dual personalities

De choses et d’autres

by chuckofish

One of the nice side effects of having a party, is all the leftover flowers…

(We also have a lot of leftover food!) But we miss seeing our loved ones and that “and then we were all in one place” feeling. Sigh.

Well, moving along, I read Redhead by the Side of the Road, Anne Tyler’s latest novel. NPR said that it “is heartwarming balm for jangled nerves.” Well, maybe. It is an easy read, but there just isn’t much there. Tyler wrote a few masterful books back in the 1980s and some good ones followed, but she is yet another example of someone whose editor keeps goading her to write one more novel because the publisher knows it will make some money. Anne, you’re 79 years old, it’s okay to retire.

Now I am reading The Only Woman in the Room, a fictionalized telling of real life “glamour icon and scientist” Hedy Lamarr’s escape from Nazi Austria and transformation in Hollywood. She was, no doubt, quite a woman, but in the hands of this author, it’s all pretty dull, re-hashed material. The book was a gift, so I will read the whole thing and hope that it picks up.

To celebrate the 200th birthday of the state of Missouri, I watched Across the Wide Missouri (1951).

(This photo must be of lunch break on the set, because look at that cowboy in the background!)

Directed by William Wellman, the film stars Clark Gable as a fur trapper and mountain man in the 1830s. Gable is a bit old for his part (typical for Hollywood) but I enjoyed it. Beautifully shot in Technicolor in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, there is a lot of action and nary a dull moment in this movie. Gable’s stunt double Jack N. Young was particularly impressive. The final action scene where our hero’s baby son, attached as a papoose to a horse that bolts, is quite exciting. The supporting cast is excellent and includes the usually suave Adolphe Menjou playing against type as a French trapper as well as Russell Simpson and James Whittemore.

Although romanticized, the plot and the depiction of the Blackfeet Indians seem fair. There are plenty of “good” Indians to balance Ricardo Montalban’s “bad” Indian. According to Wikipedia, the 31-year old Montalban was seriously injured during the making of this movie and had back problems for the rest of his life. I don’t doubt it. (You can rent it on Amazon Prime.)

Well, I hope everyone is keeping cool. We are experiencing a typical August heat wave.

Things could be worse.

I was happy to see this. You go, Isaac. You were always a favorite of mine.

Prevent us, O Lord, in all our doings with thy most gracious favor, and further us with thy continual help; that in all our works, begun, continued, and ended in thee, we may glorify thy holy name, and finally by thy mercy obtain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ Our Lord.

–BCP, 1662

“This is the day that the Lord has made.”

by chuckofish

The morning dawned hot and muggy but a cool breeze was blowing in from the river for the Bicentennial festivities. Sorry I’m a big dork and think events like this are cool. I stood in the sun until I felt my right shoulder warming up and fearing an even blotchier tan/sunburn situation, I moved to the shade off to the side.

Later, inside, there was a naturalization ceremony where 33 lucky people became United States citizens. They were all really excited and I found the whole thing very moving. There was one of those All-State choirs there and they sang the National Anthem beautifully.

In other, unrelated, news, this amused me. I am always the bear.

This is pretty much me to myself every night. I didn’t even have a terrible day–but lately it seems like there is all this existential stress and dread looming over us all the time that it feels like a terrible day, even when it isn’t!

Usually when this happens, it’s a good time to turn to your Bible and flip it open and start reading. Unless you land on one of those pages that’s just so-and-so beget so-and-so, you’re sure to find something useful.

I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,

    my God, in whom I trust.”

Psalm 91

Read the whole thing.

In God we still trust

by chuckofish

Today is the actual 200th anniversary of the day Missouri was admitted as the 24th state. Part of the 1803 Louisiana Purchase by the United States, Missouri earned the nickname Gateway to the West because it served as a significant departure point for expeditions and settlers heading to the West during the 19th century.

In case you were wondering, the Great Seal was designed by Judge Robert William Wells and adopted by the Missouri General Assembly on January 11, 1822.

