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Month: March, 2018

People, get ready!*

Another busy week full of dentistry (I’ll spare you that) and driving. Yesterday I took my car in for service, which is quite a production, since the dealer is about two hours away. On the way there, I drove through a weird white world of snow and fog.

I managed to take a couple of photos without stopping (that’s not like texting and driving, is it?).

Notice the arty rear view mirror shot. By the time I drove home, the weather had cleared, although that brought out the police, who lay in wait for unwary old ladies like me.  I got caught in a speed trap. I had begun — about 30 feet early — to accelerate in anticipation of leaving a village speed zone (30 mph) and entering the highway (55 mph).

Actually, the nice young policeman, who pulled me over, was quite apologetic, saying that his sergeant insisted that everyone get ticketed so he had no choice. He then told me how to get the fine reduced. I did not slap him.

Well, I am philosophical and take that lapse in judgment as a warning to be careful as I drive across country to Louisville, KY next week! I don’t feel particularly ready for this trip, but take solace in these wise words from a wonderful memoir I just finished reading about Merrill’s Marauders in Burma during WWII:

For nothing could have been better calculated than that experience to bring home to me a lesson that has to be learned…It is this. Being unready and ill-equipped is what you have to expect in life. It is the universal predicament. It is your lot as a human being to lack what it takes. Circumstances are seldom right. You never have the capacities, the strength, the wisdom, the virtue you ought to have. You must always make do with less than you need in a situation vastly different from what you would have chosen as appropriate for your special endowments.

Charlton Ogburn, Jr. The Marauders, Fawcett, 1956: 18.

In the meantime, I am preparing for Easter. Son #2 arrives today, so there will be four of us to celebrate. Easter is early this year and it seems to have caught me by surprise. The stores have been full of candy and bunnies for weeks, and I’ve overindulged in pastel colored M&Ms, but it has not put me in an Easter frame of mind.  I was surprised last night to realize that there have been no Easter movies on TV at all, at least not that I’ve noticed, and I flip channels every night, looking in vain for something to watch. There’s nothing on Netflix or Amazon video either. What’s the idea?

I guess we’re on our own, so remember Psalm 62: “Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from him cometh my salvation. He only is my rock and my salvation; he is my defence; I shall not be moved.”

*Curtis Mayfield, “People, Get Ready!”

 

 

“Rise heart; thy Lord is risen”*

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Daughter #3 could not resist having yet more pictures taken of her wee babes–this time in their Easter outfits. I gather that the only way this could happen was if they confined/trapped the wee laddie in the wheelbarrow prop and clearly he was not having it.

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I mean, not fair, dude. Little Lottie mustered her good will, but…

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Mom, where did my brother go?

Well, at least there wasn’t a big rabbit in the mix.

Meanwhile I went to the Maundy Thursday service (complete with foot washing) last night and stayed for an hour “in the garden,” which I spent reading the Psalms and the Good Friday service.

Lord Jesus Christ, son of the living God, we pray you to set your passion, cross, and death between your judgment and our souls, now and in the hour of our death. Give mercy and grace to the living; pardon and rest to the dead; to your holy church peace and concord; and to us sinners everlasting life and glory; for with the Father and the Holy Spirit you live and reign, our God now and forever. Amen (BCP)

Have a joyful Easter! Watch Ben-Hur (1959) on Saturday night! Go to church on Sunday!

*George Herbert

A science snippet and a reminder

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The full Moon that shows up for a second time this month (March 31) is known as a “Blue Moon.” This full Blue Moon is also known as the “Paschal Blue Moon” and it has a special connection to Easter. The first Sunday after the Paschal Moon is usually designated as Easter Sunday, as will indeed be the case this year (April 1).

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The last time we had a Paschal Blue Moon was in 1999.  In that year, that second March full Moon fell on a Wednesday, so Easter Sunday fell on April 4. If you’re wondering when the last time Easter Sunday fell on April 1, that was in 1956!

