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“Little by little, the look of the land changes by the men we admire.”*

by chuckofish

Recently I watched the movie Hud (1963) for the first time in a long time. I was really impressed. Based on a book by Larry McMurtry (his first), it is directed by Martin Ritt and stars Paul Newman, Brandon de Wilde, Melvyn Douglas and Patricia Neal.

It’s a story about people and relationships. There are no explosions, no psychopaths, no CG special effects. It’s kind of a perfect movie in that it is a good story, well-written, beautifully filmed in black and white by James Wong Howe and intelligently directed. The actors are all pros–even 20-year old de Wilde had been acting for 10 years–well cast and believable in their roles.

Patricia Neal, who won a Best Actress Oscar for her part as Alma and who is not a favorite of mine, is really good. Paul Newman is terrific.

The only problem I had was that Newman, who plays a “cold-hearted bastard,” cannot really play one. I think you are supposed to admire his father (Melvyn Douglas)–and you do–but when his father asks him how he ever ended up with a son like Hud, you see pain register in Hud’s eyes. When Hud says sarcastically, “My momma used to love me, but she died,” you can’t help feel the probable truth in the statement.

You’re also supposed to sympathize with the de Wilde character, Hud’s nephew, who comes to realize what a “cold-hearted bastard” his hero is, and cheer him on as he leaves home at the end. But I felt sorry for Hud.

According to IMDB, Newman’s intention was to play the part as a bad guy, and he was later stunned that so many young moviegoers had a poster of Hud and viewed him as their hero. This is the main failure of the movie I think and also what makes it memorable. Well, I’ll have to read the book and see what McMurtry was trying to say.

Anyway, I am kind of in the mood to revisit some more Paul Newman films from his heyday in the 1960s. He really was something.

The Elmer Bernstein score is also excellent.

I also watched Ten Who Dared (1960), a Disney movie from the olden days, which I originally saw on the Sunday night “Wonderful World Of Disney” show.

The film, starring John Beal, Brian Keith, Ben Johnson et al, tells the true story of Major John Wesley Powell, who in 1869 is sent by the U.S. government to map and chart the Colorado River region. Powell is a geologist and ex-Union Army Major who lost a hand in the Civil War. He needs assistants but trustworthy skilled men are hard to find after the war. The Major has to accept any volunteer he can find and he assembles a diverse team of nine men. The movie is full of action and beautiful scenery–like most Disney movies of that era. I loved those movies back in the day–movies without an agenda beyond teaching about another fascinating footnote to American history. As a result, I learned, as a child, about the one-handed John Wesley Powell, trilobites and Andersonville Prison, among other things. Back in the day, Disney set kids up to enjoy history and fostered a lifelong interest in learning.

(I rented it on Amazon Prime. The print is not great, but I did not care. It was just fun to see it again. There are other such Disney movies available to rent on Prime, ones that Disney Plus does not include.)

I will note that Saturday is the OM’s birthday. We will toast Pappy and order pizza and hope that his grandchildren do not start pushing random buttons. We will have cake. Even though he already got his big present, there will be a few more to unwrap.

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And this is a good reminder for all of us. “There is no circumstance in which God has nothing for us to do, no situation in which we cannot be faithful to his calling on our lives. He calls none of us to uselessness and calls none of us to another man’s life or ministry. He calls each of us to be obedient in the context he has ordained for us.”

*Homer Bannon in “Hud”

“Would you like to swing on a star/ Carry moonbeams home in a jar”*

by chuckofish

I do love a three day weekend!

I will note that yesterday was Clint Eastwood’s 91st birthday. Do you have a favorite Clint Eastwood movie? Well, do you, Punk? I actually do not, but this one will do.

We watched Run Silent, Run Deep (1958) in honor of Memorial Day. It is my favorite submarine movie and features a great performance by Clark Gable. Don Rickles is also in the movie. (He actually served in the U.S. Navy during World War II, on a motor torpedo boat tender.)

