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Month: September, 2021

“Speaking of the plentiful imagery of the world”*

by chuckofish

We have had some great weather this week. Sunny, warm and breezy, with low humidity–just great and much appreciated.

Our house has been in total disarray because we had some built-ins installed in our den this week. We had to take apart the audio/visual system so the guys could do it (2 days) and now we have to put it all back. The boy is coming over this morning before work to assist the OM. So. Many. Wires. Remember back in the day when you just plugged in the old television set? Now there is so much more to deal with. Surround sound. Oy.

This is a really good article contrasting two people who died this week (John Shelby Spong and comedian Norm MacDonald) and their different takes on Christianity.

I watched a movie recently (on Amazon Prime) which I can recommend: Mr. Church (2016) starring Eddie Murphy and directed by Bruce Beresford. It’s kind of a tear-jerker, but I enjoyed it.

The really amazing thing about this movie is the fact that, even though it’s about a black man bringing up a white girl, there is no racial conflict in the story. Never once does a white person sneer, look down on or insult Mr. Church. This probably explains why the film didn’t get good reviews. But Eddie Murphy plays it straight and the cast is excellent. (BTW, the trailer includes spoilers.)

And here’s another really good song from Mac Powell’s upcoming album:

Can’t wait til it drops on October 15.

One more thing: I could watch this amazing 3-year old 100 times:

Just a reminder:

The angel fetched Peter out of prison, but it was prayer that fetched the angel.

–Thomas Watson (1620-1686)

*Billy Collins, “Litany”

Happy Birthday to me.

by chuckofish

Well, as you know, my birthday was last weekend. And you also know that I have been working on becoming a real sewist. I use my mother’s Singer from the 90s (and consider myself quite lucky to use that machine). It’s a real thing to use “vintage” machines, especially Singers. Anyway, Daughter #3 (and my SIL) teaches fashion and knows a thing or two (or three) about real sewing. She suggested to my mother that maybe I’d like an overlocker/serger to celebrate my old age.

So, lucky me, I got a shiny new overlocker/serger for my birthday! She’s a real beaut. The machine comes threaded with four different colored threads so you can really trace them through the machine before attempting to thread it with four matching spools yourself. It is a bit intimidating. I am happy to report, I was able to watch enough YouTube videos and read the whole manual and get the machine threaded. The picture below shows before I got it re-threaded with the matching spools.

A serger finishes seams with a professional look so they don’t unravel. They are also useful for sewing stretchy fabrics. I am so excited to see what I can make with my new machine!!

My birthday was really lovely (a winery, a donut cake, all reported on the blog on Monday) and I felt very loved.

In other news, several months ago, I got this really pretty plant. But it always positions itself to face the window as if in perpetual time out.

Last night, before bed, I turned it around, so the pretty painted leaves would face out.

And, sure enough, look at what this plant did while I was at work!

It is clearly moving back to face the window. I think I just completed a science project. I feel like I’m back in fifth grade. Can I get a blue ribbon for my effort? Congrats on making it to Wednesday. Here’s to getting to Friday!

“Questions I have many, answers but a few”*

by chuckofish

What are you reading? I just finished Blowing the Bloody Doors Off, a memoir by the actor Michael Caine.

I have to admit I enjoyed it a lot. He writes well and he is a very positive fellow who has enjoyed his life, from a happy, but what we might term, disadvantaged upbringing in London to international stardom. He is grateful and he is happy to share what he has learned. The book is full of practical advice for actors, but it is all applicable to the rest of us.

I remember Roger Moore, years ago, saying to me “Cheer up. You’d better have a good time because this is not a rehearsal, this is life. This is the show.”

Yes, indeed. He is all about hard work: know your lines, be on time, don’t fool around.

When you are prepared, you are able to subdue your fear, control your nerves, channel your energy, and enter that state of highly alert relaxation that is spontaneity’s best friend.

Don’t think you deserve anything.

Find something you want to do and learn how to do it really well. Take what you got and make the most of it. Learn how to do something, whatever it is, you would choose to do for nothing. Whatever it is, when you are doing it, it makes you feel amazing and most yourself. Throw yourself into it. Challenge yourself to be the best you can be. We can’t all be famous actors. But, if you can find something you love and if that something will also pay the bills, you will be on your way to your own personal paradise.

