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Category: Travel

Home again, home again jiggity jig

by chuckofish

The boy is such a trouper. His super positive attitude prevails and he will be fine. The OM and I left him yesterday in Indianapolis,

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(the headquarters of Steak N Shake) and headed back to St. Louis and our jobs. He’s in good hands with his lovely wife (and her mother) watching over him and they’ll be home on Friday.

We stopped in Greencastle, IN on the way home for a nostalgic look at DePauw University which daughter #1 attended.

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We hoped to have lunch at the world-famous Marvin’s,

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but they had just closed. (“Im so darn diggity mad!”)

So we stopped at the Steak N Shake in Terre Haute, which was also something we used to do back in the day.

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We finally crossed the mighty Mississippi at rush hour when a Cardinals game was also ending,

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so it took another 45 minutes to get home.

C’est la vie. Glad to be home.

“Too soon the sun will cease to shine Too soon the wind will start to whine Another summer has passed away”*

by chuckofish

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In honor of the last weekend in August, here is a picture of our dear mother in a bathing cap in the water of Damariscotta Lake, Maine sometime in the 1950s. At least that is where I always thought this photo was taken. There is no writing on the back. I might be wrong.

I wish I was there now.

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*Goodbye to Summer by Louis Armstrong

Weekend update

by chuckofish

“Saturday morning was come, and all the summer world was bright and fresh, and brimming with life. There was a song in every heart; and if the heart was young, the music issued at the lips. There was cheer in every face and a spring in every step. The locust-trees were in bloom, and the fragrance of the blossoms filled the air. Cardiff Hill, beyond the village and above it, was green with vegetation, and it lay just far enough away to seem a Delectable Land, dreamy, reposeful, and inviting.” *

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Happiness is road-tripping with your BFFs in your home state and stopping at every antique mall along the way.

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This past weekend we journeyed to historic Arrow Rock, MO. We stopped for lunch in historic Boonville and also in historic Blackwater.

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What, you ask, makes them historic? Well, they’re old and there is probably some link to the Santa Fe Trail or a Civil War engagement. To some people they are just old river towns that have seen better days. But I like them.

The whole town of Arrow Rock is on the historic register. It is truly lovely, lush and green and well cared for. There are some wonderful old buildings.

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The theater there seems to support the town and its bed and breakfasts, restaurants and shops.

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It is a booming place during the theater season. We bought our tickets back in March when tickets first went on sale. (They sell out fast!) We made our B&B reservations in April and got the last room in town (practically).

As usual, I came prepared for a late afternoon pick-me-up.

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Fun fact about Arrow Rock: In 1973, a musical version of Mark Twain’s “Tom Sawyer” was filmed here. It starred Johnny Whitaker as Tom, Jeff East as Huck, Celeste Holm as Aunt Polly, Warren Oates as Muff Potter, and Jody Foster in her third movie as Becky Thatcher. Supposedly, many of the town’s buildings and landscapes are recognizable in the film. I saw the movie back in 1973, but I guess I will have to check it out.

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The OM, who does not enjoy the above activities, spent a quiet 36 hours home alone, ordering pizza and watching Nascar. At least that’s what he told me.

Our electricity went out Sunday night–it was 100-degrees outside–but it came back on after a couple of hours. Thunder and lightening followed. Now it is Monday and it’s back to the salt mines. Have a good week!

*Mark Twain, The Adventures of Tom Sawyer

Fat Baby Friday

by chuckofish

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We return to Fat Baby Friday with a baby who was always quite a skinny-pants, but whatever. This photo was taken twenty-five years ago in the summer of 1991 when daughter #2 was learning to walk with the aid of her ever-helpful siblings. She is pretty excited.

And what about those Black-eyed Susans?

So do you have plans for the weekend? I am venturing to scenic Arrow Rock, MO, a village in Saline County, Missouri which has been designated a National Historic Landmark because of its association with Westward Expansion, the Santa Fe Trail and the artist George Caleb Bingham.

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I am going with my adventurous friends Becky and Carla and we have tickets to see a play at the historic Lyceum Theater, a professional repertory theater that has been producing “Broadway-caliber plays and musicals” since 1960.

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We should have a super fun time, if the heat doesn’t deflate us too much. But what am I saying? We are flyover natives and we do not let a little heat stop us from having fun!

You win some, you lose some…

by chuckofish

This weekend I finished She Shall Have Murder by Delano Ames (I did not correctly guess who the murderer was!), went to several estate sales where I picked up a few books, and had dinner out with some old friends at a “gastropub” in hipster Maplewood.

muddledEmboldened by the example of daughter #2, I even  ordered a specialty cocktail–a Blue Berry Bourbon Tonic–which I enjoyed very much.