This article makes a strong point. “And in this way we see the challenge before us. There may have been times in the past when it took concerted effort to see and experience immorality; today it takes concerted effort to avoid seeing it. “

Tomorrow I am taking a few days off and heading east to visit daughter #2 and this little gal.

We will be celebrating her first birthday! Unbelievable, c’est vrai?

My heart leaps up when I behold
A rainbow in the sky:
So was it when my life began;
So is it now I am a man;
So be it when I shall grow old,
Or let me die!
The Child is father of the Man;
And I could wish my days to be
Bound each to each by natural piety.

–William Wordsworth

Wish me luck on my travels. I haven’t flown since 2018. Yikes.

*Johnny Burke / Jimmy Van Heusen

“Baby sister, I was born game and I intend to go out that way.”

by chuckofish

Tomorrow is the birthday of John Wayne (1907-1979), so I thought another Pop Quiz was in order. Can you name the movie from which each J.W. quotation below comes? List your answers in the Comments section and I’ll post the answers later today.

Well, I used to be a good cowhand. But, things happen.

You’re not quite “Army” yet, miss… or you’d know never to apologize… it’s a sign of weakness.

Pilgrim, hold it. I said you, Valance; *you* pick it up.

SADDLE UP.

Get a shovel and my Bible. I’ll read over him.

The Apaches, sir, are neither to the north nor the east. Nor are they in their encampment. But if you’da been watching the dust swirls to the south, like most of us, you’d see that they’re right there! [points to the Apaches coming over the rise]

–Always liked that poem too. Makes me wanna…

–Ride, boldly ride? Well, it don’t work out that way.

Listen Brick, for years I’ve been taking your fatherly advice, and it’s never been any good. So from now on, I’m strictly a one man band!

Injun will chase a thing till he thinks he’s chased it enough. Then he quits. Same way when he runs. Seems like he never learns there’s such a thing as a critter that’ll just keep comin’ on. So we’ll find ’em in the end, I promise you. We’ll find ’em. Just as sure as the turnin’ of the earth.

–You’re a rich man, Burdette… big ranch, pay a lot of people to do what you want ’em to do. And you got a brother. He’s no good but he’s your brother. He committed twenty murders you’d try and see he didn’t hang for ’em.

–I don’t like that kinda talk. Now you’re practically accusing me…

–Let’s get this straight. You don’t like? I don’t like a lot of things. I don’t like your men sittin’ on the road bottling up this town. I don’t like your men watching us, trying to catch us with our backs turned. And I don’t like it when a friend of mine offers to help and twenty minutes later he’s dead! And i don’t like you, Burdette, because you set it up.

If you say “three,” mister, you’ll never hear the man count “ten.”

Well, Perlie, you old hayshaker… looks like you got me…

I won’t be wronged, I won’t be insulted, and I won’t be laid a hand on. I don’t do these things to other people, and I require the same from them.

P.S. In other news, yesterday was the 80th birthday of one of my other heroes, Bob Dylan.

God loves you and I love you, Bob. Happy birthday! Did you know that there is an Institute for Bob Dylan Studies at the University of Tulsa? Neither did I. Anyway, I feel a good long BD sing-a-long coming on. I contain multitudes.

Today, by the way, is the birthday of Ralph Waldo Emerson (May 25, 1803 – April 27, 1882) and I will toast him tonight. Have a great day and “write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year…”

“It seemed to be a good idea at the time.”*

by chuckofish

Today is the birthday of the great film director, Akira Kurosawa (March 23, 1910 – September 6, 1998). Kurosawa directed approximately one film per year throughout the 1950s and early 1960s, including a number of highly regarded (and often copied adapted) films, such as Seven Samurai (1954) and Yojimbo (1961). After the 1960s he became much less prolific, but his later work included two epics, Kagemusha (1980) and Ran (1985).

There are quite a few Kurasawa classics available to watch/rent on Amazon Prime. That is my plan to celebrate his birthday.

