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Category: Movies

Friday movie pick

by chuckofish

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The other night I saw a really good movie: Green Book (2018). Typically (since I liked it), this movie has not done well at the box office. I can’t imagine why not.

Set in 1962 and based on a true story, Green Book tells the story of the friendship that develops between nightclub bouncer Tony Lip Vallelonga (Viggo Mortensen) and the erudite African-American piano prodigy Dr. Don Shirley (Mahershala Ali) he has been hired to chauffeur through the Deep South on a concert tour. The two rely on the “Negro Green Motorist Book” to guide them to the motels and restaurants that they can use on the trip.

This is a story about racism and how two people can change. They change because they get to know each other. It is a serious topic handled with a light touch. I guess that is why some critics don’t like it–does this story make the remedy for racism seem too easy? It is a “road” picture. (At times, Don and Tony reminded me of Neal and Del in Planes, Trains and Automobiles--the prissy guy and the gross guy who learn to appreciate each other.) But it is decidedly not a comedy, although the Golden Globe Awards put it in that category. Perhaps its being hard to categorize explains the failure of this movie to be the hit it deserves. Whatever category you put it in, I thought the personal journey of the two men was quite engaging and believable.

Screen Shot 2019-01-03 at 9.13.39 AM.pngThe acting is excellent. Viggo Mortensen is totally convincing as the overweight, tough Tony who loves to eat. (Forget handsome Aragorn of the flowing locks.) He is an actor that becomes the character and his focus is sharp.

[I was reminded of this focus a few weeks ago when I watched Appaloosa (2008) in which Viggo plays Everett Hitch with the same sense of immersion in the character. He is the apparent sidekick in the film who makes you pay attention to him and ultimately his character is, indeed, not the sidekick, but the linchpin of the story. Appaloosa, by the way, is a very good movie if you can stand the presence of the miscast Rene Zellweger.]

Mahershala Ali, who plays the dignified and accomplished Dr. Don Stanley, is also very good and never strays out of character. We feel his pain and understand his motives. We see him change and relax with Tony. We see him learn to trust him.

The direction by Peter Farrelly is impressive. Who knew the director of Dumb and Dumber had such depth? The fact that none of the actors stray out of character for even a moment is surely to his credit. The story flows effortlessly and there is a beginning, a middle, a climax, a denouement. A happy ending. How refreshing.

I heartily recommend this movie! If they gave men Oscars for getting fat and dying their hair for a part, like they do women, Viggo Mortensen would win hands down. However, he deserves an Oscar for his acting.

Shocked and slightly embarrassed by the sight of Larry in a towel

by chuckofish

 

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But not for too long…the wee babes are coming over this morning to hang out with us and give their mommy a few hours to do whatever. I am really looking forward to catching up with Larry and Bob:

Meanwhile, zut alors, vacation is speeding by! Pump the brakes!

Christmas postcards

by chuckofish

Everyone arrived home and we threw a party!

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Just the basics…

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The wee laddie found the knife drawer…

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These two dudes are on the same wave length…

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The hero worship begins…

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This fashion maven is all about the books…

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This little chair was just right…

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After everyone went home and we cleaned up, we got in our jammies and watched White Christmas. 

A perfect ending to a perfect day.

Friday movie picks

by chuckofish

The other night when the OM and I came home from his office party and I was too keyed up to go to bed, I turned on TCM and watched Oliver Twist (1948).

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Directed by David Lean, this British version of the Dickens novel does not sugar-coat the harsh realities of the life of poor Oliver, the orphan boy who runs away from a workhouse and meets a pickpocket on the streets of London. Taken in by the pickpocket, he joins the household of Fagin and his gang of young hoodlums. It is a ghastly story really and Bill Sykes is one of the the scariest characters in literature and he has always traumatized me. Once again, the scene where he beats Nancy to death moved me to turn off the TV.

This movie, made seventy years ago, packs quite a punch as social commentary–in black and white and without f-bombs and computer-generated violence. The acting is all top-notch, although Alec Guinness’s portrayal of Fagin drew quite a lot of criticism at the time as being anti-semitic.

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Once again, I have to say, they knew how to make movies back then.

