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Tag: Anniversary

A bushel and a peck

by chuckofish

How was your weekend? Mine turned out to be very busy and with way more socializing than I am used to.

The OM and I spent five hours going to the Newcomer Classes at our new church (on Friday night and Saturday morning). It was time well spent, but it was a lot for my aging brain to take in.

“This is why Paul upholds the teaching of the gospel in such a forceful way … Seeing such an example and such a picture of man’s great weakness and fickleness, Paul states that the truth of the gospel must supersede anything that we may devise … he is showing us that we ought to know the substance of the doctrine which is brought to us in the name of God, so that our faith can be fully grounded upon it. Then we will not be tossed about with every wind, nor will we wander about aimlessly, changing our opinions a hundred times a day; we will persist in this doctrine until the end. This, in brief, is what we must remember.”

–John Calvin, Sermon on Galatians

On Saturday afternoon I brought in all the plants from the Florida Room and attempted to find suitable winter homes for them throughout my house. Exhausting. Then I took a quick nap before going out to celebrate our 41st (!) anniversary with some old friends at a nice restaurant.

Kids, 1980

On Sunday, instead of going to church with the boy and the wee twins as planned, the OM and I drove to Jefferson City where daughter #1 had purchased a Power Wheels Raptor for the twins at Walmart (spoiler alert: combo birthday/Christmas present from all of us)…

…but, curses, had discovered that it would not fit in her Mazda. (There is a lot of backstory here, but I will not go into it. Suffice it to say, we have been looking high and low for the aforementioned truck, so when she found one, she jumped on it.) So we drove to JC, picked her up and hustled over to Walmart where they were holding it. Two nice young men brought it out to the OM’s SUV…

…only to discover that it was too big for his car! Luckily we were in mid-MO where the two young men took it upon themselves to make it fit. They took it out of the box and persuaded it to fit. Bravo.

We thanked them kindly and headed to Steak ‘n Shake for lunch. Then we bid adieu to daughter #1 and drove back to our flyover town and managed to unload the Raptor into the garage, where we will put it back together at some later date.

What a weekend! I must say, it was a beautiful weekend, weather-wise–crisp and cool. I watched Circus World (1964) starring John Wayne, Claudia Cardinale and Rita Hayworth on Sunday night, which rounded out the weekend nicely.

“Come to my heart and bring it to rest As the bird flies home to its welcome nest”*

by chuckofish

Earlier this week the OM made some grumbling reference to our upcoming anniversary (38!) and whether I wanted “to do anything.” I suppose if I had said–yes, let’s get dressed up and paint the town! Please make a reservation for two at Tony’s (or some other extremely expensive restaurant)–he would have grumbled and done so. However, he knows me well enough after all these years to know I would never say that. It is a school night, after all.

So, anyway, we will probably kick back tonight and watch a Jean-Claude Van Damme movie to celebrate his birthday (b. 1960) today. Maybe the OM will pick up dinner at Chick-fil-a on the way home.

“The Puritan ethic of marriage was first to look not for a partner whom you do love passionately at this moment but rather for one whom you can love steadily as your best friend for life, then to proceed with God’s help to do just that.”
J.I. Packer

Image-1.jpgMeanwhile the wee babes came over last night and we watched Mary Poppins (1964)–they were mesmerized. [Don’t worry: we didn’t let them stand that close the whole time!] They love music and singing and Mary Poppins is one great song after another!

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Three hours with the wee babes is exhausting but also the most fun of the week!

*Paul Laurence Dunbar

Joyeux anniversaire

by chuckofish

This weekend we went to a surprise party for our good friends who were celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary hosted by their daughter.

time and el

We lived next door to each other back when our kids were little.

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good grief

I guess we’ve all grown up–or at least, gotten older!

Thanks for reminding me! Well, at least there was cake.

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Hats off to all those brave souls who manage to stay married through thick and thin.

We’ll have another milestone to share tomorrow!