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Tag: Weekend

Be thou my battle shield

by chuckofish

Well, things are getting back to normal after our exciting travels/recovery. We even had a DAR meeting on Saturday. Madame Regent (daughter #1) asked me to step in and be the Chaplain for the meeting, which I enjoyed. I was praised for my extemporaneous grace before our meal, but as a former Episcopalian, it was hardly off-the-cuff.

Give us grateful hearts, O Father,

For all thy mercies

And make us mindful of the needs of others;

Through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

We had a guest speaker from the Gateway Arch Park Foundation, who was very interesting. We were reminded, of course, by a former regent that it was our Cornelia Greene Chapter who gave the original beacon which tops the Arch and that two dauntless ladies from the chapter made a presentation up there back in 1974. Indeed, the ladies stood on a 5-foot flat section and were warned to stay in the middle as there was no railing! Everything went fine, except a helicopter from a local news station spotted Mrs. Schoetker’s orange pantsuit and reported all afternoon that there was a jumper on the Arch! (We have a photo to prove this.)

You gotta love it.

It is time to sponsor Wreaths Across America–a donation ensures the placement of a veteran’s Christmas wreath for one or more veterans laid to rest at participating national cemeteries. I sponsor wreaths for my father and for my father-in-law. Lest we forget. If you would like to sponsor a wreath(s) go here.

Our Sunday church service was outside on the lawn and it was a beautiful sunny morning. Just perfect. The boy and the twins joined me and helped me with my folding chairs. I noticed that there was a Tesla Cybertruck in the parking lot and when I pointed it out to the bud, he could hardly contain his excitement. At the end of the service all the little boys in the congregation swarmed the area where it was parked. I should have taken a picture! It was pretty funny. I never did find out to whom the truck belongs.

One little boy asked me if it was my truck and I said, No. He said, My grandpa has a Cybertruck Beast which is five times faster than the Cybertruck. “As fast as a cheetah!” Boys do not change. Thank God.

Meanwhile daughter #2, DN and the prairie girls went to a fall festival and went on a hayride!

Team Pink Shoes

And I am very proud of Mr. Smith who can now ride in the front seat like a big boy. (He prefers to sit in the driver’s lap and look out the window, but…the front seat is a big step up from the crate in the back.)

This article about how one Florida zoo got creative to keep its animals safe during both hurricanes was very interesting.

This article expresses what I have been thinking about lately: No little people, no little places. “Jesus commands Christians to seek consciously the lowest room. All of us—pastors, teachers, professional religious workers and nonprofessional included—are tempted to say, ‘I will take the larger place because it will give me more influence for Jesus Christ.’ … But according to the Scripture this is backwards: We should consciously take the lowest place unless the Lord himself extrudes us into a greater one.” (Remember Luke 14:10.)

Have a good week. Fight the good fight.

Be Thou my battle shield, Sword for the fight;
Be Thou my Dignity, Thou my Delight;
Thou my soul’s Shelter, Thou my high Tow’r:
Raise Thou me heav’nward, O Pow’r of my pow’r.

    –Ancient Irish poem, translated by Mary E. Byrne, 1905, versified by Eleanor H. Hull, 1912

    “Here and yonder, high and low, Goldenrod and sunflowers glow”*

    by chuckofish

    I did the flowers for church on Sunday–sunflowers make such a statement, don’t you think? I have a soft spot in my heart for them because years ago at my highfalutin’ Episcopal Church, the wife of the new rector put sunflowers on the altar and the frozen chosen ladies of the church were outraged. So when they are in season and available at Trader Joe’s, I always use them.

    The OM and I went to the early service (and stayed for Sunday School) so we could finish early and get packed before going to the bud’s soccer game later in the afternoon.

    This was accomplished and we brought daughter #1 home with us so that we could all get up at 3:00 am to Uber to the airport. Yikes.

    While we are gone on our western adventure, daughter #2 will be filling in with literary thoughts and tales of the prairie girls…

    …and updates of our travels. So be sure to stop by the blog this week.

    And please don’t forget to keep us in your prayers.

    And here’s a reminder from Tim Challies (and Hank Williams) not to let the dust gather on your Bible.

    *Robert Kelley Weeks (1840–76)

    Postcards from the weekend

    by chuckofish

    How was your weekend? Mine was pretty quiet compared to recent ones. No visitors, no parties. Just the usual.

