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Life barrels on like a runaway train

by chuckofish

Another week has come to an end–it’s Friday! I went to Hobby Lobby yesterday to get some Aida cloth and they have everything out for Thanksgiving and Christmas! The year is barreling by as usual. Time to take a deep breathe and consider…

This is the day the Lord has made; 

We will rejoice and be glad in it.

–Psalm 118:2

I am catching up after my wonderful interlude with the prairie fam. It has been dark and rainy, but I am crossing things off my to-do list. I am looking forward to a quiet weekend.

And I am always in the mood for this hymn. Here’s another terrific version:

Pray for the day ahead and that I might bring Glory to God, in word, thought and deed. I thank God that his mercies are new to me every morning. I thank God that his grace is sufficient for all situations that I may encounter.

In any careless combination they delight

by chuckofish

This has been a banner year for garden flowers in our neck of the woods. I have no Zinnias, but I have friends who do! Here are Don’s:

…and here are Carla’s:

I mean, Wow.

And here’s a poem by Mona Van Duyn, who taught at my flyover university for many years

Also, don’t forget that August is the Summer Under the Stars month on TCM when 31 stars are featured over 31 days. Today is Diane Keaton, followed by Basil Rathbone tomorrow and Steve McQueen on Saturday!

How’s it going?

by chuckofish

The prairie girls and the prairie prince are heading home today after a fun-filled interlude in our flyover state!

I will need a couple of days to recover from so much merry-making…but that’s okay! Enjoy your Wednesday!

Flyover hilights

by chuckofish

Yesterday we ventured to the Ulysses S. Grant historic site at White Haven…

…where Katie and Ida did the scavenger hunt and became Junior Rangers.

They got badges and everything!

I thought it was pretty cool…and free!

We didn’t go to Grant’s Farm, but we saw some Clydesdales running along the fence–always a thrill.

Today we are going to daughter #1’s pool and to Ted Drewe’s for frozen custard.

And, of course, we have indulged in a lot of driveway sittin’!

Flyover good times.

And this made me LOL:

Postcards from the weekend

by chuckofish

Just checking in with a quickie update on a very busy weekend. It was super fun getting all the cousins together!

I got a new battery for the Raptor, so it’s back in commission after a long hiatus. So fun!

Even Ida drove!

Although Katie, ever the older sister, did grab the wheel at one point and yell, “Ida! Steer! Steer!” But it was Ida’s best day ever, I’m sure.

Also it’s August and the high was 82-degrees! No complaints from the peanut gallery.

I shall not be shaken

by chuckofish

Good morning, readers! It’s Friday! And the last day of July! I have been busy all week getting ready for the arrival of daughter #2 and her sweet family tomorrow. They will joyously descend on my house and chaos will ensue.

Can’t wait to see everyone!

We have tentative plans to do many fun things, but rain is in the forecast all weekend, so we may have to adjust accordingly. C’est la vie!

And in case you have been wondering what the secret to a happy life is, here is Charles Spurgeon’s excellent explanation. “I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.” (Ps. 16:8)

Have a great weekend!

Breathe in, my friend

by chuckofish

I was very productive and ran a lot of errands yesterday. I voted early!

July 11, 2026 was the 100th birthday of Frederick Buechner, who has been very important to me over the long years of my spiritual journey. I actually met him back in the day when he preached at Christ Church Cathedral some time in the 1990s. I shook his hand. He meant a lot to me and I was not alone in that. Here are reflections on the following prompt: “What Buechner means to me” from the Buechner Review.

I have long wondered how anyone could not believe in a creator-God when one looked at birds–their incredible beauty and detail and diversity. This is a good read about ornitheology. “My point: Lessons are everywhere. When God filled the skies on day five (Gen. 1:20–22), he didn’t just make a bird, call it “bird,” and be done with it. He made at least 11,000 different bird species. Doesn’t it seem like he wanted us to notice?”

And here’s a great Billy Strings cover of one of my favorite Bob Dylan songs:

And every one of them words rang true
And glowed like burning coal
Pouring off of every page
Like it was written in my soul
From me to you
Tangled up in blue

What’s playing at the Roxy?

by chuckofish

What have you been watching lately? Anything good? Me neither.

I did watch the movie RV (2006) directed by Barry Sonnenfeld and starring Robin Williams, Cheryle Hines (Mrs. RFK, Jr.), Jeff Daniels, and Kristin Chenoweth. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Sometimes you are just in the mood for such rated PG silliness. And there was a good moral to the story.

I also watched the classic John Huston version of Moby Dick (1956) with Gregory Peck, Richard Basehart and Leo Genn. It really is quite a good adaption of the huge and marvelous book, well worth watching.

Better yet, of course, to read the book, but do what you can.

