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Category: Travel

There’s a white line in the distance*

by chuckofish

Today daughter #1 and I are hitting the road and heading to Nashville (sans the winded, but soldiering-on, OM) to celebrate our friend Andrew’s wedding. Hopefully we will have a chance to visit a few of our favorite spots in Music City, such as…

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the Johnny Cash Museum…

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and the Wildhorse Saloon…

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In Nashville one can drop the highbrow pretense and just have fun.

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If we are feeling hipster-ish, we can hit The Gulch. There is an antique mall there, after all. But I doubt we are cool enough.

We may be driving in the rain today, so please say a little weather prayer for us travelers!

BTW, we were distracted and missed mentioning Bob Dylan’s 77th birthday last week. but any day (including today) is a good day to toast old Bob.

*Bob McDill, On the Road

Roll on Mississippi*

by chuckofish

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I was definitely jumping the gun when I posted this Calvin & Hobbes cartoon last January. But really now, spring IS coming! Maybe even this week. The daffodils, despite the freezing temperatures, are doing quite well, thank you.

Anyway, my quiet weekend turned out to be busy per usual. I got my hair cut and did a little shopping. And I convinced the OM to drive me to Elsah, Illinois to go to an estate sale on Sunday.

Elsah is a lovely little historic town on the Mississippi River. It is the home of Principia College which sits on the bluffs overlooking the river. The village has a total population of 673 (as of the 2010 census.) The entire village was placed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1973. Unknown-1.jpeg

The estate sale was in a neat old house, owned by a couple who had been professors at the college. I got some books.

After perusing the sale, we drove up the River Road to Grafton, hoping to find somewhere to eat lunch, but the “season” it seems has not started yet, so rather than dine at some biker bar, we headed back to Alton, which was on the way home. We had lunch at My Just Desserts and bought a pie, because they are “downright famous for their homemade pies.”

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They enjoyed their meatloaf and playing with vintage toys. They even tried the pie!

This weekend the OM and I also watched Darkest Hour (2017) with Gary Oldham as Winston Churchill. As my DP noted earlier, it is a remarkable movie.

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We enjoyed it immensely. The OM even put his iPhone down and watched the whole thing. I couldn’t help feeling surprised that they can still make a movie like this in Hollywood. Bravo. And bravo, Gary Oldham, who really deserves that Oscar!

*Charley Pride

“Sit down, you’re rocking the boat”*

by chuckofish

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Funny story: when I was returning from my trip east on Tuesday, my carryon bag was detained when it went through security at BWI. I had to wait while another TSA agent came over to check things out. He said, “It looks like you have a book in there.”

“Yes,” I said, thinking, is a book a problem?

He opened up my suitcase and rooted around until he found the 640-page Henry David Thoreau: A Life, which daughter #2 had given me in my welcome goodie bag of treats. He whiffled through the pages, but didn’t come up with anything, so he put it back inside and we closed up the bag.

Then he said, “Do you mind if I ask you what that book is about?”

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“It’s the new biography of Thoreau,” I said. “What do you think he’d make of all this?” I chuckled.

He chuckled too, but he had no idea what I was talking about.

“I was not born to be forced. I will breathe after my own fashion. Let us see who is the strongest.” (Civil Disobedience)

That’s what I thought.

Well, this weekend will be a busy one. Carla and I are hosting a bridal shower at my house for our friend Becky’s future daughter-in-law. Daughter #1 is coming into town to make the champagne punch!

Can’t wait to see the wee babes–it’s been two weeks!

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And can you believe it, Sunday is Palm Sunday! Time for the Passion story and the Grace Church showcase of lay reader stars. It is also time to catch up with some Lenten movie fare. Indeed, it may be time to dust off Franco Zeffirelli’s Jesus of Nazareth (1977) and get down to business. Holy Week is upon us.

*Nicely-Nicely in Guys and Dolls

Postcards from Virginia

by chuckofish

While I was visiting daughter #2 in Maryland and Virginia, spring was beginning to show its face…

Unknown-10.jpeg…but by the time I left on Tuesday, it was sleeting and promising worse.