Anyway, now I am going to watch a lot of Michael Caine movies. He is the first to admit that he has made a lot of bad ones. (I watched Swarm recently and, despite its stellar cast, it is pretty terrible.) But I watched The Man Who Would be King (1975) the other night and enjoyed it.

Caine and his good friend Sean Connery are perfectly cast as the two British soldiers who set out to be kings of Kafiristan in the Rudyard Kipling story. “We meet upon the level, and part upon the square.”

Next up: Zulu (1964), The Italian Job (1969) and Alfie (1966).

We will also note the passing of “controversial” Episcopal Bishop John Shelby Spong–as Anne Kennedy describes him, “that famous Episcopal bishop who denied so many tenets of the Christian faith that eventually he ran out of stuff to deny. And yet, he remained a bishop.” Listen to her podcast to find out “why that’s not a good thing and how to avoid it.” She and her husband are right on target about actual heresy and how it takes over the church because everyone is too embarrassed to say anything. “The Episcopal bishop in Hell believes he has led a courageous life.”

Can you believe it has been 18 years since Johnny Cash died? Well, it has–September 12, 2003.

(Photo by Marty Stuart)

So a belated toast to Johnny and here’s Bob on Johnny’s show back in the good ol’ days.

“If, then, I were asked for the most important advice I could give, that which I considered to be the most useful to the men of our century, I should simply say: in the name of God, stop a moment, cease your work, look around you.” 

–Leo Tolstoy

*Dolly Parton, “Travelin’ Through”

“Crown him as your Captain”*

by chuckofish

We celebrated daughter #1’s birthday by going to our favorite winery in Hillsboro. Now that we are experts, we know what to bring and how to set up for a picnic.

Accommodations were made for the small fry.

Pappy and the wee laddie went for a walk to check out the excavator down the hill and the pond around the bend.

When we had enough lovely sunshine and live music (and wine)…

…we packed up…

…and headed back to our flyover hometown where we ate “donut cake” and Aunt Mary opened presents.

It was a fun day.

I went to church in the morning after daughter #1 headed back to mid-MO. I was reminded once again that worship is a restorative act. It really is. Our clergy team is starting a new sermon series on the Letter to the Romans and I am looking forward to it. No one does exegesis like the Presbyterians.

For I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God that brings salvation to everyone who believes: first to the Jew, then to the Gentile. For in the gospel the righteousness of God is revealed—a righteousness that is by faith from first to last, just as it is written: “The righteous will live by faith.”

Romans 1:16-17

In closing I encourage you to watch this video about a fine young man who lost his life on 9/11 helping to save people in the south tower. He reminds me of the boy, a lacrosse player who had an eerily similar name and the same initials. (Kleenex essential)

Have a good week. Pray that you might bring glory to God in thought, word and deed.

In your hearts enthrone him; there let him subdue

All that is not holy, all that is not true;

Crown him as your Captain in temptation’s hour:

Let his will enfold you in its light and pow’r.

–Hymn #163, Caroline M. Noel, 1870

How, how I wish you were here

by chuckofish

It’s a big weekend for our families. As my DP mentioned, tomorrow is her daughter’s birthday. Then on Sunday it is my middle son’s birthday. Here he is with his cousin a few years ago (I probably post this photo every year, but I really love it).

The 12th is also the birthday of Tim’s fiancée, Abbie. Yes, that’s right, they’re engaged, and we are incredibly happy!

Just in case you birthday partiers are feeling old, at least you are not old enough to remember the TV show The Monkees which premiered on September 12th, 1966.

Dig the groovy clothes, haircuts and go-go dancers (who thought that sparkly white tights would be flattering?). It was a zany show that tried to capture the spirit of the Beatles’ movies Help and It’s a Hard Day’s Night. In case you are curious or want to relive the show, you can watch it on YouTube here or just listen to their great songs.

If bubblegum pop isn’t your thing, you might prefer Pink Floyd’s Wish You Were Here which came out on September 12th, 1975.  

I haven’t listened to it in ages; it’s pretty great.

Have a great weekend and don’t trade your heroes for ghosts!