The center of the state seal is composed of two parts. On the right is the United States coat-of-arms containing the bald eagle. In its claws are arrows and olive branches, signifying that the power of war and peace lies with the U.S. federal government. On the left side of the shield, the state side, are a grizzly bear and a silver crescent moon. The crescent symbolizes Missouri at the time of the state seal’s creation, a state of small population and wealth which would increase like the new or crescent moon; it also symbolizes the “second son,” meaning Missouri was the second state formed out of the Louisiana Territory.

This shield is encircled by a belt inscribed with the motto, “United we stand, divided we fall,” which indicates Missouri’s advantage as a member of the United States. The two grizzlies on either side of the shield symbolize the state’s strength and its citizens’ bravery. The bears stand atop a scroll bearing the state motto, “Salus Populi Suprema Lex Esto,” which means, “Let the welfare of the people be the supreme law.” Below this scroll are the Roman numerals for 1820, the year Missouri began its functions as a state.

The helmet above the shield represents state sovereignty, and the large star atop the helmet surrounded by 23 smaller stars signified Missouri’s status as the 24th state. The cloud around the large star indicates the problems Missouri had in becoming a state. The whole state seal is enclosed by a scroll bearing the words, “The Great Seal of the State of Missouri.” (RSMo.10.060)

You have to admit that our state flag is one of the coolest.

Trivia question: What other state flag features a bear? (Yes, California, but we have two bears–technically three bears–and California only has one.)

So today the Missouri Bicentennial Commemoration and U.S. Naturalization Ceremonies will be livestreamed at missouri2021.org/statehood-day-livestreams.

Also note that Missouri 2021 is encouraging communities across the state to commemorate Statehood Day with an ice cream social, which is a most appropriate way to celebrate Missouri, since the ice cream cone is the official state dessert. In my flyover town the historical society is inviting all members to bring their families to Mudd’s Grove for ice cream and I am planning to go, of course.

The Missouri State Fair is coming up in a few days and I am sorry I won’t be able to attend. However, daughter #1 will and she’ll report back. Gee, I hope she gets to see The Missourians who will be performing on August 21-22.

Let’s all just take a moment. And maybe make a toast to the great state of Missouri.

The following are the toasts raised at the grand dinner and ball in St. Louis celebrating the return of Lewis and Clark on September 23, 1806:

  1. The president of the United States—The friend of science, the polar star of discovery, the philosopher and the patriot.
  2. The Heads of Department—The pillars that support the world’s best hope.
  3. The Missouri expedition—May the knowledge of the newly explored regions of the West, be the least benefit that we may derive from this painful and perilous expedition.
  4. The hardy followers of Captains Lewis and Clark—May they be rewarded by the esteem of their fellow citizens.
  5. The United States—Whilst they tolerate a spirit of enquiry, may never forget, that united they stand – but divided they fall.
  6. The Territory of Louisiana—Freedom without bloodshed, may her actions duly appreciate the blessing.
  7. The memory of Christopher Columbus—May those who imitate his hardihood, perseverence [sic] and merit, never have, like him, to encounter public ingratitude.
  8. The Federal Constitution—may the Eagle of America convey it to the remotest regions of the globe; and whilst they read they cannot but admire.
  9. The memory of the illustrious Washington, the father of America—May his guardian spirit still watch over us, and prove a terror to the engines of despotism.
  10. The Capitol of the United States—May the goddess of liberty, never cease to preside there.
  11. Peace with all nations; but submission to none.
  12. The Commerce of the United States—The basis for the political elevation of America.
  13. Agriculture and Industry—The farmer is the best support of government.
  14. Our fathers who shed their blood and laid down their lives to purchase our independence—May we emulate their actions, and inherit their virtues.
  15. The Missouri—Under the auspices of America, may it prove a vehicle of wealth to all the nations of the world.
  16. Our National Council—May the baneful influence of private ambition and political intrigue, be ever expelled thence by the genuine spirit of republicanism.
  17. The fair daughters of Louisiana—May they ever bestow their smiles on hardihood and virtuous valor.

18. Captains Lewis and Clark—Their perilous services endear them to every American heart.

Postcards from flyover country

by chuckofish

We had a super fun long weekend with daughter #2, DN and Katiebelle visiting.