    It was so hot at the bud’s soccer game that Pappy left his fleece in the car! It was even hotter for the players and coaches.

    Before the game daughter #1 and I went to an estate sale and we got a few odds and ends, such as this classic book from 1922…

    Donald Ogden Stewart, you will recall, was an American humorist, actor, playwright, and screenwriter, who won a 1940 Oscar for his screenplay adaption of The Philadelphia Story.

    I also worked on a new puzzle…It was a fun one!

    Life in the fast lane.

    We went to church with the twins and they once again checked their depravity at the door. I am very proud of them. I had to sign them into Sunday School using the new system which you do on an iPad which then prints out a name tag and a receipt which you use when you pick them up. It was pretty complicated for this old lady, but I managed somehow. Quite a reflection on our modern world, but okay, I get it. The subject of our adult Sunday School was church discipline, which in light of this was especially interesting. Anne had this to say about that.

    The trouble is—well, there are so many troubles, but one of them is—that the only way for Christians to live peaceably together in the Kingdom of God is if they really understand down in the depths of their hearts that they are really so bad, that their inclinations are so ugly that unless God does something, they have no hope. And this is a hard saying, for none of us really believe that we are that bad. Our sins are “struggles.” They are just us being “broken.” They are the result of our childhoods. They are because other people are selfish and didn’t consider us more highly than themselves. They are because we didn’t have the same opportunities as other people. There are a thousand reasons why those stray vile thoughts about other people are not my fault. But the seedbed of peace is, as James says, humility, and humility is the result of looking into your own soul and seeing that you have thoughts and desires in there that would destroy the whole world.

    Read the whole thing.

    Here’s another good article from Carl Trueman: “Ours is a childish age…That is not to say that the matters at stake in both church and world are not deeply serious. But the idioms for addressing them have become infantile, and the church must resist the temptation to follow the world in this. To seek relevance therefore requires not capitulation to, or emulation of, the infantile, but rather a recapturing of what it means to be an adult.”

    Also, John Piper on A Christian Alternative to Outrage Culture

    And do we have a bear story? Yes! A 12-year old boy saved his father from being killed by a bear! No kidding.

    Meanwhile, the prairie girls were grooving to an Oom-pah band…

    And here’s a reminder: Happiness is a warm puppy.

    Have a good week!

    Postcards from the weekend

    by chuckofish

    We had absolutely perfect weather this weekend–cool, sunny, breezy, no humidity. We did all the things. DN went to his wedding and we had serious Compton Lady time…

    We went to the Missouri Botanical Garden where I had not been for literally years. The Koi are almost gone! The geese have taken over! Otherwise, it looked great.

    We watched the bud play soccer…

    I made it to church and to a great Sunday School class on Being Presbyterian.

    Doubtless, were we to regard things as they appear, the kingdom of Christ would seem often to be on the verge of ruin. But the promise, that Christ shall never be thrust from his seat, takes away from us every fear.

    –John Calvin

    A perfect weekend.

    Now to recover.

    Our strength and refuge

    by chuckofish

    How was your weekend? Friday I went to lunch with some old friends at my former flyover university faculty club. Then we went back to their house where I boxed up some books to take home. They are getting ready to downsize and that means getting rid of a ton of books. But God only knows where I am going to put more books! Daughter #1 came over to their house and filled a box for herself. I would have taken more, but as I told my friends, I already have a lot of their books.

    The rest of the weekend I spent looking at/reading my new-old books. What a pleasure! I also took some old computer monitors over to a nearby recycling event and enjoyed a great sense of accomplishment which I relished all weekend. And daughter #1 and I continued our scientific study of the correct wine-bread ratio…

    On Sunday the OM and I picked up the twins to take them to church with us since their parents are very busy getting ready to move. It had been awhile since the twins had been to church so they needed to re-learn some church behavior basics. They did pretty well. The bud drew some interesting pictures…note the devil prominently portrayed in hell…

    After church we went home with the twins and the OM picked up lunch at McDonald’s. Then we took a little walk where the bud was able to pet a nice black Lab named Titan, who sniffed his face. Then we played more or less quietly at home while the OM took a nap. Lottie beat me repeatedly at Chutes and Ladders, but the bud told me that winners are losers and losers are winners, so there. And the first shall be last, right?

    The boy picked them up mid-afternoon and stayed to chat for awhile, always a treat for me.