I also caught up on my House Beautiful reading. In her July column Charlotte Moss writes about taking a week and visiting some famous historic houses in Virginia with a friend (a great idea!) and how much we can learn from these beautiful house museums and gardens. Of course, I couldn’t agree more. I think it is a very important thing to do–especially with one’s children and grandchildren–and I would extend this to historic sites as well. She concludes by saying, “Go, see, do…three simple ideas I implore you to embrace. Explore your own town–what could be a better place to start? Then get out the map, make a mark, grab a friend, and fill’er up!”

I was inspired to get the OM motivated to do just that on Sunday. After a fair amount of hemming and hawing, he finally acquiesced and we set out for the old Fort Belle Fontaine County Park in north St. Louis County. This is the place where the first United States military installation west of the Mississippi River was established in 1805. Lewis and Clark’s Corps of Discovery expedition (1804-1806) spent the first night of their expedition on an island opposite Cold Water Creek and their last night two years later at the fort, which had been established in their absence. Other major expeditions left from this site between 1805 and 1819 to explore the newly acquired Louisiana Territory.

I had read about this little known place in an old article about WPA projects in St. Louis. The park includes massive stonework features that the Works Progress Administration added in the 1930s when the City of St. Louis owned the property. There are also great views of the Missouri River and you know how I love our river.

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I did not take these photos, as you will see, but you can see what’s in the park…

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Finding it was not easy–our GPS took us to a non-existent entrance–but we persisted and finally made it, only to be greeted by an excruciatingly unpleasant and uninformative park employee manning the gate, who gave us no instructions, only the evil eye for causing her to have to stand up and check us in. We drove around looking, but finally realized there was no way to get to the river and the fort by car–only by a 3-mile foot trail which was too long for the OM–so we left.

Since we were up north, we figured we would head over to Alton, IL to find somewhere to eat lunch, but that town had not unrolled its sidewalks yet–maybe they don’t on Sunday–and the sports bars and pubs were all shuttered. We could have gone to the casino (!) but we opted to go home. It was a 60-mile round-trip “Sunday drive.” Well, vous en gagnez un peu, vous en perdez un peu.

This experience will not deter me from exploring, and hopefully the OM will not throw in the towel either. So go, see, do! and good luck!

“All the cattle are standin’ like statues”*

by chuckofish

Everyone has a bucket list I guess. I know I do. But while many people may dream of traveling to the Amalfi Coast or other far flung locales, I would like to go to Oklahoma. Yes, I know…but Oklahoma is a state rich in history! It is, after all, the “I.T.”–the Indian Territory.

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It is also the home of the National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum, which I have always wanted to visit. I especially want to visit since finding out that my ancestor, John Wesley Prowers, is one of the “Great Westerners” in their Hall of Fame.

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There he is listed right after John Wesley Powell (the famous one-armed geologist) and before Ronald Reagan. He was inducted in 1963.

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Pretty cool, eh?

How can you not love a museum that has honored this guy?

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John Wayne being inducted into the Hall of Fame in 1965

On the way to Oklahoma City, I would stop in Tulsa, which is the home of the Thomas Gilcrease Institute of American History and Art, which houses the world’s largest and most comprehensive collection of art and artifacts of the American West.

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Tulsa is also the home of the Philbrook Museum of Art, located in part in the 1920s villa of oilman Waite Phillips (of Philmont fame).

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So one of these days we’ll get our kicks on Route 66 and head to Oklahoma.

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It’s on the List.

*Oscar Hammerstein, “Oh What a Beautiful Morning”

Postcards from Kansas City

by chuckofish

“History is that certainty produced where the imperfections of memory meet the inadequacies of documentation.”–Julian Barnes, The Sense of an Ending

Everything may be up to date in Kansas City, but as far as I can tell, they are not really very interested in their history. This is a shame.

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We went to Westport hoping to get a sense of where some of my pioneer ancestors lived and made a home. But there is barely a trace left. Even the river has moved!

We did find the Union Cemetery where basically all the founding city Fathers (and Mothers) are buried: John Calvin McCoy, Virginia Crick McCoy, Alexander Majors, William Miles Chick, Nelsons,  McGees, George Caleb Bingham, and my great-great-great grandmother Susan Prowers Vogel who came with her parents and siblings from Virginia in the 1830s.

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Also there is her second husband Louis Vogel and one son, Louis Vogel, Jr.

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The cemetery is sadly neglected and in need of a lot of work. It is only a hop, skip and a jump away from the very fancy and well maintained National WWI Museum and the Crown Center. Boy, if I won the lottery, I know what I would do!

We went to the Westport Historical Society which is housed in one of only two surviving antebellum houses in the area.

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It is a nicely kept house filled with period furniture.

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The docent gave a tour aimed at the typical tourist about pretentious slave-owning stereotypes which I felt probably had no basis in reality. Indeed, she and the other woman there could not offer me much real information. They showed me their library and offered the use of it, but I didn’t have the time on this trip to take them up on their offer.

They couldn’t really shed any light on my questions about what had happened to the “landing”–the natural rock shelf where the steamboats could land.