Nevertheless, we had a lovely time, starting off straight from the airport in Baltimore with a jaunt down to Fredericksburg, Virginia. Located near where the Rappahannock River crosses the Atlantic Seaboard fall line, it was a prominent port in Virginia during the colonial era. Today it is chock full of beautiful old buildings. We ate lunch at Foode, a hip restaurant in a historic bank building.

Unknown-9.jpegThere were plenty of historic buildings, etc to visit in the historic district in which our airbnb was located. This one was practically across the street.

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Love this sign!

A few blocks away was the Episcopal Church…Unknown-14.jpegand the Presbyterian church…

Unknown-13.jpegIt was a handsome, vibrant town where we also did a lot of shopping in the numerous antique malls, which, not surprisingly, were far superior to our mid-west versions.

Screen Shot 2018-03-21 at 11.51.47 AM.pngOn Saturday we headed to Norfolk to visit my old friend, where we were wined and dined and talked non-stop. Then on Sunday, the three of us headed to Shirley Plantation, located on the north bank of the James River in Charles City County. We took a tour and walked around the grounds.

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IMG_8638.JPGOn the way back to Norfolk, we stopped at Bacon’s Castle, the oldest documented brick dwelling in the U.S. Built in 1665, it is notable as an extremely rare example of Jacobean architecture in the New World.

Unknown-4.jpegWe couldn’t resist stopping at St. Luke’s Church near Smithfield in Isle of Wight County. It is the oldest church in Virginia and the oldest church in British North America of brick construction. According to local tradition the structure was built in 1632.

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Back in College Park, we were happy to be reunited with dear Nate (DN) and to spend some time with him. He is a great son-in-law and I much appreciated that he drove me to BWI in a sleet storm without so much as a grimace/eye roll.

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It is always nice to get back home though, right? The OM had not burned the house down, but he had put the trash out two days early.

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Home again, home again, jiggety jig

by chuckofish

I am home after a lovely five-day visit to Virginia with some of my favorite people.

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I’ll have pictures tomorrow. First I have to recover from my 5 hour delay at BWI following a trip to the airport in a sleet storm. Oh brother. Modern travel. C’est la vie. I’m home in flyover country. Thanks be to God.

“I can’t wait to get on the road again”*

by chuckofish

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Well, today I am on my way to visit daughter #2 for a few days. So I won’t be back in blog action until next Wednesday.

Here’s a pic of the wee laddie to tide you over!

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He caught the cat!

Have a good weekend! Make good choices!

*Willie Nelson

Postcards from Mid-MO

by chuckofish

Our quick trip to Mid-Missouri–although the drive there was in a rainy/snowy mix all the way–was short but super fun.

We went to the state capitol, Jefferson City, which looks like a movie set of  a small town.

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We toured the capitol,

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which was deserted on Saturday. We wandered around and saw our favorite murals.

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Some nice guy unlocked the House lounge so we could see the Thomas Hart Benton murals.

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Daughter #1 used her secret code to get us into the Supreme Court building and we checked out her office.

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It was much nicer than she had led us to believe. I was glad to see that my favorite elephant planter had found a nice home there.

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I was also happy to see that the 10 Commandments are still outside.

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And also these guys.

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It was a rather cold and bleak midwinter day.

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But the sun came out and it cleared up around three o’clock. We took the OM back to daughter #1’s apartment to chillax (nap) and then we headed into bustling Columbia to check out a nice shop and the wine bar.

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When we finally packed up and made our way home, daughter #1 made pesto and we watched those favorite Simpsons episodes I wrote about last week. We watched some Olympics and then turned in around 9:30 pm–par for the course.

We headed home on Sunday morning.

I finished re-reading Dead Man’s Walk by Larry McMurtry–not as good certainly as Lonesome Dove, but a good adventure story which held my interest. Woodrow Call and Augustus McCrae fighting off hostile Indians is quite diverting in 2018 and I may read more in that genre. I need diversion.

Also diverting are the wee babes who came over on Sunday night. The wee laddie was a little under the weather with a cough and runny nose,

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Pappy has a grip on the wee laddie.

but that didn’t slow him down much. He reunited with his old friends the handles on the highboy.