    I changed my clothes for a third time and we headed back to church at 4:30 for the ordination service of our youth minister. Once again I was overcome with thankfulness that I am a member of this church.

    Meanwhile daughter #2 and her family drove up to Lake Huron to spend the week, leaving at five in the morning for the long drive.

    I remember those days–leaving before dawn to get a jump on the driving while the kids sleep! (Note both babes are wide awake.)

    They are having a good ol’ time.

    And not to get political, but this was hilarious.

    So put your phone down, look up, and thank God for the day. Then read some old books!

    Blessed be my rock

    by chuckofish

    How was your weekend? It was warm and humid here in flyover country, but basically very nice considering it is August. No complaints from the peanut gallery. Saturday morning I got up early and went to Trader Joe’s to buy flowers and then buzzed over to church where I arranged them for Sunday morning.

    As with all things, I like to keep it simple.

    After that, daughter #1 and I drove out to the western suburbs to pick up a chandelier which daughter #2 had purchased on Facebook Marketplace.

    We also went to an estate sale–a good one–in a house people had lived in a long time. I even figured out whose house it was! Daughter #1 found a nice little shelf and some other odds and ends and I got an old book.

    The illustrations reminded me of our own wee bud (see below). We went to lunch afterwards. A productive morning, indeed, and the rest of the day I was free to putter around.

    On Sunday we headed to church and Sunday School. You could tell that everyone was back from vacation and we had a full house–our singing raised the roof! Delightful! Our young seminarian preached on Psalm 11 (In the Lord I take refuge) and he did a fine job. He will be ordained next Sunday and I am looking forward to attending that special service.

    Afterwards we went to daughter #1’s house where we had bagels and fruit salad and sat outside on the deck while Mr. Smith frolicked with the twins. Then we walked up to Jackson Park for some playground time.

    Everyone was worn out by the time we went home…

    School starts today–the twins are now big second graders!

    Have a good week! Stay cool.

    Speaking of the plentiful imagery of the world

    by chuckofish

    How was your weekend? We had beautiful weather–temps in the 70s and 80s–unheard of for August! We tried to optimize time spent outside by going to the winery and also enjoying the first driveway sittin’ in a long time.

    Friday evening daughter #1 and I went to church to hear Abram Van Engen talk about his new book on reading poetry.

    I enjoyed it very much and am also enjoying reading his book. But then, I enjoy reading poetry. Van Engen contends that poets do what God instructed Adam to do–name creation (Genesis 2:19-20). And when you think about it, that is what poets do–they point things out, they draw our attention to things. I think of Billy Collins’ poem “Litany”:

    You are the bread and the knife,
    the crystal goblet and the wine.
    You are the dew on the morning grass
    and the burning wheel of the sun.
    You are the white apron of the baker,
    and the marsh birds suddenly in flight.

    However, you are not the wind in the orchard,
    the plums on the counter,
    or the house of cards.
    And you are certainly not the pine-scented air.
    There is just no way that you are the pine-scented air.

    It is possible that you are the fish under the bridge,
    maybe even the pigeon on the general’s head,
    but you are not even close
    to being the field of cornflowers at dusk.

    And a quick look in the mirror will show
    that you are neither the boots in the corner
    nor the boat asleep in its boathouse.

    It might interest you to know,
    speaking of the plentiful imagery of the world,
    that I am the sound of rain on the roof.

    I also happen to be the shooting star,
    the evening paper blowing down an alley
    and the basket of chestnuts on the kitchen table.

    I am also the moon in the trees
    and the blind woman’s tea cup.
    But don’t worry, I’m not the bread and the knife.
    You are still the bread and the knife.
    You will always be the bread and the knife,
    not to mention the crystal goblet and—somehow—the wine.

    and anything, of course, by Walt Whitman…

    After working in the basement for awhile on Saturday morning, we went to our favorite winery in Hillsboro and sat and listened to music and people-watched and drank wine in the sunshine. That is the best way to spend a Saturday afternoon.

    On Sunday we went to church. Unbeknowst to us (and everyone else) the man teaching our Sunday School class was sick and so they moved the Children’s Sunday School teacher training into our room, so we ended up attending the training class! It was interesting, but I do not plan to volunteer for that particular ministry.

    After church I had lunch with my two best friends and later the boy and his family came over for some Sunday driveway sittin’. No one took any pictures except this one of Lottie with Mr. Smith.

