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Come, holy Comforter

by chuckofish

…thy sacred witness bear in this glad hour:

thou, who almighty art, now rule in every heart,

and n’er from us depart,

Spirit of power

(Hymn #365)

I got a lot done at home this weekend. And you know, after such a busy week at work, it was nice to stay home and vacuum and put things away and gab on the phone. After church, I went to two estate sales (batting zero) and returned something at the mall.

We watched My Darling Clementine (1947) on Friday night

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(Henry Fonda was never better and is still the best Wyatt Earp in movies.)

and Run Silent, Run Deep (1958) on Saturday night.

Nobody says, “Dive! Dive!” better than Clark Gable.

I finished re-reading The Searchers by Alan Le May, poked around in the Memoirs of William Tecumseh Sherman, and started Glass Houses by Louise Penny.

The wee babes came over for dinner Sunday night. We hadn’t seen them in over two weeks!

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As you can see, they were both obsessed with this antique chair, and vied to sit in it all night. After two days in pre-school/daycare, they are reading fluently.

All’s well in the world.

Can I get a witness?

by chuckofish

Quelle busy week! But I survived for the most part. In addition to our big technology fail at work and daughter #2’s big academic success, we had a new floor installed in the kitchen/hall/powder room at home.

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It looks great! This weekend will be spent putting the kitchen back together and getting ready for much-anticipated visitors next Thursday.

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Life is good.

“For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.”

–Ralph Waldo Emerson

Amen.  Enjoy your Friday; have a great weekend!

Blow ye winds heigh ho

by chuckofish

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Boy, did I have a day yesterday. Our online registration system crashed! On the first day of fall registration!  Not good.

Technology. Zut alors!

On the flip side of the day, daughter #2 passed her oral defense of her dissertation with flying colors and we are very proud of her!

IMG_1331.JPGWe always knew she was a smart cookie, but now it’s official. Champagne corks were popping in Maryland and will pop again next week when she and DN visit us in our flyover town.

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Until then, after I’ve toasted daughter #2 a few more times,

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it’s back to the salt mine, hoping that the tech guys fixed everything overnight…

Oh, and here’s a good true story about Eddie Rickenbacker.

“Live thy Life, Young and old, Like yon oak, Bright in spring, Living gold”*

by chuckofish

It has been a very busy week–at work and at play! If going to the baseball game on a work night wasn’t unusual enough, last night my brother’s son and daughter stopped in overnight on their way from San Diego to Michigan. (He’s moving his stuff home before moving to Istanbul to teach at Boğaziçi University, also known as Bosphorus University.) The boy brought his family over and the OM barbecued. The cousins got a full dose of the wee babes.

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The wee laddie emptied the box and then climbed in. So. Much. Fun.

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I fit in a box, Mommy!

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Look at me. My head fits in a box!

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2018 08 02_3244.jpgNormally I would collapse after such a week, but I have to get ready to head out on Sunday morning (bright and early) to fly to Colorado. Zut alors! I am not complaining. I am blessed to be busy doing things that I love with friends and family.

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Have a great weekend! I probably won’t be blogging next week, but maybe my DP will, which would be lovely.

O God, our heavenly Father, whose glory fills the whole creation, and whose presence we find wherever we go: Preserve those who travel; surround them with your loving care; protect them from every danger; and bring them in safety to their journey’s end; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. (BCP)

PSA: August is Summer Under the Stars time at TCM–you know when they highlight a different star every day. Here’s the schedule.

*Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Weekend update

by chuckofish

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I stayed close to home all weekend, catching up on a lot of things. I brought a suitcase up from the basement so I could start thinking about what to bring on a trip the OM and I are taking next week to Colorado. It is a work-related conference for him so I will have a lot of time to relax and read.

Right now I am reading Lamb in His Bosom by Caroline Miller, a mostly forgotten novel which won the Pulitzer Prize in 1934. It was a best-seller, second only to Anthony Adverse that year. I stumbled across it when reading a book of Conrad Richter’s writing journals (found in my bookcase overhaul) where he admires this book and thinks her depiction of simple country folk better and more real than his own. As you know, I am a great admirer of Conrad Richter, so I had to check it out.

The novel tells the story of Cean and Lonzo, a young couple “who begin their married lives two decades before the Civil War in a land where nature is hostile, the seasons dictate the law, and the days are punctuated by the hard work of the land.” The NY Times, reviewing it at the time, said, “It has a wonderful freshness about it; not simply the freshness of a new writer, but the freshness of a new world…. A wonderfully large and vital picture,”  and they were correct. The characters are pioneers in rural Georgia, farming for a living. They own no slaves. This novel is about as far from Gone With the Wind as you can get and I much prefer it. There is no melodrama here, but real fully-developed characters written with depth and insight. Clearly the author had one big book inside her and she wrote  it.

While I was cleaning up the house, I noticed an amusing thing.

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Something is taking over my house! I ask you, what would June Cleaver do in this situation? Well, I am trying to go with the flow.

Sunday night the wee babes came over per usual with their parents. The wee laddie is on the mend from his eye surgery…

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…and enjoyed his peanut butter and graham crackers–no tacos for him.

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Little Lottiebelle is a babbling dynamo…

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Well, we all went to bed early Sunday night in preparation for a very busy work week. We also got a call from my brother’s two adult children asking if they can stop in Thursday night on their way from California to Michigan. Sure thing. The bed ‘n breakfast is open for business. Just don’t trip over the vintage Little Tykes toys or slip on a Playskool figurine!

