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Natural circumstances and the perversity of human will

by chuckofish

Another week almost gone with the wind. They do go by. I had a busy week “at work” and I went to a Vestry meeting. Yes, the Vestry meeting was actually at church, in Albright Hall, where we sat 6 feet apart and wore masks. It was a little ridiculous, but at least we were together all in one place. It felt kind of normal. We are the only Episcopal Church in the diocese that is meeting together on Sunday and I am proud of our Rector who is jumping through a lot of hoops to do this. I have a feeling there are many ministers/priests who are sleeping through this period and glad of the excused absence.

I liked Paul Walker’s daily devotion (from Charlottesville) the other day, which read in part:

I also went to the dentist (high fives all around) and drove to pick up a Victorian chair I won on the online auction held at our local auction house. It is a needlepoint rescue and nothing special, but it felt good to be back in the game.

Of course, there has been much FaceTiming and cooing over our sweet Katiebelle. She has changed so much in her first week!

And look how confident DN is getting compared to 3 years ago when he practiced holding the wee babes.

The wee babes at six months are about the same size as Katiebelle at one week!

Meanwhile the OM and I have been watching The Last Ship, a series on Hulu that was originally aired on TNT back in 2014, about the crew of a U.S. naval destroyer that is forced to confront the reality of a new existence when a pandemic kills off most of the earth’s population. Timely, right? It stars Eric Dane and Adam Baldwin. We are enjoying it and I recommend it if you are in the mood for an action series that has some depth to it. And the leads are handsome.

We also watched 49th Parallel (1941), a British war film made by the Pressburger/Powell team with the help of Leslie Howard, Laurence Olivier and Raymond Massey to help sway American opinion in favor of joining the war effort. It is pretty good and maybe it was considered tough stuff back then, but the Canadians seemed rather dim-witted and trusting next to the dirty Nazis who are trying to escape the RMP. I guess that was the point.

You can watch it on Amazon Prime.

Have a good weekend!

Oo-de-lally, oo-de-lally, golly, what a day

by chuckofish

“It was a beautiful summer afternoon, at that delicious period of the year when summer has just burst forth from the growth of spring; when the summer is yet but three days old, and all the various shades of green which nature can put forth are still in their unsoiled purity of freshness.”
― Anthony Trollope, Framley Parsonage 

Our weekend was filled with texts of the baby’s progress–they went home on Friday–and pictures and FaceTime calls. 

screen-shot-2020-06-07-at-12.40.03-pm-1The wee twins came over on Sunday morning to frolic in the yard. They found our vintage Cozy Coupe from the late ’80s (“This was your daddy’s car!”) and they insisted on taking it for a spin.

It has a broken wheel and we were planning to replace it, but they had fun cleaning it up. We had also gotten out the little pool and they used it mostly for washing the car.

I finished reading Excellent Women by Barbara Pym and I enjoyed it very much, although after awhile the unconscious, careless rudeness of people toward the heroine, a single church-going woman, although wittily written, began to wear on me. Now I am looking for something else to move on to.

Over the weekend, I watched several movies released in the year 1973: American Grafitti, which did not hold up terribly well,

Screen Shot 2020-06-07 at 12.56.36 PMThe Sting, which is a terrific movie,

Screen Shot 2020-06-07 at 12.58.58 PMand Walking Tall, which I had never seen before and was an interesting movie.

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Indeed, it was an interesting year in movies. Except for the top movie, The Exorcist, the top 10 are surprisingly not a terrible list.

Anyway, I was in high school and I actually saw a lot of these movies, although I saw the rated R ones years later.

I also saw the Disney Robin Hood years later when my kids were small. We liked it a lot.

Now it is Monday and back to the salt mine of my home office. I am underwhelmed. Here’s a prayer we can all pray:

For whom the bell tolls merrily

by chuckofish

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Daughter #2 has had her baby!

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I toasted little Katiebelle Wednesday night…

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…and again yesterday afternoon with my pals…

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…and I will go on toasting her and her brilliant mother on through the weekend. You betcha.

The OM and I were in a quandary about what to watch Wednesday night, so we landed on The Court Jester (1955), which in case you don’t recall, has a baby at the center of the plot. Set in medieval England, it concerns the struggle to restore to the throne the rightful heir, a baby with a distinguishing birthmark—the purple pimpernel on his posterior. Danny Kaye plays Hubert Hawkins, an ex-carnival entertainer who becomes minstrel to the Black Fox, a Robin Hood-type character who leads a band of rebels in the forest in support of the true infant-king.

Screen Shot 2020-06-04 at 8.56.40 PMThe film is full of comedic exchanges such as “Get it?” “Got it.” “Good!” and “The pellet with the poison’s in the vessel with the pestle; the chalice from the palace has the brew that is true!” I found it to be very diverting and a lot of fun. I always liked Danny Kaye, and if you like him in White Christmas, you will love him in this.