Speak, thou vast and venerable head,” muttered Ahab, “which, though ungarnished with a beard, yet here and there lookest hoary with mosses; speak, mighty head, and tell us the secret thing that is in thee. Of all divers, thou hast dived the deepest. That head upon which the upper sun now gleams, has moved amid this world’s foundations. Where unrecorded names and navies rust, and untold hopes and anchors rot; where in her murderous hold this frigate earth is ballasted with bones of millions of the drowned; there, in that awful water-land, there was thy most familiar home. Thou hast been where bell or diver never went; hast slept by many a sailor’s side, where sleepless mothers would give their lives to lay them down. Thou saw’st the locked lovers when leaping from their flaming ship; heart to heart they sank beneath the exulting wave; true to each other, when heaven seemed false to them. Thou saw’st the murdered mate when tossed by pirates from the midnight deck; for hours he fell into the deeper midnight of the insatiate maw; and his murderers still sailed on unharmed — while swift lightnings shivered the neighboring ship that would have borne a righteous husband to outstretched, longing arms. O head! thou hast seen enough to split the planets and make an infidel of Abraham, and not one syllable is thine!

Also, yesterday was the 14th wedding anniversary of the boy and daughter #3. They have been a couple since 2009, and as you know, they were engaged at aged three while in preschool together.

They have been through a lot together and, God willing, they will have many more happy years together! L’chaim!

So watch an old movie, read an old book, celebrate a milestone. Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

This and that and some good advice

by chuckofish

It’s the last week in July and it’s going to be a hot one! But the show must go on and there is plenty to be done.

I was doing ‘desk work’ yesterday and I found these in my phone photos:

Funnily enough, daughter #1’s electricity went out yesterday (!) and so she came over after work and brought Mr. Smith to cool off and to hug. All will be well.

Keep cool and keep the faith.

Oh, taste and see

by chuckofish

Quelle weekend! Daughter #1 and I had a great roadtrip to Sedalia, MO on Friday. We stopped in Jeff City to do a little shopping (!) and go to Central Dairy for ice cream.

Then we proceeded on to Sedalia. On the way, we drove through Tipton and saw the giant Eight Ball, which is being painted and it looks like a scary spider is on top…

In Sedalia we checked into the historic Hotel Bothwell.

We sat outside for wine time and dinner.

In the morning we looked out our 7th floor window and there was a small crowd gathering in front of the Courthouse next door. Some people had signs and I thought–what, are they protesting?! Then I noticed the sheriff, who in dress and demeanor reminded me of Jackie Gleason as Buford T. Justice in Smokey and the Bandit. We ruminated on this situation for awhile and then we noticed all the cars on the block were from the seventies or before.

Well, we wondered, are they filming a movie here?! That might explain why the movie theater marquee was advertising Jaws! Also, the street was blocked off and what we thought was a street fair setting up was probably not. We googled “Smokey and the Bandit remake”. Sure enough, there is a new series for Netflix, which is intended to be a prequel to Smokey and the Bandit, which follows “the larger‑than‑life Sheriff Buford T. Justice and his loyal (if not always sharp) son Junior back home in Montague County, Texas.” The town of Sedalia will stand in for Montague County, Texas – home to Sheriff Justice. The show’s producers said they chose Sedalia because the “region’s look and spirit perfectly capture the world of Sheriff Justice” (a back-handed compliment methinks) and that they intend to showcase the town’s “character, charm and unmistakable Americana.”

When we asked at the front desk about it, everyone was very chill about the whole thing. Well, I guess those tax incentives for MO film-making are paying off.

After we checked out the scene outside, we went to our DAR leadership conference which was held at a nice church and where all the ladies looked like me or older. I sat with someone I have known since high school days–we even went to Smith together. It was very pleasant. We saw the Katy Depot and the Missouri State Fair Grounds on the way out of town.

We took the scenic route home in the afternoon.

Anyway, the moral of this story is, you don’t always have to go to some exotic place to have a fun time! Explore your home state!

On the way home, we stopped in Wildwood to pick up Mr. Smith who, it turns out, had a very fun time with the twins, who ran him ragged (literally).

He was a big hit at the farmer’s market…

…where he got his first pup cup…

Everyone was very tired when they got home.

On Sunday morning I headed to church where I was treated to the men’s ensemble singing “Jesus, Lover of My Soul” at the Offertory. How wonderful to hear the men’s voices! Also there was a good sermon on Psalm 34 (The Lord saves; we cannot save ourselves) and a wonderful adult ed class on Prayer as Encounter with God, led by our Associate Pastor. Church is such an uplifting experience every week!

Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good!
    Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him!
9 Oh, fear the Lord, you his saints,
    for those who fear him have no lack!
10 The young lions suffer want and hunger;
    but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing.

(Psalm 34:8-10)