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Category: Weekend

Weekend forecast

by chuckofish

The boy picked up daughter #2 at the airport yesterday and dropped her off at my office where we hung out until we could reasonably escape. Then we sat outside and drank margaritas at Club Taco.

Today she is going to the zoo with the wee babes and daughter #3 (who has a day off) while I am at work.

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How much fun will that be, Lottie?

On Saturday we’re getting up early and driving to Columbia to see daughter #1 and check out her apartment and her new couch and go to Les Bourgeois Vineyards and have lunch at the blufftop bistro overlooking the lovely Missouri River.

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Forecasting super fun in central MO.

Enjoy your weekend too!

“Oh Lord, you are my God; I will exalt you…”*

by chuckofish

It was a stormy, gray Sunday and I contemplated staying in bed and reading Ivan Doig, but I was a good girl and got up and went to church. I was rewarded with great scripture readings and one of my favorite hymns. I mean, how great is Philippians 4:1-9:

Therefore, my brethren, whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm thus in the Lord, my beloved.

I entreat Eu-o′dia and I entreat Syn′tyche to agree in the Lord. And I ask you also, true yokefellow, help these women, for they have labored side by side with me in the gospel together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life.

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. Let all men know your forbearance. The Lord is at hand. Have no anxiety about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will keep your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, do; and the God of peace will be with you.

There you have it.

Our final hymn was #624, Jerusalem the Golden, which always makes me cry. I was kind of a mess, mascara running all over, etc. Oh well. I am just a sentimental/crazy old lady who cries at hymns.

Most of my weekend was spent catching up on house maintenance and the like, which I do not mind. Life becomes a romance when you can learn to enjoy your everyday tasks and routines. Didn’t Oswald Chambers say something about that? (I think he was talking about our relationship with Christ, but it works here too.) Enjoy your home, I say, and part of that is taking care of it.

The OM and I babysat on Friday night while the boy and daughter #3 went out on the town…haha…they were home before 9 o’clock! The wee babes were great–a hand full–but great. I had forgotten what it is like to try to change a diaper on a boy-child who, when put on his back, immediately flips over.  What a wrestling match ensues! Zut alors! I managed to get the little bud into his jammies, but I’m afraid they might have been  backwards…C’est la vie. They were tuckered out but too wound up to go to bed, and when their parents arrived home, it was in the nick of time as Lottiebelle was having a meltdown and the OM’s patience was wearing thin. We headed home and I had a large glass of wine. They all came over for the last barbecue of the season on Sunday night.

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In between I went to a work-related fundraiser–a “Hootenanny”–where a bunch of aging hippies and old communists plus President George H.W. Bush’s former Commissioner of the Immigration and Naturalization Service sang 1960s folk songs accompanied by a ukelele band. I’m telling you, truth is stranger than fiction. It was more fun than you would think and the story of my life.

Now it is Monday already and it’s back to the salt mine. Enjoy the day!

*Isaiah 25:1

Grant us strength and courage to love and serve you with gladness and singleness of heart*

by chuckofish

I was so busy this weekend that I never even had a phone conversation with my DP. I got a lot of exercise (walking), but I ate a lot of food. C’est la vie.

I went to the Best of Missouri Market and the Shaw Art Fair.

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I like attending such fairs, but they also always make me feel a little guilty because I cannot buy something from all the artists in all the wonderful booths. Well, c’est la vie.

Daughter #1 and I went to three estate sales in the rain and got a few things–bargains–and a Christmas present for someone! We also went to HomeGoods and found a few more bargains.

We also finally sat down and went through the wedding pictures and narrowed down our “favorites,” getting pretty hysterical in the process, mostly at our own expense. The bride–daughter #2–looked beautiful,

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Screen Shot 2017-10-09 at 2.34.09 PM.pngbut the mother-of-the-bride and maid-of-honor, not so much.

Screen Shot 2017-10-09 at 2.59.18 PM.pngIt was a big bouquet…Little Lottie displayed her ‘tude as well…

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We also spent time with the wee babes on two occasions.

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We can’t wait ’til daughter #2 comes to visit in two weeks! Right, Lottie?

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*BCP, Holy Eucharist, Rite II

In the pumpkin patch

by chuckofish

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Autumnal greetings from flyover country. I had a busy fall weekend full of pumpkins,

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botanical vistas,

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estate sale-ing, church-going, good food, family, and babies.

I’ll have more tomorrow. Have a great Monday!

“To will and to work for his good pleasure”*

by chuckofish

I got to read both lessons in church on Sunday–I don’t know why–and that was super fun as they were good ones from Ezekiel and Philippians. I actually got to say, “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling”! This gave me great joy–it’s the little things, right?

