dual personalities

Month: March, 2023

“In farm and field through all the shire / The eye beholds the heart’s desire”*

by chuckofish

March has entered like the proverbial lamb, but I’m not taking the down blanket off my bed just yet. I know we will experience another hard freeze sometime in the next few weeks. Just you wait and see.

And while we’re waiting and seeing, did you hear that a bear escaped its enclosure for the second time at the St. Louis Zoom? I mean, come on, who is running the zoo these days? Are all the keepers smoking pot while on duty? Now we are having lockdowns at the zoo? Zut alors–I am not amused.

In honor of famed film producer Walter Mirisch, who died last week at 101, I suggest we watch one of his movies, which include: Some Like It Hot (1959), The Horse Soldiers (1959), The Magnificent Seven (1960), The Great Escape (1963), The Pink Panther (1963), The Russians Are Coming, the Russians Are Coming (1966), In the Heat of the Night (1967) The Thomas Crown Affair (1968), Fiddler on the Roof (1971) and Same Time, Next Year (1978). As Elmore Leonard characterized him, Mirisch “was one of the good guys.” I read his memoir, I Thought We Were Making Movies, Not History, and I have to agree with Leonard, although, as I said at the time, it is always amazing to me how smart guys can make some really dumb decisions. But he made a lot of good movies and was, for the most part, a gentleman.

Here are six movies to celebrate NASCAR’s 75th anniversary. I am not particularly a fan of this film genre, but the wee bud is a huge NASCAR fan and of cars in general. When we were driving to church the other Sunday through our new cut-through, his eyes nearly bugged out of his head at the sight of an orange Charger in a driveway. It is his “favorite street” now.

This month is also the “31 Days of Oscar” month on TCM, so there are a lot of good movies to see. Check out their schedule here. We watched The Adventures of Robin Hood (1938) last night. Mr. Smith was riveted. (Best. Movie. Ever.)

This is a good one from Sam Bush. “Many contemporary children’s books are fixated on an end-goal (whether it’s encouraging your child to use the potty or challenge the patriarchy), but the classics refrain from telling a person what to think.”

I appreciated this article by an American medical doctor about insufferable patients. He even references Planes, Trains and Automobiles. It is also interesting in light of the horrific state of medicine in Canada and their suicide on demand policy. “We stopped speaking in terms of her merit – as a vagabond who deserved her state and did not deserve our medicine. But this took explicitly naming all I’ve said above, interrogating it candidly in community, repenting over what we had said, disrupting the momentum of morning rounds to point toward a different way of treating and speaking about the insufferable. Amy forced us to ask crucial questions we should have been asking long before: What are we doing here again? Who are we becoming? What is medicine for … and who is medicine for?”

Blessings upon you, readers. Take a walk, pat a dog, read a poem. Maybe one by that scoundrel Roald Dahl:

‘My teacher wasn’t half as nice as yours seems to be.
His name was Mister Unsworth and he taught us history.
And when you didn’t know a date he’d get you by the ear
And start to twist while you sat there quite paralysed with fear.
He’d twist and twist and twist your ear and twist it more and more.
Until at last the ear came off and landed on the floor.
Our class was full of one-eared boys. I’m certain there were eight.
Who’d had them twisted off because they didn’t know a date.
So let us now praise teachers who today are all so fine
And yours in particular is totally divine.’

*A.E. Housman, 1859-1936, “March”

“No one ordered a Clark Kent strippergram.”

by chuckofish

Well, my mother and I watched the all female Ghostbusters (2016) last night. I enjoyed it when it came out and it amused me again. What can I say, Leslie Jones makes me laugh. And Chris Hemsworth does have a certain Clark Kent vibe.

Anyway, you all are here to hear about my trip. I had a wonderful time in Maryland visiting Daughter #2 and her sweet fam. I started the trip right by ordering sparkling wine and orange juice on my 7 a.m. flight. The man next to me was real jealous he did not have the same idea.

I played with puzzles and Magna-Tiles. Read lots of books. Did some baby holding. No Duplos on this visit, but what can I say? Nate did make margaritas.

I received the honor of my lifetime by being asked to sit on the bench with Katie at breakfast. I’ve peaked.

Mamu sent Katie a new dress with a matching purse, which we knew she’d love. And she did. It held small books and coasters perfectly. Life is good, am I right?

Katie is such a good big sister and loves to help her mommy gently burp Baby Ida.

It’s always a treat to spend time with my sister, Nate, and their precious children. We also drank large Diet Cokes and wine and stayed up late gabbing.

Also while I was gone Mr. Smith learned how to jump up onto the couch from the floor which is basically the dog equivalent of a baby learning how to walk, so strides are being made all around.

Also, he was VERY into Ghostbusters.