And then we were all in one place
by chuckofish
Sunday was Pentecost, and coincidentally, Grace Church officially merged with another parish, so it was an extra big deal for all concerned. However, when I got to church, some new person was sitting in “my pew” (!) so I had to look around for another place to sit. You see how it is.
I moved down the row and sat with my old friend Ron, an 80-year old African-American retired Army Colonel. It was a good choice as we happily made barbed comments throughout the overly-long 2-hour service which included four baptisms–in Ron’s words, “The worst logistical hash-up” of the year–and a brass quartet which intruded on our post-communion prayer time–“so much for our moment of quiet contemplation.” Ron and I were, of course, the only members on our knees in prayer, because for some unknown reason which neither of us understands, kneeling has been phased out of our liturgy. When I asked Ron after the service if he knew why that was, he did not, but commented that “in that other church, they have a Pope who decides those things.” We were on the same page for sure.
Although the choir was off-key most of the time and the brass quartet hit some really sour notes, it was a happy and welcoming occasion. But enough already–I skipped the church picnic afterwards and came home to water my plants and finish up my DIY bathroom project.
Somehow I convinced my old man to take me down to Ted Drewes for some frozen goodness.
It is already in the “hot and humid” range here in flyover land and I refuse to turn on the airco before June, so frozen custard it is.
How was your weekend?



Sunday sounds like it was something of an ordeal — but at least they didn’t use gender neutral language (at least I hope not!). There’s always something to be grateful for. I love Paul’s hat and shades!
Not YET anyway!
I love how candid Ron Jones was about the Kneeling situation! I had a fine weekend. Lauren and I spent Saturday afternoon in Soulard with friends relaxing on the rooftop patio of their 19th century row house apartment. Saturday night was a “going away” party for Pat McElroy who is moving to Denver this week. Total Kirkwood reunion. I got there early and spent a long time talking to cool girls who wouldn’t have spoken to me in HS… One of the girls who was always nice to me back then came up to me later and told me how they were all talking about how really good looking I am now. Excuse me, but did I make some Poindexter-to-Don Johnson transformation?? Sheesh. Oh well. That’s always nice to hear.
Sunday was our lacrosse banquet. I got to give out awards and talk about how much I loved coaching this group of fine young men. It was very nice. I’m pretty bummed the season is over though. Fun weekend!
Thank you for the essay in response to the “How was your weekend?” question!! Sounds like good times.
I think you took us to that custard place. It was delicious!
It is the must-go-to-place in town!