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Hearts to heav’n and voices raise

by chuckofish

How was your weekend? Mine was quiet, but there were highlights. Also we had a big midwestern storm and EF 3 tornado damage in north St. Louis where five people actually died.

The storm blew through Forest Park, so that at the St. Louis Art Museum about 150 visitors were hustled into the basement. The Saint Louis Zoo has been closed for several days because of damage.

The tornado came pretty close to daughter #1’s house when it tore through Clayton, but we were unscathed. It hardly even rained in our neck of the woods. We watched the non-stop weather coverage for a good hour and a half though.

I went to church by myself, which is odd nowadays, but it was a great service–even though I literally cried through the whole thing–the Kindergarten Bible presentation, the choir singing this:

…and the congregation singing Christ Our Hope in Life and Death.

Yes, I am super stressed out, but that was too much.

Our associate pastor gave a good sermon on Apologetic Engagement, citing I Peter 3:13-17:

Now who is there to harm you if you are zealous for what is good? 14 But even if you should suffer for righteousness’ sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, 15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, 16 having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame. 17 For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God’s will, than for doing evil.

The people in my church are very good at this, but I confess, I struggle with it.

I did say hello to the man sitting next to me in church who I did not know. He was from Singapore, visiting on business. He had looked up PCA churches online and come to our service–I was impressed. Pleased to meet you! He probably wondered who the strange lady crying next to him was. C’est la vie.

Our Sunday School was an all-church meeting in the fellowship hall where our pastor talked about some changes in the service the session has agreed on, such as the clergy going back to wearing black robes over their suits in our morning services.

Jonathan Edwards

I’m all for it. We are also going to start using wine (in addition to grape juice) during the Lord’s supper, because it says wine in the Bible, not grape juice. Again, yes, agreed. (Did you know that grape juice was invented in 1869?)

We soldier on. Life is not easy right now, but we do not lose heart. “Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” (2 Corinthians 4:16-18)

And the Babylon Bee will not let the Episcopal Church alone. (I love it.)

Have a good Monday.

Ride, boldly ride

by chuckofish

While daughter #2 was here we indulged ourselves by watching some of our favorite movies: Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1961), Dear Frankie (2004) and even She’s the Man (2006) for some Channing Tatum. All three movies hit the spot. Comfort food for the soul.

Meanwhile the boy has been introducing the twins to John Wayne movies which they have enjoyed. This warms my heart. So far they have watched Big Jake (1971) and Hatari (1962). Next up McClintock! (1963). These are the best vintage for 8-year olds–less violence, although Big Jake does have some scary bad guys and the Dog does die. Hatari is perfect for kids.

By the way, John Wayne’s birthday is coming up on May 26th so you will want to start planning your own viewing schedule. As usual they will be celebrating big time in Fort Worth on John Wayne Day Weekend🤠 May 24–26 in the Fort Worth Stockyards–“a weekend of legacy, music, wine, storytelling, and family connection.” Wish I could go! Maybe we’ll make it down for the Duke’s 120th in 2027.

We will definitely celebrate as best we can.

And here’s some welcome news! The Cannes Film Festival banned nudity from their red carpet. Gee whiz, what is the world coming to?

Hang in there.

Let’s have a party in my rec room

by chuckofish

You may not be able to tell from this picture, but we were having super fun at Ted Drewes yesterday. Ida said, “My ice cream is so yummy!” and we all agreed.

Later in the afternoon the boy came over with the bud (while Lottie was at dance class) and we sat on the driveway while the kiddos drove the “motorized truck” (as Katie calls it) around the yard in various seating combinations.

The bud being the pro that he is, showed Katie the ropes and she eventually agreed to drive–ever so seriously, observing all the rules of the road. Ida was having the time of her life and would have taken the wheel in a flash if we had let her. (She’s only two.)

They topped the afternoon off with popsicles.

And this is true: “Yes, there is hope. Jesus is king. And that means everything will be ok.”

Who put the pennies in my loafers?

by chuckofish

Okay, I am still chuckling from that video I posted yesterday, but in my weakened state you’ll have to give me a break. Meanwhile I am enjoying my time with daughter #2 and the prairie girls who are wrecking havoc hanging out here at home. The OM is keeping a low profile.

I am also finding solace in all the memes about the new pope…

Ha ha. It is a distraction.

