8.44.12 PM.pngOver the weekend I finished reading Clock Dance, Ann Tyler’s new book. Although the book jacket proclaims that she is “at the height of her powers,” she is not. It was very thin, and it made me sad remembering her earlier books which were favorites of mine.

That said, however, the book is not without merit, and is still a lot better than many books published these days and touted as great works of art.

Anyway, I went back to my Ann Tyler shelf and pulled out Saint Maybe from 1991. I am enjoying it a lot.

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I am also reading When You and I Were Young, Whitefish, a memoir by Dorothy M. Johnson, who you  may recall was a writer mostly known for her western fiction. She wrote the short stories that became the movies The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance, The Hanging Tree and A Man Called Horse. She was quite a gal.

What are you reading?

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Postcards from the weekend

by chuckofish

What a joy to have two daughters home for the weekend! The sun shone all weekend. We did all the things.

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Margaritas at Amigos

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Muny Mochas at Ted Drewes

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Wee babes getting ready for Boo at the Zoo

IMG_1466.jpegIMG_1464.jpegSo much fun AND we even went to church! My BFF Carla gave the Stewardship talk and it was an amazing testimony about church community. I was reminded that no matter how irritated I may become with my denomination, it is important to have a church home.

Screen Shot 2018-10-29 at 6.50.08 AM.pngI am taking daughter #2 to the airport this morning and then it’s back to the salt mine and my usual routine. Have a good week!