The weather was beautiful, so I convinced the OM to accompany me on a little outing on Saturday, the aforementioned trek down to Jefferson Barracks and the Missouri Civil War Museum. I had heard that it was a good museum, but we were still pleasantly surprised to find a very professionally appointed museum with interesting displays.12505902095_33d1b4f5f2_b.jpgUpon arriving we watched the typical opening video describing how the organization was incorporated in 2002 for the sole purpose of saving the historic Jefferson Barracks 1905 Post Exchange Building and converting it into a Civil War museum, library, and educational center. We learned that since opening in June 2013, it has become one of the largest Civil War Museums in the nation and will be one of the largest Civil War research libraries in the nation as well.  Its focus is entirely on Missouri’s role in the American Civil War.

Well done! I encourage you to support such small enterprises and to take your children to visit them. They survive on ticket sales and donor contributions. I know the boy would have loved this museum when he was a child. Hopefully, he will take the wee babes to visit when they are a little older. (BTW, two of their great-grandfathers are buried at Jefferson Barracks, so they could check that out as well.) Next on my list is the Museum of Missouri Military History in Jefferson City. They do not have a website, but they do have a very active Facebook page and it looks interesting!

Also, I finished Jan Karon’s To Be Where You Are, which I loved, and Jennifer Worth’s Call the Midwife.  Now I am back to asking the old question, “What to read now?”

I watched the under-rated Tom Horn (1979) which I enjoyed very much.

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richard-farnsworth-in-tom-horn.jpgI went to one estate sale and rescued a needlepoint pillow.

Screen Shot 2017-10-01 at 2.16.04 PM.pngI trimmed the ivy on the patio and tidied the inside of my house. I did what my Aunt Susanne used to call “desk work.” And I got ready for a Sunday night visit from the wee babes and their parents.

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*Philippians 2:13

FRIYAY

by chuckofish

This has been a busy week at work with a Big Event and a few smaller events.

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I m ready for a quiet weekend.

However, this weekend is our town’s annual Greentree Festival, complete with a parade on Saturday. In recent years I have been content to watch from the sidelines by myself, but I am hoping that the wee babes and their parents will be able to join me on the parade route. What do you think, bud?

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Speaking of parades, I read that on September 27 the city of Cincinnati will honor home town girl Doris Day at City Hall. Rumor has it that a street may be named in her honor, there will be a screening of “Pillow Talk” at the Esquire Theater, and a fundraiser for her Doris Day Animal Foundation.  Truly I can’t believe they haven’t named a street after her already. She is certainly one of the best things to come out of that town.

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Meanwhile I am still looking for something good to read after finishing all the Longmire books.

Screen Shot 2017-09-05 at 3.00.29 PM.pngFor a change of pace, daughter #2 suggested I read Chapters From a Life by Elizabeth Stuart Phelps (an early 19th century American writer) and I went online and checked it out from my flyover university library, but it takes a few days to get a book that way. So I must be patient.

After reading this article, I ordered The Stand by Stephen King, so we’ll see how that goes. I have read several SK novels–I liked The Green Mile. They do vary, but I have to admit he is a good writer. 

Well, anyway, I’ll find something…

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I got books…Have a terrific weekend!

Let us conduct ourselves becomingly

by chuckofish

Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not kill, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment, are summed up in this sentence, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. 11 Besides this you know what hour it is, how it is full time now for you to wake from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed; 12 the night is far gone, the day is at hand. Let us then cast off the works of darkness and put on the armor of light; 13 let us conduct ourselves becomingly as in the day, not in reveling and drunkenness, not in debauchery and licentiousness, not in quarreling and jealousy. 14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

(Romans 13:8-14)

On Sunday I read the second lesson in church. This made me very happy, because it was a great passage, especially that line about “salvation is nearer to us now than when we first believed;  the night is far gone, the day is at hand.”

In other news I went to the auction as planned on Saturday and made a few purchases. I rescued a little drypoint etching by Ernst Oppler (1867-1929) which no one wanted, but which I really like.

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I also bid on and won an English Pembroke table with drop leaves which is quite nice. There were other nice things, but I restrained myself. I loaded up the amazing Mini Cooper and trundled home.

I spent the rest of the weekend puttering around the old manse, doing laundry, vacuuming, dusting, and reading the newest Longmire out in the Florida room. I finished it and now will have to wait ’til the next installment which should come out in about a year! It was quite a cliffhanger too…

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The OM left for a conference in Philadelphia on Sunday, so I had to make dinner for the boy and daughter #3. I managed to throw something together (toasted ravioli); the babes had some orange food.

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I must also note that today is daughter #1’s birthday! We won’t be able to celebrate together until two weeks from now, but we’ll toast her tonight for sure!MWC.jpeg

You’ve come a long way, baby!

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Here’s to a wonderful year! (And a good week!)

And, oh, what’s that you say? The Cards are only 2 games back from first place?

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Burning down the house

by chuckofish

I spent my long weekend strolling through furniture stores and trying out sofas with daughter #1.

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We didn’t buy anything, but we took notes. We also strolled through several antique malls. I bought a book.

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I have been reading it and it is pretty darn good.

We went to a couple of happy hours and sat outside and on a roof deck, because the weather was beautiful. The wee babes came over with the boy and daughter #3 and we had a dance party where we introduced them (the wee babes) to the Talking Heads.