(This Criterion Collection set would make a wonderful gift!)

I might watch one of my favorite Kurosawa movies, Seven Samurai, tonight…

…and then The Magnificent Seven (1961) tomorrow night to celebrate Steve McQueen’s birthday on Wednesday.

That works out rather nicely. Synchronicity, I think it’s called.

Not exactly lenten fare, but I can dig it.

Also, let’s all give a big shout out to William Shatner, who turned 90 yesterday. Ninety!!

The world is more than we know.

*Vin in The Magnificent Seven

“There is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather”*

by chuckofish

Today is my dear DP’s birthday. We are old ladies now, but we have been best friends always.

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!

(Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)

She is going on an AirBnb getaway this weekend with her DH and I sure hope she has fun, if not super fun.

Meanwhile we are luxuriating in having daughter #2 and her petite famille home.

Of course, Katie loves needlepoint pillows!

This is a good article by Sam Bush in which he relates White Christmas (1954) to the Gospel. Way to go, Sam. “At the end of the day, all we have to offer is gratitude. Thankfully, it’s the only gift that God receives.”

This writer on the New York Social Diary blog made me laugh: “If the idea of a new President and administration doesn’t thrill you — here’s a thought.  How about a face lift?  That long wanted boob, nose, or chin job?  Apparently plastic surgery is booming in Covid.  The masks, extended time spent at home, and no socializing gives you the perfect recovery time. A local plastic surgery clinic sent out a notification assuring their patients; “As soon as we’re ‘back to normal’ you can count on a flurry of invitations, outings and get-togethers. We can help you look and feel your best for your big post-pandemic debut.” Providing you are still alive!” However, as a person who recently had post-cancer plastic surgery, I cannot endorse this suggestion.

Also I was thinking that I remembered that at my private school back in the day we used to recite the doxology every morning in the elementary grades. Am I crazy? Anyway, regardless, I think that is a great way to start the day and here is a doxology that I like. The doxology says it all.

Amen. Today we also celebrate the birthday of Charles Wesley who wrote the following Advent hymn, which is a favorite of mine:

Come thou long expected Jesus…I really miss congregational singing, don’t you? Well, hang in there. I am officially off the grid and “at home” for 10 days. Huzzah!

*Christina Rosetti, Goblin Market

Let’s take another crazy trip around the sun*

by chuckofish

Today is daughter #1’s birthday! Like everything else this year, our celebration will be low-key but determined. Plans are to clock out of work a little early, drive to STL, hook up with the wee babes and their parents and head to the Zoo. (Cross your fingers that it doesn’t rain on our parade.) Afterwards we’ll head home for toasted ravioli and cake and presents.

Can I come too? (We wish!)

Sounds like a good way to start the weekend to me! Welcome to my house…

Did you say, home run, slam dunk, touchdown pass?

Happy Birthday, dear daughter #1!

*Kenny Chesney

“I see my light come shining From the west unto the east/Any day now, any day now I shall be released.”*

by chuckofish

Happy belated  birthday to Bob Dylan who turned 79 yesterday. We love you and God loves you, Bob.

The weekend rushed by and daughter #1 and I had fun doing things we had not been able to do in a long time, like walking around downtown Kirkwood and actually going in a store and buying something! (Don’t worry, we wore masks.) We also sat outside on the patio and drank a cold one. It was 87 degrees!

Their parents dropped off the wee babes for awhile on Sunday morning and they ran us ragged.

We finally had to resort to getting out the giant box of Beanie Babies.

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Hog Heaven

We were done in after that, but daughter #1 did give me a gel manicure. The rain actually held off for most of the weekend until Sunday when the OM decided to barbecue. Then it rained for hours.

We watched The LongRiders (1980) which you may recall is a movie about the outlaw James brothers, the Younger brothers, and assorted other brothers, all played by actual brothers: The Caradines, the Keaches, the Quaids, and even Christopher Guest and his brother. I had not seen it in a long time and really enjoyed it.