    We barbecued hotdogs and ate chips ‘n dip and watermelon, which everyone enjoyed. My philosophy is keep it simple.

    And here’s some fun news you can use.

    Now that’s a happy map! Have a good week. Read some poetry! Pet a dog. Keep it simple.

    Solid joys and lasting treasures

    by chuckofish

    How was your weekend? Daughter #1 and Mr. Smith and I had fun zipping up north for a short visit with the prairie girls who are always up for a good time. (We returned their pack-n-play crib which they left at my house and will need when they go on vacation.) We took walks…

    and played fetch in the back yard…

    Katie was very brave and Mr. Smith was a very good boy and they are edging their way toward being friends. She was thinking a lot about him after we left…

    On Sunday the OM and I went to church and Sunday School which was about the use of the word Zion in the OT.

    His foundation is in the holy mountains.
    The Lord loves the gates of Zion
    More than all the dwellings of Jacob.
    Glorious things are spoken of you,
    O city of God! Selah

    (Psalm 87:1-3)

    This week our teacher was a church member who is a professor at St. Louis University and she is very learned. I felt like I was back in college. Our sermon was on Psalm 9. Our pastor always asks a question for “young worshippers” to help them stay focused. I will admit, it helps me too. This week the question was, “When we are in trouble, what is God for us?” Answer: a stronghold!

    Savior, since of Zion’s city
    I through grace a member am,
    let the world deride or pity,
    I will glory in Thy name.
    Fading is the worldling’s pleasures,
    all his boasted pomp and show;
    solid joys and lasting treasures
    none but Zion’s children know.

    –John Newton, 1779

    Meanwhile the boy and his family returned from Hilton Head, all fit and tan. They went to the aquarium in Charleston on the way home…

    and saw some sights…

    Now that they are back and will be starting back to school soon, I am looking forward to getting back on our usual schedule of Sunday dinners etc. But it is hard to believe that the summer will soon be over.

    Have a good week!

    Postcards from the weekend

    by chuckofish

    The Prairie Girls arrived on Friday and we proceeded to have flyover fun despite the heat…

    We even went to Grant’s Farm…

    …and the cousins came over after church on Sunday for a BBQ…

    We even managed to celebrate the OM’s birthday!

    It is exhausting having so much FUN, but I persevere. DN went home on Sunday, but the girls are still here. We have plans. Then I’ll drive them back on Wednesday and stay a few days. Then I’ll drive back with DN who is renting a UHaul to pack up some stuff to take back.

    And here’s Dr. Kevin DeYoung praying for our nation on Sunday:

    Convict us of our sin, Lord. Lead us to Christ.

    Abide with me

    by chuckofish

    Happy first day of July!

    Another weekend has come and gone. Did you have a fun one? Daughter #1 and I had our usual happy hour on Friday, followed by the OM bringing us Chick-fil-a and watching a movie–this time we watched Wayne’s World (1992). I had not seen it since the 1990s and it was surprisingly harmless and amusing. I enjoyed bringing daughter #1 up to speed with the cultural references.

    Saturday night I finally got to watch The Longest Day (1962) which I enjoyed very much. I know my father must have enjoyed seeing it when it came out. He was 40 years old and only ten years out of the army. He had a desk job during WWII, but he was proud to have served. In the Korean Conflict he was in England in the Strategic Air Command. My brother told me when we were together in Michigan a few weeks ago that when ANC III flew home from England when my mother was giving birth in Savannah, GA, his plane crash landed. I never knew that. Wow.

    The other highlight of the weekend was going to church with the boy and the twins. We had a good adult Sunday School class followed by a sermon on Psalm 4. (We are working our way through the Psalms.) Once again the twins were minimally depraved. Their father said, “They could have been better,” but I gave them an A for sitting through a 30-minute PCA sermon like good Calvinists. We went home afterwards and frolicked with Mr. Smith…

    …and enjoyed some driveway sittin’.

    We ate leftovers from the OM’s casserole which he made for the men’s breakfast on Saturday. Daughter #1 brought fruit salad. Of course, there was Prosecco. Life is good.

    You have put more joy in my heart

    than they have when their grain and wine abounded.

    –Psalm 4:7

    And a happy, happy 7th anniversary to daughter #2 and DN!

    A toast to you both and that happy day! Time sure flies!