Mid-week mayhem

by chuckofish

The wee babes came over last night to celebrate their Pappy’s birthday (after a busy day at the salt mine) so I don’t  have much for this post. Luckily, the boy came through with some great pics of the busy babes at our house:

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Phew. I passed out after they went home.

Did you read this? Very interesting.

You will be blessed, you who plant seed by all the banks of the streams, you who let your ox and donkey graze.  [Isa 32:20 NET]

Never mind whereabouts your work is. Never mind whether it be visible or not. Never mind whether your name is associated with it. You may never see the issues of your toils. You are working for eternity. If you cannot see results here in the hot working day, the cool evening hours are drawing near, when you may rest from your labors and then they will follow you. So do your duty, and trust God to give the seed you sow “a body as it hath pleased Him.”

Alexander McLaren (1826-1910)

Lead me, Lord, lead me…*

by chuckofish

Well, another weekend has come and gone. I was busy, checking things off my to-do list.

I rescued a needlepoint picture at an estate sale…

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…and I bought some needlework books at another estate sale (also a bag of scissors!) that I went to after church.

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On the downside, Mike Matheny got fired and the wee babes canceled on our usual Sunday dinner, when we were also planning to celebrate the OM’s birthday. C’est la vie, life goes on. I am rather devastated about old Mike. Prayers to the Skipper and his family.

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Sigh. The OM and I are saving the cake for his birthday on Tuesday.

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I started re-reading a Delano Ames mystery from 1952, Murder, Maestro Please, which features husband and wife amateur detective team, Dagobert and Jane Brown. I am enjoying it very much. Dagobert, much to Jane’s chagrin sometimes, strives to encourage her literary career writing mysteries.

This encouragement takes nightmare forms. Our neighbors become creatures with sinister pasts to investigate. Everyday events become fraught with mystery and menace. We find clues everywhere. In the midst of life we are in crime fiction.

A wonderful diversion.

Happy Monday!

*Samuel Wesley

“You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free.”*

by chuckofish

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Well, the 4th of July went by in a rush of activity and an overload of fun. Phew.

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It was hot, hot, hot in flyover country, but we braved the asphalt of the high school parking lot in our folding chairs and watched the fireworks which were “the best ever!” The wee babes by that time were pretty subdued and exhausted–after a Shania Twain dance party–and watched without complaint.

Cousin Tim and Abbie, who were a big hit with the wee babes (especially Lottie),

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*”You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.”– Galatians 5:13 (NIV)

“O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave”

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2018-07-03 at 8.54.10 AM.pngHowever you want to spend the 4th of July, I’ll take my cue from those three American flyers in the German prisoner of war camp (surrounded by British officers) in The Great Escape (1962)…waving the flag, playing loud music and sipping some moonshine. (“WOW!”)

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Oh, thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand
Between their loved home and the war’s desolation!
Blest with victory and peace, may the heav’n-rescued land
Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation!
Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,
And this be our motto: “In God is our trust”:
And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave.

(Francis Scott Key)

A little flag-waving once a year is a good thing! You can bet that we’ll be waving away and bar-b-que-ing and then heading over to our local high school to watch the local fireworks.

We’ll also be thinking of our handsome big brother and thinking of those 4th of July birthdays of yesteryear. We were a rather quiet and restrained family (some might say uptight) but on the 4th of July we liked to let loose and bang pots and pans. We would put the stereo speakers in the open window and blast Souza marches to unsuspecting, left-wing neighbors. We set off fire crackers and bottle rockets!

Well, here’s hoping our bro has a happy, happy birthday and that it isn’t too staid and dignified!

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Yankee doodle, do or die

by chuckofish

Screen Shot 2018-07-02 at 12.29.29 PM.pngToday we toast John Singleton Copley (July 3, 1738 – September 9, 1815) on his birthday. Copley was was an American painter, active in both colonial America and England. He was famous for his portraits, but the above painting–Watson and the Shark (1778)–traumatized me as a child. It is still scary!

It is also the birthday of George M. Cohan (July 3, 1878 – November 5, 1942)–although I always think of him having a July 4th birthday–you know, “I’m a Yankee Doodle Dandy, born on the 4th of July”! Poetic license, I guess. Anyway, Cohan was the quintessential Irish-American song-and-dance man and everything I  know about him I learned from the James Cagney movie Yankee Doodle Dandy (1942) which is a good movie, although probably only half true.

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Screen Shot 2018-07-02 at 1.32.25 PM.pngI wonder if kids today have ever heard of George M. Cohan or heard any of his songs. I grew up with them. “Over there! Over there!/Send the word, send the word over there/That the Yanks are coming/ The Yanks are coming…” I guess Americans lost their enthusiasm for that sentiment somewhere in the 1960s. Oh well.

And hold the phone, Steve McQueen is star of the month on TCM!

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Screen Shot 2018-07-02 at 5.16.29 PM.pngToday is also the start of the Dog Days of summer according to the Old Farmer’s Almanac. To the Greeks and Romans, the “dog days” occurred around the day when Sirius appeared to rise just before the sun, in late July. They referred to these days as the hottest time of the year, a period that could bring fever, or even catastrophe.

Dog Days are approaching; you must, therefore, make both hay and haste while the Sun shines, for when old Sirius takes command of the weather, he is such an unsteady, crazy dog, there is no dependence upon him.
The Old Farmer’s Almanac, 1817

We are mixing a lot of metaphors here, along with myths, so I’ll wrap this up.

Daughter #1 arrives home tonight to celebrate the 4th of July with us, as will my nephew Tim and his girlfriend Abbie, who are driving in from Indiana. We will have a full house. Cross your fingers that the air conditioning holds up!

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The wee babes have come a long way since last July 4th, but Lottie was still stylin’.