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Send out your light and your truth

by chuckofish

Well, it’s Friday once again. Time to look back over the week and to remind ourselves of some important things. Here’s Frederick Buechner with some wise words:

“We must be careful with our lives, for Christ’s sake, because it would seem that they are the only lives we are going to have in this puzzling and perilous world, and so they are very precious and what we do with them matters enormously.”

Have a great weekend and be careful with your life!

Like a river flows surely to the sea

by chuckofish

The wedding pictures are here. This one prompted me to rummage around and find ours from back in 1980. (Unlike most people we do not have them prominently displayed.)

The church is the same and the flowers were from the same florist, but our wedding was much smaller. An even smaller wedding was Mary and Newell’s wedding at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Savannah, Georgia in 1950.

Do you think he borrowed that blazer, or what? (I did a little internet sleuthing and verified the name of the church. Here’s an up-to-date picture of the church door–see?)

Here is a picture of my mother’s sister Donna’s more traditional wedding back home in Worcester, Massachusetts. I thought I had a picture of the wedding party with multiple bridesmaids (including my mother) and groomsmen, but (not surprisingly) I couldn’t find it.

Word is that we’ll get a CD with all 300-plus photos on it. Oh, the wonders of digital wedding photography!

Are we there yet?

by chuckofish

I’m feeling a little nostalgic today about those days of old when we loaded the kids into the wagon and headed for cooler climes and visits with family and friends.

Maybe it was the sight of daughter #2 heading off in her loaded Kia:

Ah, but for those of us on the academic calendar, the summer is virtually over. Sigh. Well, there’s always next year!

Okay now, who said: “Why aren’t we flying? Because getting there is half the fun. You know that.”

Look for me when it’s stormy

by chuckofish

Tut tut. It sure looked like rain yesterday. But (once again) no rain! It has been a frustrating summer of 100-degree weather and drought and burned up grass.

While we’re waiting for some drizzle, let’s enjoy this classic scene from Just Around the Corner (1938) with Shirley Temple and Bill Robinson on another bone-dry flyover day.

Don’t you just love Shirley?

Just for the record

by chuckofish

Peyton Manning could sell me anything.

Even a Buick.

On top of Mount Pisgah

by chuckofish

Daughter #2 is safely in Maryland, unloaded and unpacking. The boy has returned to our flyover home state. And Kermit has found a new home on a bookshelf.

“…All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well.”

In the garden

by chuckofish

This year, thanks to a friend, I got the opportunity to revive an abandoned vegetable garden in the vast and beautiful back yard of a sweet 93 year old lady, who attends our church and is an experienced gardener. She gave some good advice. Neither of us (the friend and I) had ever done any gardening before so we plunged in with a mix of trepidation and “let’s just see what happens” attitude. With the help of our darling children (son #2 and his girlfriend) we spent some grueling time digging up the weeds and preparing the ground — this was the hardest part. Then we planted lettuce, peppers, broccoli, herbs, tomatoes, eggplants, and squash and sat back to see what would happen.

First we got this.

Stage 1 doesn’t look that great what with the anti-weed plastic and newspaper, but aesthetics weren’t our first concern. Here’s some baby lettuce — yummy.

And a lovely squash

It hasn’t all been worthy of the Burpee’s catalog though. Our tomatoes are decidedly misshapen — even if they are Romanos.

no, it’s not a pepper; it’s a tomato

It’s been an adventure and to tell you the truth, I have done almost no work. I like that part best. As the immortal Nathaniel Hawthorne once wrote:

I used to visit and revisit it a dozen times a day, and stand in deep contemplation over my vegetable progeny with a love that nobody could share or conceive of who had never taken part in the process of creation. It was one of the most bewitching sights in the world to observe a hill of beans thrusting aside the soil, or a rose of early peas just peeping forth sufficiently to trace a line of delicate green. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne, Mosses from and Old Manse

I can’t say I visit the garden very often — certainly not a dozen times a day! — but I do agree that it is very cool to see a garden grow and, better still, eat its produce. Will I do it next year? Only time will tell.

Fat Baby Friday — unleash your inner child

by chuckofish

I have this picture of my youngest on the bulletin board above my desk. It always cheers me up. Those adorable feet, those pudgy legs, that happy smile…

Here’s another one of my favorites — and note the sword in hand, the influence of those elder brothers, no doubt (so, too, the chaos in the background).

So this weekend, wherever you are and whatever you do, be as happy as a chubby baby!

Happy Trails

by chuckofish

On Monday “the pod” was delivered and the packing began in earnest.

The pod was picked up on Tuesday. Bright and (very) early this morning the final packing was done.

The boy got situated riding shotgun.

And the driver took her place.

And off they went down the trail.

Vaya con Dios!

Note to self

by chuckofish

Recently I was re-reading the wonderful If You Want to Write: A Book about Art, Independence and Spirit by the wonderful Brenda Ueland, written back in 1937. She was a journalist, editor, freelance writer, and teacher of writing.

She graduated from Barnard College in 1913–I wonder if she knew our grandmother Mira Sargent, who graduated in 1914? Hmm. Another layer to the story.

Anyway, her book about writing is wonderful. Even the footnotes are great.

Yes, I am all against anxiety, worry. There are many people, you can see, who consider worry a kind of duty. Back of this I think it is the subconscious feeling that Fate or God is mean or resentful or tetchy and that if we do not worry enough we will certainly catch it from Him.

But they should remember that Christ said that we should cast off anxiety so that we could “seek first the Kingdom of Heaven and His righteousness” (i.e., live creatively, greatly, in the present) “and all these things” (beauty, happiness, goodness, talent, food and clothing) “will be added unto you.” Of course He is right.

That “Of course He is right” tells you a lot. Even if you are not interested in writing, you should check out this book.

But at last I understood from William Blake and Van Gogh and other great men, and from myself–from the truth that is in me (and for which I have at last learned to declare and stand up for, as I am trying to persuade you to stand up for your inner truth)–at last I understood that writing was this: an impulse to share with other people a feeling or truth that I myself had. Not to preach to them, but to give it to them if they cared to hear it. If they did not–fine. They did not need to listen. That was all right too.

She would have loved to blog.