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More from the Nation’s Capital

by chuckofish

I’m standing in today for my dual personality, who is jet-setting to Maryland to visit her lovely daughter, so I thought I would share a few more pics from my own visit last weekend. On Saturday, son James and I met niece Susie and her beau, Nate, for lunch at Pizzeria Paradiso. It almost went off without a hitch, but I turned the wrong way Dupont Circle and walked what seemed like miles before I realized my mistake. Orienteering has never been my strong point. Suffice it to say that I arrived a little late but none the worse for wear (thanks to a call to son #2 who set me straight). Lunch was delicious and the company delightful!

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Despite having her oral exams postponed at the last minute due to snow (I mean, really. How cruel), my niece was amazingly relaxed. I wouldn’t have been.

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My visit was full of culinary delights. After a brief afternoon visit to the overcrowded Smithsonian Museum of Natural History with James, the DH and I went over to my son’s apartment for a delicious home-cooked meal of lamb meatloaf and seasoned veg. Yum!

It was was also nice to see my son’s digs and catch up with apartment-mate, a fellow Cantonite, Madeleine.

DSC00916Don’t I look like a dutiful wife?. Anyhow, those are the highlights of my trip. The return journey was mercifully easy: temperatures rose and the windshield wiper fluid unfroze; the sun was out and there was only Sunday traffic.

I hope my dual personality travels safely and has a wonderful, wonderful time!

Way Back Wednesday

by chuckofish

Today is Johnny Appleseed Day! John Chapman was a real person,

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Harper’s Weekly 1871

who became a legend through his travels as a pioneer nurseryman and missionary for the Swedenborgian Church.

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Among other things, he is remembered for singing the Swedenborgian hymn: “Oooooh, the Lord is good to me, and so I thank the Lord, for giving me the things I need, the sun and the rain and the appleseed. The Lord is good to me. Amen.”

When I was a Sunday School teacher back in the day, we sang this as a grace before our snack. We sang it a lot at home as well, because it is pretty catchy.

I made this counted cross stitch sampler for  my son when he was little and he has it hanging in his house.

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And do you remember this? I bet you do.

So let’s raise a cup of apple juice to ol’ Johnny Appleseed tonight! Or maybe a glass of this.

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Do they still make this stuff?

I guess they do.

“You’ve got brains in your head You’ve got feet in your shoes You can steer yourself any Direction you choose”*

by chuckofish

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“There is a time in every man’s education when he arrives at the conviction that envy is ignorance; that imitation is suicide; that he must take himself for better, for worse, as his portion; that though the wide universe is full of good, no kernel of nourishing corn can come to him but through his toil bestowed on that plot of ground which is given to him to till. The power which resides in him is new in nature, and none but he knows what that is which he can do, nor does he know until he has tried.”

–Ralph Waldo Emerson (Self-Reliance)

Daughter #2 passed her oral exams with flying colors. We are very proud of her.

*Dr. Seuss

The photo is my grandmother Mira Sargent circa 100 years ago.

“It is spring again. The earth is like a child that knows poems by heart.”*

by chuckofish

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Yes, those are daffodil shoots–right on schedule. Last weekend church services were canceled all over the area and this weekend we enjoyed 60-degree days! The flora and fauna responds accordingly. Pretty amazing.

I had a busy week so I took it kind of easy on the weekend. I finished some books that I had been reading and I read up on ol’ Charles Darwin, about whom I knew not a lot. He was an interesting fellow. I understand natural selection. It is logical. But it doesn’t explain why there are elephants. Seriously, there must be a God.

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I had lunch with my girlfriends. I went to Ted Drewes with the OM.

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I watched the first chapter of that great old mini-series Shogun (1980) starring my cousin Richard as John Blackthorne.

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The Jesuits are the bad guys and Toshiro Mifune is in the cast as Lord Toranaga.

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What’s not to like? I will be watching the rest of it as the discs arrive from Netflix.

The boy and daughter #3 came over for Sunday night dinner. We barbequed!

Cute as ever

Cute as ever

Today daughter #2 takes her oral exams at the U. of Maryland. They were postponed from Friday because of the snow! Aaaargh. She has been handling the stress like the trouper that she is. Hopefully we will have good new for you tomorrow…

Have a great week!