Praise God and on him cast your care*

by chuckofish

Well, the OM was sent home from the hospital on Wednesday afternoon after a fun-filled 6-day stay. He is slowing recovering from what they think is related to his autoimmune system. He is very weak, but is getting around with the help of a walker. We have a raft of follow-up doctor appointments ahead of us.

The boy and daughter #1 have been very helpful and attentive, and daughter #2 brought the prairie girls for a visit and they are keeping us company this week.

And Mr. Smith is lending his spiritual support as needed….

We have much to be thankful for.

For people my age who remember K-Tel product ads on TV, this made me laugh so hard:

I wish I knew 5 Neat Guys. Who made the egg salad sandwichs?

And don’t forget to keep your eyes open to all the wonders around you, care of the King of Creation:

Hang in there.

*All Creatures of Our God and King, Tr. William H. Draper, 1925

Take my will and make it thine*

by chuckofish

The OM has been sick for over two weeks and finally was admitted to the hospital on Friday to find out what is wrong. He is still there having gone through a battery of tests. He is improving slowly, but we still don’t know what’s up. Please keep him in your prayers. Posting will be spotty for awhile.

I thank God for our family, friends and our loving and supportive church community. Praise the Lord.

*Frances Ridley Havergal, 1974

Guest post. From your favorite.

by chuckofish

Puppy #1 here on this Friday to remind you that life is good. There are squeaky toys.

And lush grass (not at our house, but down the street and around the corner).

And chairs we aren’t supposed to sit on with our dirty paws.

Mom says to add that Paul Blart: Mall Cop is now on Peacock and that should be on this list.

In theory, I agree that few things are funnier than Kevin James on a Segway but on the other hand, tennis balls exist. And I love those. Also, treats.

Anyway, remember to appreciate the little things and have a great weekend!

Today in art history

by chuckofish

Today we toast George Inness who was an influential American landscape painter, born on May 1, 1825, in Newburgh, New York, and known for his role in the Tonalist movement.

His works often combined elements of realism and impressionism, focusing on the spiritual and emotional aspects of nature.

We have one of his works in the Saint Louis Art Museum…

In the Roman Campagna, oil on canvas, 1873

…and there was one in my college art museum…

Home at Montclair, 1892, oil on canvas, Clark Art Institute

There are several good ones at Yale…

Moonrise, oil on canvas, 1887

I always liked him.

Two Sisters in the Garden, oil on millboard, 1882, Art Institute of Chicago

Inness died in 1894 at Bridge of Allan in Scotland. According to his son, he was viewing the sunset, when he threw up his hands into the air and exclaimed, “My God! oh, how beautiful!”, fell to the ground, and died minutes later. That’s a good way to go–for an artist or anyone, don’t you think?

In other museum news, if you are going to be in Fort Worth on May 22…

The 95th anniversary! Wowee!

Happy May 1st!

Old and modern nooks

by chuckofish

It’s the last day of April! Spring has sprung! Buds on the peonies, buds on the iris…

Goodness gracious–weeds proliferating!

Here’s a poem for May by Leigh Hunt:

There is May in books forever;
May will part from Spenser never;
May’s in Milton, May’s in Prior,
May’s in Chaucer, Thomson, Dyer;
May’s in all the Italian books:—
She has old and modern nooks,
Where she sleeps with nymphs and elves,
In happy places they call shelves,
And will rise and dress your rooms
With a drapery thick with blooms.
Come, ye rains, then if ye will,
May’s at home, and with me still;
But come rather, thou, good weather,
And find us in the fields together.

And here’s a prayer daughter #1 sent me yesterday–it’s a good one:

What are you re-reading?

by chuckofish

You know I am a great believer in re-reading books (and re-watching movies) and so is the writer of this article. “Love is the starting place of repeated rereading. And because of that beginning, the gifts of reading are amplified within its practice. Let me make a case to you: rereading is a rich, moral craft that forms us as people.”

And what do you know, science proves it! It says so here.

I definitely think this is true! I have my go-to bonafide stress-reducer movies that I like to watch when I need a lift. Don’t you? It might be time to watch Hatari (1962).

Speaking of John Wayne, this is super cool! “Many Americans of Generation X and older will recall the red, white, and blue American Freedom Train that was a centerpiece of America’s glorious Bicentennial celebration. But few know that the Freedom Train, pulled by a steam locomotive and filled with American historical artifacts, was the brainchild of none other than John Wayne.” Let’s bring back John Wayne’s rolling tribute to America’s finest.

And a bear was spotted playing in a Connecticut back yard…watch the video–priceless!