Here’s another “Blue Moon” for you; watch the whole thing…

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Suddenly I feel like having a

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How about you?

I will have to wait, however. I have a busy day at work and then I am reading at the Maundy Thursday service this evening,

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followed by my one hour waiting “in the garden” with our Lord. I won’t be home ’til late I’m afraid.

Tomorrow is Good Friday. Time to get our act together.

Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

– Collect for Maundy Thursday, Book of Common Prayer

Blue Moon information from The Farmer’s Almanac 2018; Last Supper painting from the Ottheinrich Folio.

Random thoughts

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“A Robin said: The Spring will never come,
And I shall never care to build again.
A Rosebush said: These frosts are wearisome,
My sap will never stir for sun or rain.
The half Moon said: These nights are fogged and slow,
I neither care to wax nor care to wane.
The Ocean said: I thirst from long ago,
Because earth’s rivers cannot fill the main. —
When Springtime came, red Robin built a nest,
And trilled a lover’s song in sheer delight.
Grey hoarfrost vanished, and the Rose with might
Clothed her in leaves and buds of crimson core.
The dim Moon brightened. Ocean sunned his crest,
Dimpled his blue, yet thirsted evermore.”
―Christina Rossetti

Never fear: spring is on the way. How do I know?

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The start of baseball season is just around the corner! I am no die-hard fan, but I welcome the distraction of Redbird Nation…

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…although I don’t look forward to the inevitable snarkiness regarding Big Mike.

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To the haters I say, ‘Hate stirs up trouble, but love overlooks all offenses.’ (Proverbs 10:12)

On another note, I recently watched two movies that were coincidentally both nominated for Best Picture and Best Actor in the same year–1966. This, you will recall, is the same year that Steve McQueen was robbed. But also robbed was Richard Burton for Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? and Alan Arkin for The Russians Are Coming, The Russians Are Coming.

That year there was a lot of solid competition for Best Actor:

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and, of course, the worst performance in the worst movie won. Ye gods! Alan Arkin gave a performance of comic genius–all that fake Russian and broken English:

Very clever little boy. Very, very clever, to see that my friend and I are foreigners here, but of course not Russian, naturally. What would the Russians be doing on United States of America island, with so many animosities and hatreds between these two countries? It is too funny an idea, is it not? No, we… we are of course… Norweegans.

And, oh gee whiz, how could you give the Best Actress to Elizabeth Taylor and not the Best Actor Oscar to Richard Burton? They were both at their dramatic best as the drunken married couple, George and Martha. She was no better than he, but her competition was nowhere near as stiff. This truly was a travesty of justice.

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I watched this movie because I had not seen it for a very long time and because I wanted to see how much of Smith College they actually show. (They filmed the outside scenes there in 1966, eight years before I was there.)

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The swing was still there in 1974. I wonder if it still is?

Well, anyway, Richard Burton was certainly at the top of his game. Once again, we are reminded that awards mean nothing.

I guess I should watch Alfie–I have no doubt that Michael Caine was robbed as well.

However, there was one Academy Award given that year that was highly deserved: an honorary Oscar to the peerless Yakima Canutt for achievements as a stunt man and for “developing safety devices to protect all stunt men everywhere”. He was an amazing guy! You can read about him here. I will toast him in a few days when we watch Ben-Hur (1959)!

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Horse trainer Glenn Randall, stunt coordinator Yakima Canutt (standing in chariot) & Charlton Heston on the set in Rome.

Well, just another reminder, as I said, that:

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(photo credit of MM, the Boston Globe; painted stones by rhunt60)

A little flyover history

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The first Washington University Law School class consisted of eight men in 1867. Two years after the Law School opened its doors, the class that entered had twenty-one students, and remarkably two were women: Lemma Barkeloo and Phoebe Couzins. They are believed by many to be the nation’s first women law students.

