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Month: December, 2016

What are you reading?

by chuckofish

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“It saved me from ennui,” he answered, yawning. “Alas! I already feel it closing in upon me. My life is spent in one long effort to escape from the common-places of existence. These little problems help me to do so.”

“And you are a beneficiary of the races,” said I.

He shrugged his shoulders. “Well, perhaps, after all, it is of some little use,” he remarked. “‘L’homme, c’est rien–l’oeuvre c’est tout.’ as Gustave Flaubert wrote to Georges Sand.”

–Sherlock Holmes in The Red-Headed League

In casting about for something to read last week, I plucked The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle off a shelf at home. It was a 1930 edition which had belonged to my father. The name inscribed on the frontispiece was in my father’s adult hand, but judging from the words that are underlined throughout the book, he must have read it as an eight-year-old. It adds a certain je ne sais quoi to the experience, imagining little Newell looking up the words amiable and succinct.

Funnily enough, I have never before read any stories in the Holmes oeuvre. Of course, I am well versed in the Basil Rathbone film series

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and I have seen one of the Robert Downey, Jr.’s movies.

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My DP even gave me a boxed set of the British tv series from the 1950s starring Leslie Howard’s son Ronald Howard as the famous sleuth.

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But until now, I do not recall having delved into the original Doyle stories. Let me tell you, they are really good! Holmes is a wonderful character, always observing and thinking and deducing. And the stories are well-written, concise and light-hearted.

They are a wonderful distraction from the worries of the world. I highly recommend them.

“I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go, and I will bring you back to this land. I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.”*

by chuckofish

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We were thrown for a loop when daughter #3 was checked into the hospital last Wednesday and then again when she was moved to a bigger hospital with a super-duper micro-preemie unit the next day. We thought she would just be on “bed-rest” for the duration of her high-risk pregnancy, but she delivered the twins on Sunday.

They are tiny, tiny, but breathing on their own. Please pray hard for our little boy and little girl.

Many years ago my spiritual director taught me a prayer for those times words escape you:

Jesus, [insert name], Jesus.

I have used it a lot.

*Genesis 28:15

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You better watch out, you better not cry…

by chuckofish

Yep, Santa is coming to town soon, and I don’t know about you, but I’m not even close to being ready. We are making progress, however. The decorations are out and the lights are up. My DH even bought new solar-powered lights to go on our cherry tree.

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Yes, Christmas is coming and the seasonal festivities are well underway. It’s going to be a busy weekend. Today, we plan to get our Christmas tree up, if not decorated, and tonight I’m going to a wine tasting party with some lady-friends. Picture me thus:

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Tomorrow we’ll attend our church Christmas pageant followed by a potluck lunch. A few years ago the children at church made a Christmas movie that I posted here. If you need a chuckle, it’s definitely worth another view.

After those festivities, we’re off to our cottage to do battle with a squirrel that has decided that a warm, cozy interior is preferable to his cold, snowy natural habitat. Nasty rodent! And I thought mice were bad. When I called the local pest control outfit, a bored gentleman told me that they don’t deal with squirrels after December 1st, because the trap triggers freeze and won’t work. Alarmed, I asked about other solutions, but he just declared laconically that he’d call back in the spring. Great, just great. When I asked around at work, a colleague smirked that I could learn to make squirrel stew. I know to whom I’d like to feed it.

Look at me. I started out this post full of Christmas spirit and ended up feeling like the Grinch. What can I say? That’s been the pattern lately. I guess I’m feeling more “Scrouged” and “Christmas with the Kranks” than “It’s a Wonderful Life” or “Miracle on 34th Street”. I blame it on politics. How about you?

Let’s not let the rodents get us down! After all, it’s Christmas!

Fat Baby Friday

by chuckofish

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For Fat Baby Friday we have a photo of our mother and her adorable older sister Susanne circa 1927. You have to admit the look on that baby’s face is pretty priceless. I mean–the disdainful side-eye at such an early age!