We got the cousins together for a backyard splash party…

I got this cute sprinkler for the wee babes…

…but, of course, their aunt in Texas had just bought them this sprinkler…

(which do you think they preferred?)

C’est la vie…we hung out…

and looked out the window (better than TV)…

…and we prepared for our big party celebrating the 200th birthday of Missouri statehood on Saturday…

We had a party tent!

..where our friends Gary and Don played…

We were living in the moment and no one took many pictures, but it was fun and no one passed out from the heat. (We were glad the the big thunderstorm held off until the next night.) Someone showed the wee laddie how to use the party pump on the keg of beer and he spent a long time filling up cups and passing them out to guests (whether they wanted one or not) after playing with his surprisingly anti-social sister got old.

My oldest friend came in from Virginia for the festivities (but no one took a picture of us!) and that was wonderful. We had a nice visit after everyone went home.

Family and old friends…that’s what it’s all about, right?

Daughter #2, DN and sweet Katie made it out of town before the big storm hit, but daughter #1 decided to wait to drive back to JC until Monday morning. We tried to watch the closing ceremony of the Tokyo Olympics, but we didn’t make it very long.

Gee, where can I get one of those caftans?

Grace and peace to you today and in the week ahead.

Tra la la

by chuckofish

What’s the story, Morning Glory? What’s the word, Hummingbird?

Well, we’re all here, hanging out in flyover country.

Toasting with Margaritas at Club Taco.

Frolicking on the lawn. Life is good.

Today we’ll get the wading pool out and the wee cousins will come over. And in between we’ll get ready for our party tomorrow.

Have a great weekend! Make good choices.

“Grace is the celebration of life, relentlessly hounding all the non-celebrants in the world”*

by chuckofish

This morning I am going to the airport to pick up daughter #2, DN and Katiebelle! They will be here for the weekend and will attend our 200th Birthday of Missouri Statehood party on Saturday. Also on Saturday is my DP’s second son’s re-scheduled wedding. How did this scheduling snafu happen you ask? Long story…but c’est la vie! This weekend is party central for both DPs.

This was an interesting article about raising children by Episcopalian Sam Bush. “God does not aim to quell our anxiety by offering us helpful tips or boosting our self-esteem.” Yes, but I do get tired of articles that go on about how hard everything is, including child-rearing. Everything is an excuse for anxiety. Of course, raising children is hard, especially in this iPhone-addicted age. But your children do not ultimately belong to you; they belong to God. Turn your worry and your cares over to Him. A lot of our modern problems are due to our trying to go it alone, with only “science” to help. Good luck with that. Be sure to watch the Parks and Recreation video–priceless Ron Swanson (who I have no doubt is a Calvinist.)

And I found this article to be quite compelling.

Happy birthday to Wendell Berry, who turns 87 today. It is also the birthday of Guy de Maupassant, the master of the short story. He wrote his own epitaph:  “I have coveted everything and taken pleasure in nothing,” which should be a warning to us all. A toast to them both!

“Grace is the celebration of life, relentlessly hounding all the non-celebrants in the world. It is a floating, cosmic bash shouting its way through the streets of the universe, flinging the sweetness of its cassations to every window, pounding at every door in a hilarity beyond all liking and happening, until the prodigals come out at last and dance, and the elder brothers finally take their fingers out of their ears.”

Robert Farrar Capon, “Between Noon and Three”

“Sometimes I forget it’s true/ I could use a reminder”

by chuckofish

Hello, readers. Daughter #1 here. Back from a conference in Utah. Thank you Daughter #2 for covering for me. Yes, I travelled to Utah for 3 1/2 days of talking to people I don’t know and wearing a very large nametag, even in public. I had not flown in over a year and a half and it’s just as hellish but now with a mask! At least if I sat at a bar nursing a diet coke, I could remove it. A warning–the Salt Lake City airport, though brand new and featuring a security set up that looks as if it were designed and implemented by Chick Fil A employees, has a walk that must be at least two miles long from the pick up/drop off to the Southwest gates. At one point, half-way through, there is a sign that literally says “7 Minute Walk to B Gates” OKAY.