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Where, in fact, did the river go? Westport today is a hipster neighborhood surrounded by more buildings. There is no river in sight. What happened?! Well, they said, the landing is under tons of dirt and the river had moved. They didn’t know when or how exactly. There might be a rail yard there now.

They had heard of Louis Vogel and they had a picture of his tavern, taken shortly before it was torn down at the turn of the century.

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They had never heard of John Prowers (my great-great-great grandfather), the man who had actually built the house himself before he died suddenly in 1839. Vogel married his widow, Susan Matney Prowers, and turned the two-story oak log house into “Vogel’s Saloon,” where in 1846 Francis Parkman received word of a caravan heading north and west out of Leavenworth, Kansas. Parkman decided to take the journey westward and The Oregon Trail is the result of that trip.

I explained what I could about the Prowers, their two children–John who grew up to become a cattle baron and have a county in Colorado named after him and Mary who married the cousin of U.S. Grant. They asked me to send them what information I had and I will do that, lest they all be forgotten as so many of the early pioneers of Kansas City have been forgotten. Sad to say, if it weren’t for a couple of well-meaning volunteer ladies in pearls and Pappagallos, no one would pay any attention to these things at all. One wonders who will man the Westport Historical Society a generation from now.

We headed over to Council Grove, Kansas on Saturday morning.

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This town was one of the last stops on the Santa Fe Trail heading southwest. The first American settler was Seth Millington Hays, who came to the area in 1847 to trade with the Kaw tribe. Hays was a great grandson of Daniel Boone.

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My great-great grandfather John Simpson Hough worked with Hays as an Indian trader between 1850 and 1855 and again for awhile after the Civil War by which time he was married and had two children.

Council Grove today is a town of around 2,000 people. There are 13 sites listed on the National Register of Historic Places. One is the Post Office Oak.

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Travelers left their mail in this ancient tree to be picked up by others going in the right direction. There is the Kaw Mission School.

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and the Farmers and Drovers Bank.

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We ate breakfast at the Hays House,

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which is said to be the oldest continuously operating restaurant west of the Mississippi River.

It is a nice, well kept little town. Clearly its residents take pride in this historic place.

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There is a part of me that would like nothing more than to retire to Council Grove in the lovely Flint Hills of Kansas and disappear under the radar.

You know what I mean?

“History overflows time. Love overflows the allowance of the world. All the vessels overflow, and no end or limit stays put. Every shakable thing has got to be shaken. In a sense, nothing that was ever lost in Port William ever has been replaced. In another sense, nothing is ever lost, and we are compacted together forever, even by our failures, our regrets, and our longings.”
― Wendell Berry, Jayber Crow

“Not all those who wander are lost”*

by chuckofish

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The OM and I are back home after our little flyover trip to KC. More tomorrow. Stay tuned!

*J.R.R. Tolkien

“Everything’s up to date in Kansas City”*

by chuckofish

I have been to Kansas City three times that I remember. Once I went to an advertising awards event when I was a the copy chief way back in the 1980’s. I remember going shopping at the Country Club Plaza with two very gay co-workers and having quite a time. I went again a few years later to attend a stewardship conference–not half as much fun. The next time I went to K.C. was as a chaperone with my children’s church choir and all three kids. That trip is kind of a blur. I’m afraid I can’t even remember at which church we sang.

Anyway, it has been at least twenty years since I last ventured there. This time the OM and I are just doing some genealogical poking around. I am going to try and get my bearings straight, if that is even possible since there is very little left, I think, of the old Westport area. Now it is hipster heaven.

Not that I’m not curious about this place.

So have a good weekend and think of me in the Big City.

*Rogers & Hammerstein, Oklahoma

Soldier, keep movin’ on*

by chuckofish

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All this rain and cool weather is doing great things for the iris and for our grass–is it ever green!

In other news, the OM and the boy and I are jetting off this afternoon to Pennsylvania where my niece will get hitched this Saturday. Daughters #1, 2 and 3 all have prior engagements (two graduations and another wedding) so they are not coming. C’est la vie.

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The wedding is in Meadville, the home of Allegheny College. William McKinley, you will recall, attended this college and Clarence Darrow and Ida Tarbell graduated from it. The wedding is taking place at the Unitarian-Universalist Church.

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Fun fact: The song “Bittersweet Motel” by the Vermont jam band, Phish, was inspired when keyboardist, Page McConnell, left a wedding in Meadville and drove down to the Pittsburgh Airport.

Halfway between Erie and Pittsburgh
You’re putting me through hell
On the highway to the Bittersweet Motel

When the only tool you have is a hammer
Everything looks like a nail
And your living at the Bittersweet Motel

Indeed, there is no quick and/or easy way to get there, so this will be an adventure in more ways than not. But I am up for an adventure this weekend…how about you?

Safe travels to all who are traveling. See you ’round campus, man!

*Toby Mac