Well, it is Friday at last! Here are a few things from around the internet that made me smile.

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Here’s The NY Times’ lists of the Best of 2016. Not surprisingly, I have seen and/or heard practically NONE of their choices. (Points to them for including The Detectorists.) Ha ha. On that note…

Since Victor McLaglen’s birthday (1886 – 1959) is tomorrow, I suggest choosing one of his many great films to watch.

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How can you go wrong?

Have a great weekend. Only 22 days ’til the end of 2016.

Outside the snow is falling and friends are calling, “Yoo hoo”

by chuckofish

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How’s the Christmas shopping coming? Got those Christmas cards addressed?

Me neither.

But take heart. You know everything will come together and all will be well by Christmas.

Need a great gift idea? Here’s one from Mockingbird:

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or this:

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Who knew there was such a market for Episcopalian swag?

But let’s try to regain our perspective. Seriously, this woman was the real deal! She didn’t need a t-shirt to validate her way of life.

Hang in there.

(The t-shirts are available here.)

Awakening a sleeping giant

by chuckofish

Today is the 75 anniversary of the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor, that “date that will live in infamy.”

At 7:55 a.m. Hawaii time, a Japanese dive bomber bearing the red symbol of the Rising Sun of Japan on its wings appeared out of the clouds above the island of Oahu. A swarm of 360 Japanese warplanes followed, descending on the U.S. naval base at Pearl Harbor in a ferocious assault. The surprise attack struck a critical blow against the U.S. Pacific fleet and drew the United States irrevocably into WWII. (History.com)

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The battleships West Virginia and Tennessee burning

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Here are more pictures.

Our parents were, of course, deeply affected by this horrific attack. Our mother was 15 and in high school. She never quite forgave the Japanese for their part in this event and she would be shocked, I know, that we own a Japanese car. Our 19-year-old father dropped out of college and joined the army just like scores of other young men.

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ANC III in 1942, Miami Beach

He served throughout the war. I have no doubt that my 41-year old grandfather Bunker would have joined up if the powers that be had let him. Our other grandfather, the newspaper man, spent a good part of the war in London during the Blitz. (My DP probably knows more about what he was actually doing there.)

It was a long and traumatizing war that left its mark on several generations of Americans. Everyone I knew growing up had a father in the war (and a few mothers). As small children we would proudly compare branches of the service in which our fathers served. And, of course, we watched Combat! on television with a certain amount of sophistication.

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My favorite character was PFC Kirby who carried the BAR. Yes, I was seven.

Today TCM is honoring the anniversary with a 24-hour tribute. I plan to watch Tora! Tora! Tora! (1970), which I saw with my father when it was first released.

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He, of course, found many mistakes in the film, as he always did, but he enjoyed it nonetheless. Among its stars is Jason Robards, who was a radioman, 3rd class, on the USS Northampton, which was about 100 miles off Hawaii at the time of the attack.

TCM is also showing They Were Expendable (1945) starring John Wayne, Donna Reed and Robert Montgomery, which is about American PT Boats (“those high powered canoes”) defending the Philippines in World War II. Directed by “John Ford, Captain U.S.N.R.”, it is blatantly propagandistic, but who cares?

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This film is also noteworthy because John Wayne uncharacteristically wears a baseball cap through most of it (and he looks adorable.)

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So pick a movie and toast the brave men and women who fought and died on December 7, 1941 and toast again for the rest who joined up shortly after.

An honor just to have them on your shelves

by chuckofish

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Books are to read, but that is by no means the end of it.

The way they are bound, the paper they are printed on, the smell of them (especially if they are either very new or very old), the way the words are fitted to the page, the look of them in the bookcase — sometimes lined up straight as West Point cadets, sometimes leaning against each other for support or lying flat so you have to tip your head sideways to see them properly. Bede’s Ecclesiastical History of the English Nation, the plays of Beaumont and Fletcher, the Pleiade edition of Saint Simon, Chesterfield’s letters, the Qur’an. Even though you suspect you will probably never get around to them, it is an honor just to have them on your shelves.