*Rainer Maria Rilke

On the Road Again

by chuckofish

I’m posting this from snowy Washington DC, where my DH and I arrived on Thursday night after a grueling twelve and a half hour car trip that included one and a half hours stopped dead on Interstate 81, while a tractor-trailer crash got cleaned up. 2015-03-05 16.47.17

I guess the driver didn’t heed the ‘Slow down. Fries ahead” sign and took a corner too fast. I sure hope no one was badly hurt. The road conditions were pretty dicey. We put that hour and a half to good use, reading and taking selfies.

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Aren’t we a lovely pair? Things got progressively worse after the long wait. Our windshield wiper fluid froze and so we couldn’t clean off the dirty splash that the trucks kicked up to smear the windshield dangerously. It was like driving through a dense fog. When things got really bad, we had to pull over and splash water from our water bottles onto the windshield to clean it off. You can imagine that as we got closer to DC and it got dark the roads got worse, the traffic slowed down, and the windshield situation became more dire. I made my DH do the hard driving and he was heroic. Suffice it so say that by the time we arrived, we were both shaky and very tired.

But we bounced back on Friday and had a lovely day, he working at the Library of Congress and I touring the snow-covered memorials (followed by hours of grading at the hotel).

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At the Vietnam Wall, I found Harmon Polster, MIA (remains later recovered, now buried in Arlington), whose name I wore for several years in the 1970s on an MIA/KIA bracelet.  Capt. Polster was a pilot, whose plane went down in Laos. I was glad to pay my respects. Nearby are two small statue groups depicting soldiers of the Vietnam War and the nurses, who served from WWII to Vietnam.

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I also visited the Korean War memorial, which is close by and very cool.

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Like the Vietnam Memorial, this one had a reflecting wall, but instead of names, it had etched portraits. Here’s my arty picture of it, in which you see the reflection of visitors looking at the above statues and the statues themselves all superimposed on the ghostly wall etchings.

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Of course, no trip to the Mall would be complete without a visit to see the formidable Abraham Lincoln. I found it all quite moving, albeit chilly. And my timing was perfect, since the first busloads of school children arrived just as I was getting ready to leave.

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Later that afternoon the DH and I met up with our son, James, who gave us a tour of the MPAA (Motion Picture Association of America), where he works as the Assistant to the Chef. It’s a nice place. This is the lounge area, where they put on many receptions,

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and this is the dining room, complete with hand painted murals and trompe l’oeil architectural details.

DSC00904Afterwards we repaired to a nearby restaurant/bar, where we had a lovely time catching up on gossip and filling up on delicious food. Having subsisted on granola bars and free hotel breakfast (pretty yucky) since our arrival in town, Duncan and I were hungry!

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Today, while Duncan is at his conference, James and I will meet up with my niece, Susie, and her beau, Nate, for lunch, after which I hope to get to at least one of the Smithsonians. Then it’s to James’s apartment for a home-cooked meal. Stay tuned for more pictures and updates — if not tomorrow, then next week.  Here’s hoping the trip back is uneventful!

Have a wonderful weekend!

Friday movie pick

by chuckofish

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I read this book back in the 1980s and really liked it. It is the haunting story of Mary Bee Cuddy, a spinster pioneer in Nebraska, who takes it upon herself (because a man cannot be found to do it) to transport three women back East. The women have been driven insane by their terrible, tragic lives on the plains. Mary Bee enlists claim-jumping George Briggs to help her.

I have been waiting for Hollywood to make it into a movie ever since. Word was that Paul Newman had an option on it, but nothing came of that. Finally it was announced that Tommy Lee Jones was going to star in and direct it: “Soon to be a major motion picture.”

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But then…cue sound of crickets. Why does Hollywood do this? It was released last year with little or no fanfare and sunk like a rock (I guess) after a weak opening. Straight to DVD soon after. If it wasn’t for IMDB.com, I never would have run across it. But it is a really good movie! Hilary Swank gives an Oscar-worthy performance. Why was she overlooked? It is well-directed by Tommy Lee Jones–understated and well-paced.  The cinematography is beautiful. There are cameos by some excellent actors. Even Meryl Streep has a small role–I suppose she agreed to do it because Tommy Lee is a friend and her daughter got a part.

