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Month: September, 2018

Saturday morale boost

by chuckofish

Need a morale boost this weekend? Here’s how the students of one New Zealand school paid their respects to a retiring teacher. Watch the whole thing, it’s short.

Lest you catch yourself recoiling from all that “toxic masculinity”, notice how controlled everyone is, and how when they finish they go on about their business as if nothing has happened. That’s not toxic, it’s healthy and great for morale!

As Xenophon observed in his Anabasis,

“…it is not numbers or strength that bring the victories in war. No, it is when one side goes against the enemy with the gods’ gift of a stronger morale that their adversaries, as a rule, cannot withstand them. 

So chin up! Let us face our opponents with God’s gift of stronger morale!

 

Child of God

by chuckofish

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Earlier in the week I received the news that Charlie, the 20-year old grandson of one of my dearest friends, had been killed in a car wreck driving back to KU. This is crushing. Every parent’s nightmare.

Indeed, we hear such terrible stories all the time, but when they hit close to home, it scares us and we wonder if life is just one blow after another until we too die.

But then I was listening to my daily Tim Keller sermon as I rode my stationery bike yesterday and he was talking about 1 John 3:1-3:

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.

Though we see through a glass darkly, Charlie sees Christ face to face now. We must try to rejoice in that.

Most merciful God, whose wisdom is beyond our understanding: Deal graciously with Charlie’s family in their grief. Surround them with your love, that they may not be overwhelmed by their loss, but have confidence in your goodness, and strength to meet the days to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

This week has been a very stressful week at work, compounded by this tragic news. I feel unfocused and on edge. But the weekend is upon us. My boy will be riding once again in the Pedal the Cause bicycle race for cancer survivors. He is two years cancer free.

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Have a good weekend. Tell your loved ones you love them. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. (I Thessalonians 5:18)

[The engraving above is Rosa Celeste: by Gustave Doré]

1066 and all that

by chuckofish

The Norman conquest of England began on this day in 1066.  The invasion and occupation of England by an army of Norman, Breton, Flemish and French soldiers was led by Duke William II of Normandy, later known as William the Conqueror.

This made me think of the book 1066 and All That: A Memorable History of England, comprising all the parts you can remember, including 103 Good Things, 5 Bad Kings and 2 Genuine Dates.  

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The book is a parody of the style of history teaching in English schools at the time (1930), in particular of Our Island Story. It purports to contain “all the History you can remember,” and covers the history of England from Roman times through 1066 “and all that,” up to the end of World War I, at which time “America was thus clearly Top Nation, and history came to a .” [full-stop, like a telegram] It is full of examples of half-remembered and mixed-up facts, puns and really bad jokes.

The book is written in the manner of a bad test essay with most of the names wrong. It is also full of private jokes and you really have to know quite a lot of history to get them, so I can’t imagine anyone today being even slightly amused by it.

Truly it makes my own history-major head spin.

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Zut alors!

On the whole I prefer Nigel Molesworth: “a chiz is a swiz or swindle as any fule kno.”

All latin masters hav one joke.

Caesar adsum jam forte
or
caesar had some jam for tea.

No one knows anything now.

Let not your heart be troubled

by chuckofish

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I thought this was a good point.

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

And don’t forget:

…And, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen. (Matthew 28:20)

(Tiffany window in the Pullman Memorial Universalist Church, Albion, NY)

Ride boldly ride

by chuckofish

Today we toast Oliver Loving (December 4, 1812 – September 25, 1867) who was an American rancher and pioneer of the cattle drive. Together with Charles Goodnight, he developed the Goodnight-Loving Trail.

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He was mortally wounded by Indians while on a cattle drive and died 151 years ago today. You may recall that Larry McMurtry borrowed his manner of death and the fact that Goodnight transported his body back to Texas for his character Augustus McCrae in Lonesome Dove.

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Loving County, Texas, the second least-populace county in the United States in population, is named in his honor.

You can read more about the trail here.

Well, it may be time to dig out Lonesome Dove, the mini series.

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“Here’s to the sunny slopes of long ago.”

Listen to your life

by chuckofish

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Well, we had a joyful weekend, how about you? We celebrated daughter #1’s belated birthday as planned.

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References to donuts abounded.

We also went to a couple of estate sales, but were unsuccessful. We returned something at J. Crew and resisted buying these gold leggings for Miss Lottie.

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Daughter #1 hung a picture up for me.

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Try as I may, I have never been able to drive a nail into a wall. Luckily my children are all handier than I am.

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The weather was glorious all weekend, so we opted to take a walk through the nearby Powder Valley conservation area instead of going to church.IMG_4291.JPGIMG_4293.JPG

After daughter # 1 headed back to mid-MO, I gabbed on the phone with daughter #2 and caught up on my household chores and the OM gassed up my car. An excellent weekend, don’t you agree?

Now we are off to the races at work–a very busy week ahead. We’ll take it one day at a time.

“Listen to your life. Listen to what happens to you because it is through what happens to you that God speaks… It’s in language that’s not always easy to decipher, but it’s there, powerfully, memorably, unforgettably.”

–Frederick Buechner

There and back again

by chuckofish

It was a mad week full of long meetings, business-social events, and other time-consuming obligations, but I got through it by falling asleep at 8:30 every night. I decided that having to re-watch several episodes of NYPD Blue is a small price to pay for normal brain function. And I won’t be relaxing this weekend, for I have much to do.