“A tinsel and spun-candy world”*

by chuckofish

I have been thinking about terrible computer-generated action movies and how basically this technology has ruined the story-telling art of movies. In particular I have been thinking about the old days when actors did a lot of their own stunts and about the stunt men who stepped in to attempt the really dangerous stuff.

Remember Buster Keaton who made silent movies almost 100 years ago?

Nothing was faked here!

Remember Errol Flynn and Basil Rathbone, who did all their own sword fighting?

What about Stagecoach (1939) where John Wayne does his own stunts up until the point where Yakima Canutt takes over in the classic retrieving the reins maneuver. (This stunt comes right after Canutt has played the Indian falling under the stagecoach.) Eight of the most exciting (and best edited) minutes in film history.

Then, of course, there’s Ben Hur (1959) with some of the greatest action scenes ever filmed that do not, however, eclipse the basic drama of the movie. Charlton Heston learned how to drive a chariot and his prowess is important to the integrity of the film. Joe Canutt, son of the great Yakima, takes over when the action gets too dangerous.

Compare that to this clip from the 2016 CGI version of Ben Hur…

And who can forget The Great Escape (1962) with Steve McQueen’s iconic motorcycle jump. Bud Ekins did the actual jump–insurance issues again–but the scene is great, as is the editing by Ferris Webster.

Here’s an interesting interview with Bud Ekins about how it all fell into place.

And remember when there was actually a real “cast of thousands” in movies like Lawrence of Arabia (1962)?

I could go on and on…remember the buffalo stampede in How The West Was Won (1962) and the car chase in The French Connection (1971)? Jumping Mulberry Bridge in Smokey and the Bandit (1977)?

What are your favorite non-CGI stunts in movies?

Well, CGI is here to stay and in my opinion that is sad. Even a well done CGI movie is like watching a cartoon–think Roadrunner and Wile E. Coyote–there’s no risk involved, so there’s no tension. It’s just like one big amusement park ride and I never liked amusement parks.

Side note: I also read that George Lucas updated the puppet Yoda (puppeteered by Frank Oz) in The Phantom Menace (1999), digitizing him in the 2011 Blue-ray version. That is definitely not kosher.

Whatever.

P.S. Yesterday was the birthday of Joshua Lawrence Chamberlain, one of our favorite non-ancestors, so a shout out and a belated toast to him.

And Saturday is the birthday of daughter #1 so we have Big Plans for some fun.

However, it is also the 20th anniversary of the most heinous act of terrorism in my lifetime and we will remember it.

*Narrator, The Greatest Show on Earth (1952)

“Jump on in, the water is fine.”

by chuckofish

Well, it’s Tuesday again. Feels like a Monday, but it’s Tuesday. And I didn’t forget to write a blog post. Go me.

After my success with the new sewing table last week (and because I left the back seats down in my car), I brought back an antique army field desk my mother got at a local auction. I’m not sure how I managed to carry it up the stairs and lift it onto the table, but somehow I did.

Yes, I know the lampshade is too big–I’m looking for a smaller one.

I need to watch some videos on antique lock-smithing so that I can fix the latch/lock to keep it closed. However, in the meantime, I get to enjoy filling it up. It really adds some nice old, brown-furniture vibes to the room and I’m so happy with it! I might use the writing desk part as ironing surface. Plus, there’s an old key for those drawers which is the stuff of my childhood dreams.

Speaking of childhood dreams, my mother has been cleaning out the closet in my old bedroom (which later became Daughter #2’s room) and found this box of mail I received while away at camp. The box, dutifully warning my brother to KEEP OUT, is postmarked 1996 from Grosse Pointe, Michigan. Anyway, I was worried the letters would take me back to dark times ie MIDDLE SCHOOL but thankfully, the letters have instead painted a picture of happy years. Here’s a sample:

Today I joined Susie in the beautiful multi-purpose room for the camp ‘picnic’–hotdogs, salad, chips, and brownies, plus red juice. Yummy. Then Susie and the 2-4th graders put on their Rugrats skit (Susie played Chuckie)–it was pretty lame. But Susie was cute. Unfortunately she didn’t have enough to do.

My mother to me circa 7/11/97

A tough crowd.