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Who said, “The vandals took the handles”?

Little Lottie was on the go as well.

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They chased each other around the dining room and under the table. They ate meatloaf. We listened to their favorite song–“In the Bleak Midwinter”–such nascent Episcopalians.

Good times. Now we’re off to the salt mine again. Have a good week!

“I say, beware of all enterprises that require new clothes, and not rather a new wearer of clothes.”*

by chuckofish

IMG_2749.JPGWell, I’m back from my whirlwind weekend in New York. We arrived on Friday around noon, and while the OM napped, daughter #1 and I hiked through Central Park and visited a few of our favorite UWS spots. Then we cleaned up and went to happy hour, dinner and the wonderful Morgan Library.

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IMG_2751.JPGwhere we saw the Thoreau exhibit.

IMG_2757.JPGThe next day we had breakfast with daughter #1 who then went off to work and we headed to the Guggenheim Museum.

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The building is quite amazing and the collections it houses are fun to see although not really my thing. But I did finally get to see some wonderful Joseph Cornell shadow boxes. (He has always fascinated me.)

IMG_2763.JPGThen we set off to Long Island for the Big Wedding at Oheka Castle.

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IMG_2769.JPGWell, we headed home on Sunday and it sure was nice to get back to our flyover home. I can only take so much of cab and Uber rides and busy, busy streets and all. those. people!

*H.D. Thoreau,Walden

“I tramp a perpetual journey.”*

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2017-07-19 at 1.51.34 PM.pngThe OM and I are heading off to NYC tomorrow to visit daughter #1 and then attend a wedding on Saturday on Long Island.  I am looking forward to taking one more walk through Central Park.

Screen Shot 2017-07-19 at 1.24.07 PM.pngA month from now daughter #1 will be back in the Show Me state and a hop, skip and a jump down the road in Columbia.

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*Walt Whitman

“Every traveler has a home of his own, and he learns to appreciate it the more from his wandering.”

by chuckofish

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Today is the birthday of Charles Dickens (1812 –70) and we will toast the great author tonight. Perhaps when I finish my Shirley Hazzard novel, I will move on to a Dickens classic. I really should. Maybe I will.

You may recall that the great author made two trips to the U.S, touring in order to make some money while trying to deal with American publishers who continually pirated his works. During his first trip in 1842 he even visited my flyover town. Traveling from Cairo, Illinois by boat, he was unimpressed with the Mighty Mississippi, referring to it in his journals as a “foul stream.”

At length, upon the morning of the third day, we arrived at a spot so much more desolate than any we had yet beheld…At the junction of the two rivers lies a breeding place of fever, ague, and death—vaunted in England as a mine of golden hope and speculated in on the faith of monstrous representations, to many people’s ruin. A dismal swamp on which half-built houses rot away, teeming with rank, unwholesome vegetation in whose baleful shade the wretched wanderers who area tempted thither droop and die and lay their bones; the hateful Mississippi circling and eddying before it, …a slimy monster, hideous to behold, a hotbed of disease, an ugly sepulcher, a grave uncheered by any promise; a placer without a single quality in earth or air or water to commend it; such is the dismal Cairo.

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While visiting St. Louis, he voiced a desire to see the great American prairie, so he was taken by horse and carriage via ferry back to Illinois, by way of Belleville (“a small collection of wooden houses, huddled together in the very heart of the bush and swamp”) to Looking Glass Prairie (near modern day Lebanon). He was not impressed.

“The widely-famed Far West is not to be compared with even the tamest portions of Scotland or Wales. I am exceedingly fond of wild and lonely scenery, and believe that I have the faculty of being as much impressed by it as any man living. But the prairie fell, by far, short of my preconceived idea. I felt no such emotions as I do in crossing Salisbury plain. The excessive flatness of the scene makes it dreary, but tame.”

Well, sorry, we don’t have Stonehenge in southern Illinois. We do have mounds.

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Sorry you missed those, Charles.

He was probably just homesick.

There is a BBC documentary Dickens in America which follows Dickens’ travels across the United States in 1842, during which he penned a travel book, American Notes. This might be worth tracking down.

Quotes from American Notes for General Circulation.