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Getting down to work

by chuckofish

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“We are always falling in love or quarreling, looking for jobs or fearing to lose them, getting ill and recovering, following public affairs. If we let ourselves, we shall always be waiting for some distraction or other to end before we can really get down to our work. The only people who achieve much are those who want knowledge so badly that they seek it while the conditions are still unfavorable. Favorable conditions never come.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory 

Here’s to 2019 and getting down to work!

“All doors are open to the believer. It is the lesson of the Samaritan woman at the well.”
― Patti Smith, M Train 

*The picture is of fabric by Folly Cove Designer Hetty Beatty Whitney: Victory Garden

“And offered there in his presence their gold, and myrrh, and frankincense”*

by chuckofish

…great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory. (I Timothy 3:16)

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It is hard to believe that Christmas week is over. We tried to keep our focus where it belonged.

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Indeed, this thought was at the forefront of our minds…but the presents sure are fun.

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Also the Christmas movies…

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And the toasting…

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Alas, soon it will be back to the salt mine…but we’ll be celebrating one more time tonight with the wee babes, their parents and daughter #1. I think this calls for champagne!

*Hymn 109

Hinky-dinky parlez vous!

by chuckofish

Well, that Christmas came and went in a hectic blur. We had loads of fun despite the unfinished kitchen: all the travel went well; church put us in the Christmas spirit; the cards on our presents included difficult riddles and crossword puzzles; there was plenty of music, and masses of food. We had long skype/facetime/phone conversations with son #2, and we even (mostly) dismantled the old piano preparatory to have it removed.

It probably wasn’t the best choice of Christmas day activity, but we learned a lot about pianos in the process.  They are mighty heavy beasts. The kitchen guys promised to move it, but they haven’t done most of what they said they would, so I may end up with a piano carcass in my family room. It’ll make quite the conversation piece.

The celebrations were over way too soon. Son #1 left Boxing Day morning because he had to work in the afternoon, and son #3 left the day after in order to beat the freezing rain and avoid the construction (a house full of workmen definitely puts the kibosh on relaxation and socializing).

In order to distract ourselves from the departure of our children, the DH and I drove to Ottawa to see a special, one-day-only showing of They Shall Not Grow Old, Peter Jackson’s wonderful film put together from the Imperial War Museum’s WWI footage, which he restored and colorized. This gives you an idea of the quality he achieved.

As with any colorization, Jackson’s isn’t perfect, but the stunning clarity and speed normalization (no jerky too-fast motion here) that he produced is beyond amazing. What had been ghostly silent movie stick figures he transformed into real, flesh and blood people that modern viewers can relate to easily. Sure, the film raises questions among historians and film critics — it should (see, for example, Johnathan Romney’s critical review), but I was really impressed by Jackson’s approach. He did not fall into the “all movies touching on war must be anti-war” camp or give in to maudlin sentiment. Nor did he attempt to represent the wide diversity of troop types and countries they represented, the home front, or all theaters of the war. In my view, he made excellent decisions.

After the film credits rolled, Jackson gave an 30 minute explanation of what he had done.  A couple of points he made particularly struck me. First of all, he noted that while many of the men would have been familiar with movies, almost none would have encountered a movie camera, let alone been filmed. As a result, they mug for the camera and don’t quite know how to behave. The effect is to make WWI seem almost fun; little of the fatigue, despair or horror got captured by movie cameras. Since the veterans’ narration was chosen to compliment the footage, it also tends toward the cheery. Don’t get me wrong, Jackson does not whitewash the war; the gory reality is there, too.

Above all, Jackson emphasized that he made the movie to inspire people to find out what their own ancestors did in the Great War — a motive of which I heartily approve. If you get a chance to see the film, do!

Now we head into a new year and it’s time to contemplate past, present, and future. I plan to do just that this week. Here’s hoping 2019 finds you all healthy, hardworking, and full of gratitude!

*chorus to Mademoiselle from Armentières, the popular and bawdy WWI song that Peter Jackson chose for the credits.

Stills from They Shall Not Grow Old recovered from Google Image.

The bells began to chime

by chuckofish

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This morning we are driving daughter #2 and DN to the airport. We had a super fun week with them. We threw a party and we went to a party. We went to church on Christmas Eve and opened presents on Christmas morning. We made a delicious Christmas feast. We sat around and talked a lot. We ate a lot and toasted a lot. We watched movies. We played with the wee babes.