Anyway, the first night, I braved an enclosed tram full of 50 people to ride up a mountain for this view. I can’t imagine skiing down! The conference itself was interesting and I am I glad I went. But I was also glad to get home.

We also got to see the Utah State Capitol–and while it was pretty, I like Missouri’s more.

Our tour guide told us that the seagulls you can just glimpse at the top of the rotunda have a wingspan of six feet when you are up close. From the floor, obviously, they look quite small. My mother, of course, knew the the significance of seagulls to the Mormons–read more here.

Beehives are also of importance to Utahans and their State Capitol is full of them. Beehives are a favorite of mine–and I enjoyed spotting them throughout (much like visitors to the Missouri State Capitol can go on a scavenger hunt for bears).

And lest you think I would travel to Salt Lake City and not go see the LDS temple, never fear, I went. But! It is closed for four years as they totally retrofit it and raise it to put it on shock absorbers to protect it in the event of an earthquake. They did the same thing to the State Capitol in 2004. Wild stuff.

Anyway, it all makes me glad to be back in Missouri–even if I did overschedule myself this week and try to cram two weeks of work and travel into three days! This made me laugh:

And I thought it was interesting that my mother included a link to an article about the power of singing on Monday’s post because I had planned to include the song below after hearing it for the first time on my drive back to Mid-MO on Saturday.

Life, as we continually discuss on this blog, is more than we know.

“and in the rhythm of the swim/ I hummed a two-four-time slow hymn”*

by chuckofish

So have you been watching the Tokyo Olympics? Me neither. I have just lost all interest since everyone went professional. But I did enjoy being reminded of Billy Mills, the only American to win the Gold Medal for the Men’s 10,000 meters long-distance running event at the Summer Olympic Games. A Native American from the University of Kansas who was a three-time NCAA All-America cross-country runner but not expected to distinguish himself at the Olympics, he surprised everyone when he won Gold in 1964 in Tokyo. It is exciting to watch him come from behind and blast over the finish line.

That is what the Olympics are all about to me. Amateurs who push themselves to do more than they think they can do and are proud to represent their country.

I had forgotten that they made a movie about Billy Mills called Running Brave (1984) which starred Robbie Benson. I have never seen it, but I may have to check it out if I can find it.

Jim Thorpe–All-American (1951), starring Burt Lancaster and directed by Michael Curtiz, tells the story of another great Native American athlete who won medals at the 1912 Olympics and distinguished himself in various sports, both in college and on professional teams. But the injustice of taking his medals away upset me a lot as a child when I first saw this movie and it still rankles, especially considering how everyone gets paid for everything now. (His Olympic honors were reinstated in 1983, thirty-two years after this film was released and thirty years after Thorpe’s death.)

Well, a toast to Billy Mills and to Jim Thorpe. And while we’re at it, I’m going to toast Buffalo Bill Cody, who was no Olympian, but could have been. When a scout for the U.S. Army, he performed an exceptional feat of riding as a lone dispatch courier from Fort Larned to Fort Zarah (escaping brief capture), Fort Zarah to Fort Hays, Fort Hays to Fort Dodge, Fort Dodge to Fort Larned, and, finally, Fort Larned to Fort Hays, a total of 350 miles in 58 hours through hostile territory, covering the last 35 miles on foot. Cody was awarded the Medal of Honor in 1872 for documented gallantry above and beyond the call of duty as an Army scout in the Indian Wars. It was revoked in 1917, along with medals of 910 other recipients dating back to the Revolutionary War, when Congress decided to create a hierarchy of medals. Good grief. His medal was reinstated in 1988.

Frankly, you can have your medals. This is how my mind works.

*Maxine Kumin, “Morning Swim”

“I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder”*

by chuckofish

The last of the Hibiscus unfolding…beautiful!