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A whole lot of drooling going on…

We barbequed, of course, and the bud learned some table manners.

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Little Lottiebelle impressed us with her mad skills.

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All in all, it was a fabulous long weekend at the end of which I caught up with daughter #2 in a 2-hour marathon phone convo.

Back to the salt mines and a slower pace. Have a good Monday!

“Windage and elevation, Mrs. Langdon; windage and elevation.”*

by chuckofish

Quelle lovely, quiet weekend! I had no plans so I caught up on my house/yard work, read a lot and watched several movies. Our wonderful weather continued and I spent a lot of time in my Florida room, which is usually off-limits in August because of our flyover heat.

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Meanwhile, daughter #2 celebrated the Rocky Mountain wedding of her oldest bff in Denver.

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Three of those gals are now old married ladies–hard to believe!

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Since I am in-between Longmire books (and waiting for #12 from the library) I read Fair Land, Fair Land by A.B. Guthrie, Jr. This is the third and final book in his trilogy of historical fiction on the discovery and settling of the American West. Written when he was in his eighties and published in 1982, Mr. Guthrie had rounded out a life’s work that began in 1946 with the highly acclaimed The Big Sky. In this book he resolves the fates of two of his most famous protagonists, Boone Caudill and Dick Summers. (As you know, Dick Summers is one of my favorite characters in fiction.)  Although not as strong and polished in my opinion as The Big Sky and The Way West, I enjoyed the book until the end, which was needlessly abrupt. I get it that Guthrie was “mourning the passing of the West into the destructive hands of the white man.” He made his point–and it is a good one. I just wish he had tied up a few loose ends. And did Dick have to meet so meaningless an end? No, he emphatically did not.

I then started Precious and Grace, the next in the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency series. Funnily enough, it also has a main character who, like Dick Summers, is frequently looking back to better days.

She was remembering what Gabarone had been like in those days of greater intimacy. She thought of it as the quiet time; the time of cattle; the time of bicycles rather than cars; the time when the arrival of the day’s single plane was an event; the time of politeness and courtesy.

Sigh. Aren’t we all?

I watched several good movies including The Undefeated (1969) starring John Wayne and Rock Hudson and a score of fine supporting actors. This is the movie that Hudson always claimed saved his foundering career. He was eternally grateful to John Wayne.

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I remember seeing this movie when it came out, but I had not seen it in a long time and it was immensely enjoyable. The script by James Lee Barrett is darn good and there is a lot of action and smart repartee between the two stars. Hudson was 44 years old and way to young to be put out to film pasture.

I also watched two movies I had dvr’d starring Simone Signoret: The Deadly Affair (1966), a John Le Carre spy thriller, and the star-filled Ship of Fools (1965). I enjoyed them both.

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I had never seen The Deadly Affair, which stars James Mason in the George Smiley part and Maximilian Schell as–big surprise–the communist agent. It is a dreary British movie, typical of the mid-1960s realism school full of “shocking” characters like Mason’s nymphomaniac wife. But it is well done and I enjoyed it, mostly because I could imagine my parents going to see it at the movies and enjoying it. They loved those “sophisticated” cold war films.

I had seen Ship of Fools and read Katherine Anne Porter’s book, which was a bestseller in its day.

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I always found Oskar Werner very appealing in this movie even as an adolescent–so sad and sensitive. Lee Marvin is pretty hilarious as the American ballplayer, and Vivien Leigh in her final film is spot-on perfect.  There is a lot of “acting” going on in this movie, and the message is pretty heavy-handed, but Ms. Leigh is terrific and worth watching the film for.

The wee babes came over for dinner on Sunday night with their parents. I gave Lottiebelle her first cherry accessory from the Women’s Exchange.

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How cute are they/is she?

Now it is back to the salt mine. Have a great week!

*Col. John Henry Thomas in The Undefeated.

 

 

Monday again and an eclipse in the bargain

by chuckofish

Another whirlwind weekend involving a speedy trip to central Missouri has come and gone.

The OM and I moved some more stuff to daughter #1’s new apartment in a rented pickup truck. Her partial moving van-load from NYC had arrived on Friday, so her apartment was full of boxes, but she was grateful to get more.

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and then left her with her work cut out.

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On Sunday we went over to the boy’s house to see the wee babes and to get some baby-holding-time in.

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Good therapy for what ails you.

I also moved on to Longmire #12, An Obvious Fact,

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which is full of wonderful things like:

In the great balancing equations of Dog’s mind, there are two things he cannot resist–ham, and me holding open a vehicle door. I’m pretty sure that ham is first and the only reason me holding open a vehicle door is in the running is because it might  mean that we are going somewhere to get ham.

Walt makes me laugh and that is also good therapy for whatever ails you.

The total eclipse finally happens today and I will be glad when all the hoopla is over with. The media run-up to this has been wild. Enough already.

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I’ll let you know how it goes.