Screen Shot 2020-05-24 at 9.58.46 PMRather than being gimmicky, the real brothers lent an air of authenticity to the film which I appreciated. The musical score by Ry Cooder was also excellent. And I enjoyed the Missouri setting and the story of our homegrown famous outlaws.

Today I am celebrating Memorial Day and watching war movies as previously mentioned. I will also toast John Wayne on the 111th anniversary of his birth.

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FYI daughter #2 is scaling back her blog post activity to once a week on Thursdays as she anticipates the imminent arrival of baby U.  L’Chaim!

*Bob Dylan

 

“Is this the face that wrecked 1000 ships and burned the towerless tops of Illium?”*

by chuckofish

“Time passed again. I don’t know how long. I had no watch. They don’t make that kind of time in watches anyway.”
― Raymond Chandler, Farewell, My Lovely 

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Life goes on–rather monotonously. Some days are more exciting than others.

I had a nice birthday, if an unusual one. The OM informed me on Friday that he had completely forgotten about my birthday and that it was too late to do anything about it. I took the news like the adult that I am. I told him not to go to Walgreens and buy office supplies for me. He did don a mask and gloves to go to the grocery store where he bought some flowers and a cake. We barbecued.

Earlier in the day I talked to my DP and flowers were delivered from daughter #2 (who had also had the wherewithal to mail a present).

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I got an eGiftcard from daughter #1 for our local spa for whenever it re-opens (!) The boy, daughter #3 and the wee babes did a drive-by Andy’s frozen custard delivery.

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And Carla drove by to drop off wine and chocolate (the basics)!

After my work day ended and we dined, I watched John Wayne in Stagecoach (1939). What more could a girl ask for? Not much really.

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*Doc Boone in Stagecoach (1939)

“Oh but I was so much older then, I’m younger than that now”*

by chuckofish

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Always the most glamorous member of the family, even in middle school.

Daughter #1’s birthday was Wednesday, but we will be celebrating it this Saturday. We are going to our flyover town’s annual Greentree Parade where we will sit in folding chairs and watch the local high school bands and elementary school floats go by. The wee babes are coming along and it should be a good ol’ time.

There will be presents, although nothing as cool as a new bike…

Mary on Bike.jpegThere will be cake…

cake06.JPG…and we will toast the birthday girl once, twice…thrice!

I will also note that today, besides being Friday the 13th, is the harvest moon. It is the harvest moon because it occurs during the harvest and near the autumnal equinox (which this year falls on September 23). So be sure to check it out tonight.

And here’s a little Bobby D, always appropriate for the occasion:

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.
-Romans 15:13

*Bob Dylan, “My Back Pages”

Born to the breed

by chuckofish

Happy 80th birthday, Judy Collins!

Did you know that Judy is still touring and recording? Me neither, but that is impressive! I remember listening to two of her albums back in the day:

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Her rendition of “Send in the Clowns” was a big favorite of our mother in the mid-70s.

Don’t you love farce?

My fault, I fear

I thought you’d want what I want

Sorry my dear

Today is also the 52nd birthday of country superstar Tim McGraw! Check out his website for information on the Man, the Legend!

We remember Tim from his Indian Outlaw days…

…before he became an elder statesman of country music married to Faith Hill.

I will toast them both tonight and perhaps watch Maytime (1937) which seems appropriate for May 1.

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There is a lot of good music in this movie! Here is Nelson Eddy singing “Will You Remember”–always a favorite of mine:

You might also want to check out Boyz in the Hood (1991) in memory of John Singleton who died the other day. John Singleton was the youngest director and the very first African-American in cinema history ever to be nominated for the Academy Award for Best Director.

Screen Shot 2019-04-30 at 8.15.43 PM.pngThe world is more than we know. I watched it last night and it was pretty good. But The Silence of the Lambs was the big winner that year. C’est la vie.