Yesterday marked the 147th anniversary of the day Lemma Barkeloo was admitted to the Missouri Bar, becoming the first woman allowed to practice law in St. Louis. A native of Brooklyn, New York, Barkeloo came west to study at Washington University because Columbia would not admit her. She joined the firm of prominent St. Louis attorney Lucien Eaton in 1870 and her future looked bright indeed.

However, Lemma Barkeloo died late that same year of typhoid fever, although one writer called it “over-mental exertion.” Please.

Studying law at Washington University with Barkeloo was Phoebe Wilson Couzins of St. Louis, who took and passed the Missouri Bar in 1871, making her Missouri’s second and the nation’s third or fourth licensed woman attorney. She later became the first woman admitted to the bar in Arkansas and Utah, and was also admitted to the bar in Kansas and the Dakota Territory. She was also the first woman to serve as a U.S. Marshal. When she died in 1913 she was buried in Bellefontaine Cemetery with her U.S. Marshal star pinned to her chest.

Discuss among yourselves.

“Let thy blood in mercy poured, let thy gracious body broken, be to me, O gracious Lord, of thy boundless love the token”*

Our bride-to-be seemed pleased with her shower and I think everyone had fun. The champagne punch was a hit.

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It was a busy Saturday, but daughter #1 and I still managed to go out to breakfast and hit a couple of estate sales prior to the festivities.

We also watched two great movies over the weekend: The Russians Are Coming, The Russians Are Coming (1966)

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which is a really funny movie. The screenplay is hilarious; it was even nominated for an  Oscar. The movie was also nominated for Best Picture, Best Actor and Best Film Editing. If you have not seen it lately, treat yourself. Jonathan Winters repeatedly saying, “We have… GOT… to get organized!” is worth the price of admission alone. Also, I think I am becoming Muriel Everett.

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The other movie we watched was The Quiet Man (1952)–the classic John Ford/John Wayne fantasy about Ireland–also very enjoyable.

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As usual this poster shows a lot more cleavage/bosom than ever would have been appropriate in the actual film. Zut alors!

We went to the Palm Sunday service at Grace.

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All went well with the Passion story as read by the lay reader stars. I was the Narrator again, which I enjoyed. But, you know, “Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord.” (I Cor. 1:31)

Afterwards we went over to see the wee babes at their house before daughter #1 had to hit the road and head home to Mid-MO. It is always a joy to see the wee babes in their natural habitat.

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And now it is back to the salt mine. Let’s try to keep our focus where it belongs during Holy Week!

*Episcopal hymnal

Palms before my feet

Palm Sunday is upon us and Easter just next week.  I try to take a restrained approach to the holiday. I have a few decorations on the table, and son #1 and I did dress up our evening (no sugar added) cocoa last night, because we suddenly developed a burning desire to see whether Peeps float in whipped cream — but I draw the line there.

After a root canal yesterday, I inclined toward hysteria by evening. That’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it!

[By the way, Peeps do float. I hadn’t had one in years. They’re grossly sweet and sugary, but not in a nice, jellybean way. I can’t recommend the Peep addition to evening cocoa.]

Let’s get back to what’s important: Palm Sunday, the start of Easter week. Tomorrow our church will hold a special breakfast, after which the congregation will process around the village green, singing hymns and waving palms before attending church. Being by temperament disinclined to participate in reenactments, we will arrive in time for the service. We’re not snobs,  just self-conscious and averse to walking around in the cold.

In case any of you also prefer inside activities, you might try looking at depictions of the entry into Jerusalem. Take this slightly Cubist looking fresco at San Baudelio de Berlanga in Spain that dates to c. 1125. I love everything about it.

Even better is Giotto’s lively fresco, c. 1305. There’s so much to love about this painting; the sweet-faced donkey; the people climbing the trees to see better or gather palms; the lady(?) in the front right of the painting with her head covered; the man right above her with the giant sleeve, and the attempt at perspective. The colors are great, too.