They changed a few things in the book–Lord knows why. I wouldn’t have. And, yes, the book is better. The book usually is. But I recommend this movie. It has stayed with me. It is my Friday pick.

“You should not confuse your career with your life.”*

by chuckofish

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Today’s PSA:

“This life therefore is not righteousness, but growth in righteousness, not health, but healing, not being but becoming, not rest but exercise. We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it, the process is not yet finished, but it is going on, this is not the end, but it is the road. All does not yet gleam in glory, but all is being purified.”
–Martin Luther

Have a good Thursday and stay focused.

*Dave Barry

Dear March–Come in

by chuckofish

John William Inchbold (1830--1888)

Dear March — Come in —
How glad I am —
I hoped for you before —

Put down your Hat —
You must have walked —
How out of Breath you are —
Dear March, Come right up the stairs with me —
I have so much to tell —

I got your Letter, and the Birds —
The Maples never knew that you were coming — till I called
I declare — how Red their Faces grew —
But March, forgive me — and
All those Hills you left for me to Hue —
There was no Purple suitable —
You took it all with you —

Who knocks? That April.
Lock the Door —
I will not be pursued —
He stayed away a Year to call
When I am occupied —
But trifles look so trivial
As soon as you have come

That Blame is just as dear as Praise
And Praise as mere as Blame —

(Emily Dickinson)

The painting is “A Study, In March”  by John William Inchbold (1830–1888)

“A solar eclipse. The cosmic ballet goes on.”*

by chuckofish

So I feel that I should mention that Leonard Nimoy died. He was 83.

Clearly the man did not take himself too seriously. This is always a good thing.

Although I was never a particularly big fan of Nimoy or Mr. Spock for that matter, it is nevertheless sad to see another familiar star pass away.

I suggest we all watch the “Marge vs. the Monorail” episode of The Simpsons (season 4, episode 12) tonight.

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It is a classic, one of the Top 5 best episodes, and stars the late great Phil Hartman as Lyle Lanely, as well as Leonard Nimoy. It was written by Conan O’Brien.

And, of course, don’t forget to raise a toast to our favorite Vulcan. Live long and prosper.

*Leonard Nimoy in “Marge vs. the Monorail”

Holier than thou

by chuckofish

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Well, I do feel a bit holier than thou, having gone to church on Sunday when over 300 (mostly small) churches in the area were closed. However, First Presbyterian and Kirkwood Baptist, two large churches which are only a block or two away from Grace, were also closed. And why you ask? Because it snowed on Saturday! But only 6-7 inches! The streets were plowed! I got down my driveway in my little car no problem.

When did this happen? This fear of snow and the weather in general? When did Americans become such sheep huddled together in fear of a big bad weather front coming through? When did church become just another activity that could be canceled at will?

Well, about 40 hardy souls gathered at our church (and 18 at the 8 a.m. service!), including all the acolytes, all the lay readers and half the ushers! The Sunday School held classes. I say high fives all around for these intrepid Episcopalians!

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I must say, it was kind of creepy listening to the snow slide loudly off our big ‘ol roof during the service.

I shoveled off the front walk when I got home and part of the driveway and then the OM hired some teenagers with a snow-blower to clear the driveway, so we are all set now.

I watched some of Ken Burns’ The Civil War in anticipation of my trip in a couple of weeks to see daughter #2. We are road-tripping up to Gettysburg to see the National Military Park. I am also re-reading Long Remember by Mackinlay Kantor, which you will recall is a novel about the battle from the viewpoint of the people who lived in the town. It is really good. I will probably also watch Gettysburg (1993) based on the Michael Schaara novel The Killer Angels. I always thought it was pretty good, except for Martin Sheen as Gen. Robert E. Lee. Jeff Daniels, who plays my hero Col. Joshua Lawrence Chamberlain, makes up for Sheen.

Speaking of Chamberlains, did you watch Josh Duhamel’s new show Battle Creek last night? He plays a detective named Milt Chamberlain. (And BTW, the actor who played Dewey Crowe on Justified has a small part.)

Have a good Monday!