How was your weekend? Mine was pretty quiet. Daughter #1 returned from her conference in Salt Lake City, but she went home on Saturday to attend to things in Jeff City before leaving again on Monday. I practiced driving the OM’s new car. I am so used to driving my little Mini Cooper that it takes quite an adjustment to get used to a large SUV with all the whiz bang updates. My car doesn’t even have a rearview camera much less a buzzing seat to tell you when you are drifting over the line!

This is an interesting piece about the Unifying Power of Singing. I have mentioned how nice it is to attend a church again where everyone sings–and sings with gusto. I grew up at a church where everyone sang and we all sang in morning chapel at my private school. But increasingly (in the Episcopal Church anyway) it seems that singing has been left to the choir. It is part of the show, something to be appreciated, but not to be participated in. Maybe the small congregations feel self-conscious singing, who knows. But singing is good for the soul.

I recorded Paper Moon (1973) on TCM and watched it the other night. I had not seen it since 1973 when my Aunt Susanne took me to see it when I was back East visiting colleges the summer before my senior year in high school. I liked it then and I liked it this time around.

Well directed by Peter Bogdanovich, who keeps it simple, it was shot in Kansas and Missouri in black and white. It feels authentic to the 1930s without being precious. Ryan O’Neal plays an itinerant con man, Moses Pray, who meets nine-year-old Addie Loggins at her mother’s graveside service, where the neighbors suspect he is Addie’s father. He denies this, but agrees to deliver the orphaned Addie to her aunt’s home in St. Joseph, Missouri. O’Neal and his real-life daughter Tatum O’Neal work well together and Tatum steals the show without any Margaret O’Brien-style showing-off. I liked her. In reading about the movie, it seems that Bogdanovich had a hard time pulling a performance out of her, sometimes taking up to 50 takes of a scene (which sounds like borderline child abuse), but it doesn’t show. 

Tatum O’Neal won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actress, but clearly she is not a supporting actress. She was only nine years old, however, so I guess they thought that award was appropriate. Madeline Kahn was the supporting actress in the film and, as usual, she is terrific. You can watch it on Amazon Prime.

Here is Paul Zahl’s next list of “to watch” movies on TCM. As usual, he is right on target, but I do disagree about Vertigo (1958) which I find hokey and unwatchable. C’est la vie. I love it when he says a movie “is worth seeing once.” Quelle burn.

Here is a summer reading list of books on historical subjects from Albert Mohler, whose opinion I respect.

And finally, Baruch dayan ha’emet, Jackie Mason, who died on Saturday at age 93.

*Stuart Hine, “How Great Thou Art”

Don’t worry, spiders, I keep house casually*

by chuckofish

Normally, that haiku would describe me perfectly, but in preparation for next Saturday’s wedding I’ve been stepping up my game – or at least planning to. So far, I’ve concentrated on purchasing specialist cleaning supplies on Amazon and rearranging the china while I wait for my packages to arrive.  You see, I bought these two little demitasse cups from the same place I bought the Russian cup and saucer and I had to find a good place for them. Here’s a close up.

And here’s what they look like on the shelf in my kitchen.

It took us a while to identify the maker because the stamp on the bottom is in Japanese, but eventually the DH discovered that they were made in the early 1970s by a company called Dai Ichi Taki. You can see more of the pattern here. They are nothing special but I really like them, so they’ll take a place on the shelf until the next time I change the display.

Pretty china aside, have you noticed how crisp and perfect those photos are? No, I have not suddenly steadied the tremor in my hands. I did something even wilder – the DH and I took the plunge and bought a smartphone! It’s your basic black Samsung Galaxy A32. It’s not the newest model but it seems to do everything except fill out your taxes and write your will for you.

We didn’t really have a choice after ATT warned us that they would not continue to support our 3G flip phone. Once the new phone arrived, I spent a good hour Zooming with my youngest son who taught me how to use it. Then I spent another hour with an ATT rep to register it. The latter was quite the ordeal, although the customer service man was patient and nice. All is up and running now and I should be ready to take good photos of the wedding festivities. My goodness, between the car and the phone I’ve had my fill of 21st century technology. I think I’ll go read a book.

Have a grand weekend!

*A haiku by Kobayashi Issa