Screen Shot 2020-06-04 at 12.59.03 PMThe excellent supporting cast includes Basil Rathbone, Glynis Johns, Angela Lansbury, and Mildred Natwick. Together they manage to spoof movies like The Adventures of Robin Hood without going overboard. The production values are very high. The script is genuinely clever.

As it unfolds you’ll see
What starts like a scary tale ends like a fairy tale
And life couldn’t possibly better be.

So try it, maybe you’ll like it!

And praise the Lord for precious babies and their brilliant mothers.

“Hey, pilgrim!”*

by chuckofish

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The wee babes had fun at their birthday party this year. Last year’s party was a bit of a disaster with multiple meltdowns, but there were fewer people and they are a year older. They enjoyed their pizza and cake.

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IMG_6358.jpegMeanwhile the Christmas decorations are going up everywhere around here. The Kirkwood Holiday Walk was held last Saturday! Daughter #1 and I took a walk around the neighborhood and saw a few Christmas trees lighted up in living rooms! Please. Let’s get through Thanksgiving first.

In church we prayed for the Pilgrims to the Holy Land, of which I am one…

O God, our heavenly Father, whose glory fills the whole creation, and whose presence we find wherever we go: Preserve these pilgrims who will travel to the Holy Land; surround them with your loving care; protect them from every danger; and bring them in safety to their journey’s end; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. (BCP)

We are leaving on Saturday! It’s going to be a busy week.

*Tom Doniphon in The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance (1962)

Mid-week mayhem

by chuckofish

The wee babes came over last night to celebrate their Pappy’s birthday (after a busy day at the salt mine) so I don’t  have much for this post. Luckily, the boy came through with some great pics of the busy babes at our house:

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Phew. I passed out after they went home.

Did you read this? Very interesting.

You will be blessed, you who plant seed by all the banks of the streams, you who let your ox and donkey graze.  [Isa 32:20 NET]

Never mind whereabouts your work is. Never mind whether it be visible or not. Never mind whether your name is associated with it. You may never see the issues of your toils. You are working for eternity. If you cannot see results here in the hot working day, the cool evening hours are drawing near, when you may rest from your labors and then they will follow you. So do your duty, and trust God to give the seed you sow “a body as it hath pleased Him.”

Alexander McLaren (1826-1910)

We can laugh about it now

by chuckofish

Friday at last. Phew. Yesterday I was involved in a little fender-bender on the way to work about two blocks from my house. No big deal, but it still threw me for a loop. It is jarring to have to deal with the Polizei so early in the day. I think I actually told the OM that “it’ll buff right out” when I called him.

I do have some good news: I found Season 3 of The Detectorists on Acorn! This is the British show about Andy and Lance, friends who share a passion for metal detecting and the hope that they will make an important historical find.

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It won Best Comedy at the Broadcasting Press Guild Awards 2018 for season three, but writer, director and star of the show Mackenzie Crook says that there won’t be another season. C’est la vie. I’ll enjoy watching season three this weekend.

On Saturday we will walk with team wee babes in the “March for Babies” March of Dimes walk.

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Last year we were rained out, so this will be our first such event. Should be special.

There are also a couple of good estate sales to check out and I will engage in my usual puttering around the house. Sounds like a plan.

And, hey, the sermon in Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s wedding this Saturday will be delivered by The Most Reverend Michael Curry, the Presiding Bishop of the Episcopal Church. This is cool. I have heard the Very Rev. Mr. Curry preach and he is, indeed, a good preacher who is not embarrassed by the name of JESUS. But I won’t be watching, because, really, I could care less about royal weddings, even Anglican ones. Perhaps many millions of people will watch and hear a good Anglican service and hear some good hymns and that is a good thing. No doubt about it.

But this was very interesting.

Have a good weekend!

Simple pleasures

by chuckofish

What a weekend! No mother could ask for more (except for all three of her children to be home!) than a weekend filled with all my favorite things: Doris Day, estate sales, lunch out, mani-pedis, the wee babes, wonderful gift bags of treats from all three daughters, barbecued hamburgers/hotdogs, margaritas, spinning tunes in the Florida room, someone accompanying me to church, and brunch out with mimosas. Sigh.

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BTW, I was not the only one to get presents. I gave little Lottie a shopping cart to push around because she likes a push toy better than anything and because she likes shopping. I mean the girl gets a new pair of shoes every week. (Note the gold gladiator sandals she is working here.) The shopping cart is also perfect for piling vintage toys in.

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The twins are clearly musical geniuses.

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And this quote from daughter #2 on her Instagram page was the cherry on the proverbial sundae:

“When I was learning why the sun rose and the moon set, how the flowers grew and the rain fell, that God and heaven and art and letters existed, that it was intelligent to say one’s prayers, and that well-bred children never told a lie, I learned that a mother can be strong and still sweet, and sweet although she is strong; and that she whom the world and her children both have need of, is of more value to each, for this reason.” — Elizabeth Stuart Phelps

My cup runneth over yet again.