Above all, I have to prepare for the dynamic duo’s return from their adventures in Kodiak, Alaska and Whistler, British Columbia.

Chris at Cheakmus Lake, BC (photo by N. Potter)

I must say that the scenery looks stupendous, if ominously remote.

In between cleaning and planning menus, I have to decide what my kitchen renovation will look like. Next Tuesday, while the DH is in Ottawa meeting the boy and his gal at the airport, I’ll be rushing home form work to meet the contractor and tell him what I want. Decisions, decisions. I find this part very difficult. I’m used to decorating one item at a time. Doing a whole room is a royal pain.

Of course, we have to deal with some constraints: a limited budget; a small, dark space, and a blue and white color scheme that I’m not going to change. We’ve chosen bamboo plank flooring, so that’s more or less settled.

Now it gets harder. I don’t want dark counters, partly because I love my vintage white Formica and partly because the kitchen is too small for such an expanse of dark. The current plan is to update the counters to a light quartz/engineered stone. The biggest challenge involves the once excellent, now battered hardwood cabinets. We don’t want to replace them, so we plan to paint them. But should they be white?

or a light blue?

At the moment I’m inclining toward white, primarily because finding the right color blue is nearly impossible, but we’ll see…I have three days to decide. Please leave your advice in a comment!

I leave you with Lt. Arthur Fancy’s sage comment: “The future keeps telling us what the past was about. You make the past mean different things by the way you use the time that comes after.”

All kitchen photos recovered from Google Images.

Tout va bien

by chuckofish

Oh, what a week! And, yay, Friday!

I am happy that daughter #1 is coming home this weekend to celebrate her belated birthday.  Celebrations are important. Life is too short not to recognize milestones–no matter how minimal–with presents and good food and drink and dance parties. I highly recommend doing so whenever.

If you don’t have a birthday or a PhD oral defense to celebrate, there are plenty of other things  about which to party today.

For instance, today is the 81st anniversary of the publication of The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien.

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Today is the 37th anniversary of the day Sandra Day O’Connor was unanimously approved by the U.S. Senate as the first female Supreme Court justice. Unanimously!

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Bill Murray turns 68 today.

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So whatever you’ve got going on (or not) have fun this weekend. Seize the day.

As for you, continue in what you have learned and firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it…

–2 Timothy 3:14

“Those who wish to sing always find a song.”*

by chuckofish

Names of Horses

All winter your brute shoulders strained against collars, padding

and steerhide over the ash hames, to haul

sledges of cordwood for drying through spring and summer,

for the Glenwood stove next winter, and for the simmering range.

 

In April you pulled cartloads of manure to spread on the fields,

dark manure of Holsteins, and knobs of your own clustered with oats.

All summer you mowed the grass in meadow and hayfield, the mowing machine

clacketing beside you, while the sun walked high in the morning;

 

and after noon’s heat, you pulled a clawed rake through the same acres,

gathering stacks, and dragged the wagon from stack to stack,

and the built hayrack back, uphill to the chaffy barn,

three loads of hay a day from standing grass in the morning.

 

Sundays you trotted the two miles to church with the light load

a leather quartertop buggy, and grazed in the sound of hymns.

Generation on generation, your neck rubbed the windowsill

of the stall, smoothing the wood as the sea smooths glass.

 

When you were old and lame, when your shoulders hurt bending to graze,

one October the man, who fed you and kept you, and harnessed you every morning,

led you through corn stubble to sandy ground above Eagle Pond,

and dug a hole beside you where you stood shuddering in your skin,

 

and lay the shotgun’s muzzle in the boneless hollow behind your ear,

and fired the slug into your brain, and felled you into your grave,

shoveling sand to cover you, setting goldenrod upright above you,

where by next summer a dent in the ground made your monument.

 

For a hundred and fifty years, in the Pasture of dead horses,

roots of pine trees pushed through the pale curves of your ribs,

yellow blossoms flourished above you in autumn, and in winter

frost heaved your bones in the ground – old toilers, soil makers:

 

O Roger, Mackerel, Riley, Ned, Nellie, Chester, Lady Ghost.

–Donald Hall from Kicking the Leaves (1978)

Today we toast the poet Donald Hall (September 20, 1928 – June 23, 2018) whose birthday it is. I missed the fact that he died earlier this year.

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Hall published more than fifty books, from poetry and drama to biography and memoirs, and edited numerous anthologies, including  New Poets of England and America (1957; coedited with Robert Pack and Louis Simpson). He went to Exeter, Harvard and Oxford, had a successful career as an academic and editor, then happily went to live on his ancestral farm in New Hampshire and devoted himself to poetry. 

I remember this book from my children’s childhood.

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In other news, the wee babes dropped by my office yesterday and ran up and down the long hallways.

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They are both recovering from ear infections, so they didn’t stay long, but it was sure fun to see them and their daddy who brought them.

It is still pretty hot here in flyover country. I don’t know about you, but I’m ready for fall. Enough already.

*Plato

A-tisket, A-tasket

by chuckofish

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We just celebrated our 7th anniversary writing this blog. Isn’t that something?

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Maya Angelou, All God’s Children Need Traveling Shoes