So what then is my Friday movie pick? Maybe a Christmas movie…

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We could then discuss which Christmas movie mom most reminds you of which dual personality…and don’t say Angela Lansbury!

Or we could all just do a crossword puzzle in honor of today being the 105th anniversary of the first crossword puzzle being published in the New York World. Unfortunately I am terrible at crossword puzzles. I think I would rather wash dishes. Or listen to Henry Mancini records.

Discuss among yourselves. Have a good weekend!

Go tell it on the mountain

by chuckofish

Today is my last day at work before taking off for my Christmas holiday! Yes, I took some vacation days not long ago, but my pilgrimage to the holy land was hardly restful! Now I am going for restful.

  1. I am going to enjoy my Christmas decor…

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2. I am going to enjoy the fact that I have already wrapped all my presents…

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3. I’ll watch Christmas movies…

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4. I’ll make a grocery list for our party on Sunday…

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5. And await the arrival of daughter #1, daughter #2 and DN this weekend.

BTW–Congratulations to daughter #2 👏👏👏 who was “hooded” yesterday! She is now officially a PhD. I think she looks like a Presbyterian minister.

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The two PhD couple–adorable!

I will also note that it is time again for the TCM Remembers video:

It was news to me that Barbara Harris had died. She had quite a career, although most people nowadays probably have never heard of her. She appeared in a lot of stage productions on Broadway, including On A Clear Day You Can See Forever, which Lerner and Loewe wrote especially for her. She was in some good movies too, my favorite, of course, being A Thousand Clowns (1965). She was also in the original Freaky Friday (1976) with Jody Foster.

Screen Shot 2018-12-19 at 5.04.28 PM.pngI also just heard that Penny Marshall died the other day. Although the New York Times chose to remember her as “the nasal-voiced co-star of the slapstick sitcom “Laverne & Shirley” and later the chronically self-deprecating director of hit films like “Big” and “A League of Their Own,” I will always remember her as the very talented director of one of my favorite movies, the wonderful Awakenings (1991).

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I think I will watch it tonight and toast Penny Marshall, Barbara Harris and my  lovely, talented and deeply intelligent daughter #2!

Onward to Christmas!

“From our sins and fears release us, Let us find our rest in Thee.”*

by chuckofish

How could he have considered taking Monday off? Monday was the diving board poised over the rest of the week. One walked out on the board, reviewed the situation, planned one’s strategy, bounced a few times to get the feel of things, and then made a clean dive. Without Monday, one simply bombed into the water, belly first, and hoped for the best.

–Jan Karon, At Home in Mitford

My Monday will be a breeze compared to my weekend. Weekends are when we working girls get everything done that needs to be done at home. And at this time of year it is not just the usual laundry, food shopping and home projects that pile up.

The boy came over on Friday night after work and hauled the tree in from the garage, put it in the stand and strung the lights.

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After he went home, I hung the ornaments on the tree. Voila, beautiful.

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On Saturday I wrapped and wrapped and wrapped more presents. Even though my kids are all grown up and moved away, I still seem to get them the same amount of presents I always have–even if half of them are estate sale finds and used books! And now we have a daughter-in-law and a son-in-law! Wrapping presents is back-breaking work–literally. I mean it’s not chopping wood, but it feels like it later, you know?

I also went to the store twice, got my hair cut and gabbed on the phone with daughters # 1 and 2. After I finished putting up the Christmas decorations, I collapsed and watched Circus World (1962) with John Wayne and Claudia Cardinale and enjoyed it immensely.

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It features real acts from the Althof Circus, a very old family circus in Europe, which during WWII sheltered a number of Jewish refugees from the Nazis. (The owners were later honored for their work.) The acts which are highlighted are excellent and the clowns are genuinely funny, But they don’t overdue the circus acts. It has an engaging plot and so does not come off like a semi-documentary the way The Greatest Show on Earth (1951) does.

I went to church and then finished wrapping presents and cleaning the house. Phew. I was tired by the time we went over to the boy’s house to have dinner and see the wee babes who have been sick with RSV all week…

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but are much better now. Sweet babies.