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We packed a whole lot of fun into a few days. We will miss them so much.

Sigh.

Some of us slept through it, but c’est la vie.

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O God, our heavenly Father, whose glory fills the whole creation, and whose presence we find wherever we go: Preserve those who travel; surround them with your loving care; protect them from every danger; and bring them in safety to their journey’s end; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Shocked and slightly embarrassed by the sight of Larry in a towel

by chuckofish

 

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But not for too long…the wee babes are coming over this morning to hang out with us and give their mommy a few hours to do whatever. I am really looking forward to catching up with Larry and Bob:

Meanwhile, zut alors, vacation is speeding by! Pump the brakes!

Boxing day

by chuckofish

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Even though we celebrate responsibly around here, let’s take it easy today…

Then let us all with one accord Sing praises to our heavenly Lord

by chuckofish

IMG_5182.JPGThis was the most precious moment of my Christmas Eve…the wee laddie sitting on my lap toward the end of the Christmas Eve service, entertaining himself by paging through the Book of Common Prayer. I mean, c’mon…

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Christmas postcards

by chuckofish

Everyone arrived home and we threw a party!

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Just the basics…

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The wee laddie found the knife drawer…

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These two dudes are on the same wave length…

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The hero worship begins…

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This fashion maven is all about the books…

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This little chair was just right…

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After everyone went home and we cleaned up, we got in our jammies and watched White Christmas. 

A perfect ending to a perfect day.

“Christmas is a piece of one’s home that one carries in one’s heart.”*

by chuckofish

Christmas is in three days! For my family, this Christmas will be different in a number of ways, especially because — for the first time ever — we will be without one of our number. Our middle son will celebrate Christmas far away in Idaho.  The holiday will also be a bit truncated: our eldest will arrive on Christmas Eve and has to work on Boxing Day; son #3 is still finalizing his plans, but should arrive tomorrow, and since we did not win the construction race to finish the kitchen, the workmen will be right back at it at 8am on December 27. C’est la vie.

Channeling my inner Theodore Roosevelt, I’m planning to do what I can, with what I have, where I am. And I’m going to have fun doing it! Today is cleaning day. Dust lies thick and crisp and even on every surface, and nothing is where it is supposed to be. After the DH takes refuge in his office to grade final exams in peace, I’m going to roll up my sleeves, blare Christmas music, and get to work:

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I’ll also decorate, wrap presents, and grocery shop. Then I’m going to collapse in a satisfied heap. Yikes! I’d better start soon —  it’s already 11:00 am!

I leave you with a verse from George Withers, an English satirical poet (1588-1667):

“Without the door let sorrow lie,
And if for cold it hap to die,
We’ll bury ‘t in a Christmas pie,
And evermore be merry.”

Be merry, for all is well!

 

*Freya Stark

Friday movie picks

by chuckofish

The other night when the OM and I came home from his office party and I was too keyed up to go to bed, I turned on TCM and watched Oliver Twist (1948).

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Directed by David Lean, this British version of the Dickens novel does not sugar-coat the harsh realities of the life of poor Oliver, the orphan boy who runs away from a workhouse and meets a pickpocket on the streets of London. Taken in by the pickpocket, he joins the household of Fagin and his gang of young hoodlums. It is a ghastly story really and Bill Sykes is one of the the scariest characters in literature and he has always traumatized me. Once again, the scene where he beats Nancy to death moved me to turn off the TV.

This movie, made seventy years ago, packs quite a punch as social commentary–in black and white and without f-bombs and computer-generated violence. The acting is all top-notch, although Alec Guinness’s portrayal of Fagin drew quite a lot of criticism at the time as being anti-semitic.

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Once again, I have to say, they knew how to make movies back then.

So what then is my Friday movie pick? Maybe a Christmas movie…

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We could then discuss which Christmas movie mom most reminds you of which dual personality…and don’t say Angela Lansbury!

Or we could all just do a crossword puzzle in honor of today being the 105th anniversary of the first crossword puzzle being published in the New York World. Unfortunately I am terrible at crossword puzzles. I think I would rather wash dishes. Or listen to Henry Mancini records.

Discuss among yourselves. Have a good weekend!