I also really like Hippolyte Flandrin’s 1842 painting, although the figures seem stiff and Jesus isn’t looking at anyone. One wonders whether he will see the baby being held up to him on the right.

As for literature, G.K. Chesterton’s The Donkey makes a very nice verse accompaniment.

When fishes flew and forests walked

And figs grew upon thorn,

Some moment when the moon was blood

Then surely I was born.

 

With monstrous head and sickening cry

And ears like errant wings,

The devil’s walking parody

On all four-footed things.

 

The tattered outlaw of the earth,

Of ancient crooked will;

Starve, scourge, deride me: I am dumb,

I keep my secret still.

 

Fools! For I also had my hour;

One far fierce hour and sweet:

There was a shout about my ears,

And palms before my feet.

 

It’s not only Palm Sunday tomorrow, it’s my BFF’s birthday. Have a wonderful day, you old thing! I may not be into reenactments, but I love to reminisce. Rest assured that I will be thinking of you all day.

Have a contemplative Palm Sunday and remember to rejoice, for “all shall be well and all manner of things shall be well”.

 

 

 

 

“Sit down, you’re rocking the boat”*

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Funny story: when I was returning from my trip east on Tuesday, my carryon bag was detained when it went through security at BWI. I had to wait while another TSA agent came over to check things out. He said, “It looks like you have a book in there.”

“Yes,” I said, thinking, is a book a problem?

He opened up my suitcase and rooted around until he found the 640-page Henry David Thoreau: A Life, which daughter #2 had given me in my welcome goodie bag of treats. He whiffled through the pages, but didn’t come up with anything, so he put it back inside and we closed up the bag.

Then he said, “Do you mind if I ask you what that book is about?”

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“It’s the new biography of Thoreau,” I said. “What do you think he’d make of all this?” I chuckled.

He chuckled too, but he had no idea what I was talking about.

“I was not born to be forced. I will breathe after my own fashion. Let us see who is the strongest.” (Civil Disobedience)

That’s what I thought.

Well, this weekend will be a busy one. Carla and I are hosting a bridal shower at my house for our friend Becky’s future daughter-in-law. Daughter #1 is coming into town to make the champagne punch!

Can’t wait to see the wee babes–it’s been two weeks!

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And can you believe it, Sunday is Palm Sunday! Time for the Passion story and the Grace Church showcase of lay reader stars. It is also time to catch up with some Lenten movie fare. Indeed, it may be time to dust off Franco Zeffirelli’s Jesus of Nazareth (1977) and get down to business. Holy Week is upon us.

*Nicely-Nicely in Guys and Dolls

Postcards from Virginia

While I was visiting daughter #2 in Maryland and Virginia, spring was beginning to show its face…

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Nevertheless, we had a lovely time, starting off straight from the airport in Baltimore with a jaunt down to Fredericksburg, Virginia. Located near where the Rappahannock River crosses the Atlantic Seaboard fall line, it was a prominent port in Virginia during the colonial era. Today it is chock full of beautiful old buildings. We ate lunch at Foode, a hip restaurant in a historic bank building.

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Love this sign!

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IMG_8638.JPGOn the way back to Norfolk, we stopped at Bacon’s Castle, the oldest documented brick dwelling in the U.S. Built in 1665, it is notable as an extremely rare example of Jacobean architecture in the New World.

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Back in College Park, we were happy to be reunited with dear Nate (DN) and to spend some time with him. He is a great son-in-law and I much appreciated that he drove me to BWI in a sleet storm without so much as a grimace/eye roll.

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It is always nice to get back home though, right? The OM had not burned the house down, but he had put the trash out two days early.

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Home again, home again, jiggety jig

I am home after a lovely five-day visit to Virginia with some of my favorite people.

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I’ll have pictures tomorrow. First I have to recover from my 5 hour delay at BWI following a trip to the airport in a sleet storm. Oh brother. Modern travel. C’est la vie. I’m home in flyover country. Thanks be to God.