“Ah, but I was so much older then; I’m younger than that now.”*

by chuckofish

Do you have one of those friends who is always sending you jokes and strange pictures of nature from the internet? Well, I do too. Here is something he sent me that Will Rogers

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allegedly said about growing older …

1.   Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it. 

2.  The older we get, the fewer things seem worth waiting in line for.

3.   Some people try to turn back their odometers.  Not me.  I want people to know ‘why’ I look this way.  I’ve traveled a long way, and some of the roads weren’t paved.

4.  When you are dissatisfied and would like to go back to your youth, think of algebra …

5.   You know you are getting old when everything either dries up or leaks.

6.   I don’t know how I got over the hill without getting to the top. 

7.   One of the many things no one tells you about aging is that it’s such a nice change from being young.

8.   One must wait until evening to see how splendid the day has been.

9.   Being young is beautiful, but being old is comfortable and relaxed.

10. Long ago, when men cursed and beat the ground with sticks, it was called witchcraft.  Today it’s called golf.

He makes some good points I think. Food for thought anyway.

This weekend I am going to go with “comfortable and relaxed.” I may go to an auction or I may stick to estate sales. I may clean the garage. Also, lest I forget, Pottery Barn is delivering a new sofa for our den on Saturday, so that will generate/necessitate some activity in that room. I do not buy “new” furniture very often, so comme c’est excitant!

Tonight is the preview party for the Print Fair at the Mercantile Library here in town.

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Old books, prints, wine, a silent auction–my kind of fun. On the other hand, the OM’s 45th high school reunion is this weekend, but I am begging off. I prefer to be comfortable and relaxed at home. Of course we’re never too chill to see the wee babes and their parents!

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And is there anything better than a picture of these two guys together?

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I think not. (Thanks to the @johnwayneofficial Instagram page.)

Have a good weekend!

*Bob Dylan, “My Back Pages”

“See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God”*

by chuckofish

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On Friday I forgot to wish daughter #2 a happy birthday–which was on Saturday. She is coming home on Thursday to celebrate both our birthdays next weekend, so I am focused on that, and so I forgot! Mea culpa. Love you a lot.

Screen Shot 2018-04-15 at 7.48.33 PM.pngMy weekend was a good one, full of good friends, good estate sales and good old movies, including the politically incorrect, but hilarious, Gunga Din (1939)–continuing my Cary Grant thread.

Screen Shot 2018-04-15 at 2.57.15 PM.pngI read the first lesson at church, a great section from Acts, ending with Peter’s exhortation to “Repent therefore, and turn to God“–I mean how many times a day do you get to say that? (Not nearly enough, although I frequently wish I could.)

On the other hand, the second reader got every other word wrong and stumbled through the entire thing. Carla and I promised to tell each other, when the time comes, that we need to stop reading. Sigh.

The OM and I dined at Steak ‘N Shake on Saturday and hosted the wee babes and their parents on Sunday night. The babes ate spaghetti and peanut butter and jelly and were happy campers.

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Oh, hi, Aunt Susie, Uncle Nate. How’s it going?

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I was sorry to hear about Barbara Bush, who is my mother’s age. I’m with Nikki Haley.

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A classy lady.

*I John 3:1

Roll on Mississippi*

by chuckofish

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I was definitely jumping the gun when I posted this Calvin & Hobbes cartoon last January. But really now, spring IS coming! Maybe even this week. The daffodils, despite the freezing temperatures, are doing quite well, thank you.

Anyway, my quiet weekend turned out to be busy per usual. I got my hair cut and did a little shopping. And I convinced the OM to drive me to Elsah, Illinois to go to an estate sale on Sunday.

Elsah is a lovely little historic town on the Mississippi River. It is the home of Principia College which sits on the bluffs overlooking the river. The village has a total population of 673 (as of the 2010 census.) The entire village was placed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1973. Unknown-1.jpeg

The estate sale was in a neat old house, owned by a couple who had been professors at the college. I got some books.

After perusing the sale, we drove up the River Road to Grafton, hoping to find somewhere to eat lunch, but the “season” it seems has not started yet, so rather than dine at some biker bar, we headed back to Alton, which was on the way home. We had lunch at My Just Desserts and bought a pie, because they are “downright famous for their homemade pies.”

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They enjoyed their meatloaf and playing with vintage toys. They even tried the pie!

This weekend the OM and I also watched Darkest Hour (2017) with Gary Oldham as Winston Churchill. As my DP noted earlier, it is a remarkable movie.

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We enjoyed it immensely. The OM even put his iPhone down and watched the whole thing. I couldn’t help feeling surprised that they can still make a movie like this in Hollywood. Bravo. And bravo, Gary Oldham, who really deserves that Oscar!

*Charley Pride