Other highlights from my box of mail include a letter from my father, the summer we moved, telling me that they had found my American Dolls and their things in a box labelled “Katie’s winter clothes.” I remembered none of what I read. I am grateful to my dear mother for writing me dutifully every day even when she felt there was nothing to report in As the Comptons Turn. And I am very sad that letter writing has gone by the wayside because I wonder what else I’ve forgotten!!

I will dig into the box and come up with some more A+ future material.

To close, I invite you all to enjoy this rousing Mac Powell (formerly of Third Day) song. It should get your Wednesday off to a good start. xo.

With ten miles behind me and ten thousand more to go

by chuckofish

After daughter #1 headed back to mid-MO yesterday, I sat down to do some “desk work.” I got nothing much accomplished and I came up with very little to blog about.

The OM and I went to Ted Drewes for some frozen custard and later we watched a really worthless movie. I mean, I like Jason Statham, Dwayne Johnson and Idris Elba, but Fast and Furious Presents: Hobbes and Shaw (2019) went beyond ridiculous to just plain stupid.

Who does non-stop computer-generated violence appeal to anyway? Fourteen-year old boys? Good God Almighty, I need a mental cleansing after that whatever you call it.

So here are Josh and Carson covering one of my favorite songs from the olden days.

P.S. Sweet Baby James was released as the first single from the James Taylor’s second album but it did not chart. Typical.

“Take my life and let it be/consecrated, Lord, to thee”*

by chuckofish

Happy Labor Day!

“I don’t give jobs, I hire men.” This scene from McClintock seems relevant.

Only, let every one lead the life which the Lord has assigned to him, and in which God has called him. This is my rule in all the churches. “

I Cor. 7:17

The sermon yesterday was on I Corinthians 7:17-24. The preacher was Dr. Daniel Doriani, a well known Presbyterian in our community and a blogger at TGC. It was excellent–all about how God calls us to faith and union with Christ and to places and roles, about living faithfully in our callings and where God has put us. You can read his Work: Foundational Truths for Uncertain Times here. Again, it is wonderful to leave church feeling ebullient and ready to face the week. It has been literally years since I felt that way after church.

Meanwhile, Miss Katie needs to “work” on her table manners…

Speaking of nutballs, we had not seen the wee babes for a couple of weeks, so we were glad they could come over for a Labor Day BBQ with their parents on Sunday. It was a beautiful day, sunny and in the 70s with low humidity. We sat outside and enjoyed the sunshine. When we came inside they wreaked havoc as usual.

In other news, daughter #1 and I went to one estate sale on Saturday where I found an old issue of the From Mary to You alumnae magazine from 1969 which I bought for a dollar and thoroughly enjoyed reading. There was a photo of our pater in a coonskin cap being uncharacteristically goofy in his AP U.S. class…

and a photo of moi in a seventh grade play …

I think that is my friend Harriet second from the left with a veil. I am second from the right (I think). I have no memory of this play, ‘The Paduan Berets’ by Pirandello. Zut alors! Weren’t we sophisticated? (Actually, no, not really.)

So if you have the day off today, enjoy it.

Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.

I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Ecclesiastes 9:10-11

*Hymn #585, Frances R. Havergal, 1874

That old September feeling

by chuckofish

Do you ever feel that whenever you try to do the right thing, it backfires? Well, I feel that way a lot and this week was no exception. Anyway, when I wasn’t irritating somebody, I spent some time looking at beautiful paintings and reading seasonal-appropriate poetry. I liked this painting by Finnish artist Thure Sundell (1864-1924), and this poem called “September Midnight” by Sara Teasdale, so I thought I’d share them with you.

Lyric night of the lingering Indian Summer,
Shadowy fields that are scentless but full of singing,
Never a bird, but the passionless chant of insects,
Ceaseless, insistent.

The grasshopper’s horn, and far-off, high in the maples,
The wheel of a locust leisurely grinding the silence
Under a moon waning and worn, broken,
Tired with summer.

Let me remember you, voices of little insects,
Weeds in the moonlight, fields that are tangled with asters,
Let me remember, soon will the winter be on us,
Snow-hushed and heavy.

Over my soul murmur your mute benediction,
While I gaze, O fields that rest after harvest,
As those who part look long in the eyes they lean to,
Lest they forget them.