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Now it is Monday and I have four busy days and then I’m off for Christmas! Hopefully I am finished with all the busy work and can focus on the the reason for the season!

*Charles Wesley, “Come Thou Long Expected Jesus”

Merry Christmas, Mr. Scrooge! In keeping with the situation!

by chuckofish

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“There are many things from which I might have derived good, by which I have not profited, I dare say,” returned the nephew. “Christmas among the rest. But I am sure I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round — apart from the veneration due to its sacred name and origin, if anything belonging to it can be apart from that — as a good time: a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time: the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys. And therefore, Uncle, though it has never put a scrap of gold or silver in my pocket, I believe that it has done me good, and will do me good; and I say, God bless it!”

–Fred, A Christmas Carol

Well, I have started catching up on my Christmas movie watching, what about you?

“Hark! a thrilling voice is sounding. ‘Christ is nigh,’ it seems to say…”*

by chuckofish

Well, we are well into Advent and it was good to be back at my home church yesterday. Last Sunday we pilgrims were celebrating the first Sunday in Advent at St. George’s Cathedral in Jerusalem. Established in 1899, it is the seat of the Bishop of Jerusalem of the Episcopal Church in Jerusalem and the Middle East. The Bishop gave the sermon (in English and in Arabic) and we sang good old hymns. It was a lovely service.

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Meanwhile back at the ranch, daughter #1 was home and she helped me a lot getting out more Christmas stuff…

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putting up the outside lights and buying and setting up our small tree in the dining room.

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We also went to the church bazaar and to a couple of estate sales where we picked up some books, including the hard-to-find St. Louis Then and Now. She spotted it, grabbed my arm and stage-whispered, “Pick it up! Pick it up!” I knew then and there that daughter #1 has become a true estate sale-er with an eagle eye for the rare find!

We watched the 1951 A Christmas Carol with Alistair Sim (the best version) and The Bishop’s Wife (1947).

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It’s good to be home.

*Hymns Ancient and Modern

“Now thank we all our God, with heart and hands and voices”*

by chuckofish

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Here’s something good to read about the “First Thanksgiving,” which reminds us that the Pilgrims were “people of remarkable faith and fortitude—common folk of average abilities and below-average means who risked everything in the interest of their families and their community of faith.” Americans tend to forget that and most may not even value those qualities anymore. Well, I do.

Last night we had the whole gang plus Tim and Abbie, who drove in from Indiana, over for gluten-free chili. Today we will be a smaller gathering for turkey and trimmings–the wee babes and their parents are coming later for pie and our annual viewing of Planes, Trains and Automobiles (1987).

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We do love our traditions.

Let’s all take a moment.

*Martin Rinkart

“Well, that’s showbiz”*

by chuckofish

Fifty years ago the top grossing films released were:

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That is a pretty crumby list if you ask me. Okay, there are two Steve McQueen movies and a not-great John Wayne movie, but there is not a fave in the rest of the list!

It’s interesting to look at the movies released in 1968, because I remember the ones I went to see, the ones our brother went to see, and the ones my parents went to see. Ice Station Zebra, Bandolero!, The Producers, Star!, Hellfighters…It was an in-between year for me. I was too old for the Disney films (The Love Bug?!) and too young for Rosemary’s Baby and just about everything else.

Elvis was still making movies, but they weren’t doing well. Paul Newman was in the forgotten The Secret War of Harry Frigg, following up on Cool Hand Luke and Hombre the previous year. The Graduate did not make it into the top 20.

Zut alors! Not a good year at the movies. (Not a great year period.)

Well, you can consult the list of movies to see if there is something you might want to watch this weekend. Or not. I might try to find Hell in the Pacific, a British-Japanese war drama starring Lee Marvin and Toshiro Mifune, the only two actors in the entire film.

Screen Shot 2018-11-08 at 3.27.27 PM.png“It looks at the importance of human contact and the bond which can form even between enemies if lacking other contact.” It did not do well at the box office.

Daughter #1 is coming into town to attend a Monon Bell game party.

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Well, I am going to try to rest up a bit because next week is going to be super busy. I don’t do super busy well.

*Guy Woodhouse in Rosemary’s Baby