Something of what they contains gets into the air you breathe. They are like money in the bank, which is a comfort even though you never spend it. They are prepared to give you all they’ve got at a moment’s notice, but are in no special hurry about it. In the meanwhile they are holding their tongues, even the most loquacious of them, even the most passionate.

They are giving you their eloquent and inexhaustible silence. They are giving you time to find your way to them. Maybe they are giving you time, with or without them, just to find your way.

–Frederick Buechner

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And isn’t Dolly wonderful?

Look toward the east, O Jerusalem*

by chuckofish

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Call him a stick-in-the-mud, a dinosaur, a fusty throwback, but indeed, jumping into the fray the day after Halloween was akin to hitting, and holding, high C for a couple of months, while a bit of patience saved Christmas for Christmas morning and kept the holy day fresh and new.

I re-read Shepherds Abiding by Jan Karon over the weekend and enjoyed it thoroughly. Although I agree with Father Tim about getting ahead of ourselves in regards to the Christmas season, we did go ahead as usual and buy our trees. They’re not up yet–they’re in the garage for now. I’ll try to get the little one up in the dining room this week, but I’m not going to stress about it. At least I don’t have a bad cat to deal with like the boy does.

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In between getting organized for Christmas, doing laundry and sundry household tasks, and going to a baby shower for daughter #3,

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I watched Donovan’s Reef (1963)–a film which the New York Times described at the time as “sheer contrivance effected in hearty, fun-loving, truly infectious style.” I would agree with that assessment whole-heartedly.

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It takes place at Christmas and includes an amusing Polynesian Christmas pageant, so I count it as a Christmas movie.

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Directed by John Ford and starring John Wayne and Lee Marvin, it is heavy-handed in the Irish humor department, but if you’re in the right mood, it can really hit the spot. (Shot in Hawaii, the scenery is beautiful as well.) I was in the mood.

I also went to our Advent Service of Lessons and Carols on Sunday night at church. I read lesson five, from Baruch:

Look toward the east, O Jerusalem, and see the joy that is coming to you from God…

We sang quite a few of my favorite Advent hymns and the choir sang and the bell choir played. Then I went home and ate chili, which the OM had made, and we watched Gregory Peck as King David in the technicolor extravaganza David and Bathsheba (1951).

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Despite GP’s awesome presence, it was pretty bad and not surprisingly, as it is based on one of the Bible’s more sordid stories.

So back to Christmas movies already.

*Baruch 4:36

Angels from the realms of glory

by chuckofish

As everyone is acutely aware, it’s gift-giving season. I don’t know about you but I always find it a little stressful finding the right gifts. My DH rolls his eyes when I mention this and invariably reminds me that he  has to buy me two sets of presents, since I have a December birthday. Poor, overburdened man. As a child, I always loved my birthday because it falls on the festive side of Christmas, when everyone is excited and there are lots of things going on. For obvious reasons, however, I did not have a lot of birthday parties.

Nevertheless, when my mother decided to throw a party, she went all out. At my second (and final) birthday party (was it fourth grade?), she made Christmas stockings for everyone to decorate — it was, according to one attendee, the best party ever. There were gifts, of course, but I only remember one of them. It wasn’t a toy or a book; it was a Christmas ornament, and the girl who brought it was embarrassed to give it. Apparently, her mother forgot about the party and just grabbed a new ornament on the way out of the house. I didn’t care, because her present turned out to be a beautiful angel with a red velvet robe and gold foil wings. The angel became my favorite party gift and I still have her.

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She seemed divinely beautiful and every year I insisted on hanging her on the tree myself. Nor would I allow her to be packed away with the rest of the ornaments. Indeed, I still follow those rules today. Call me weird, but what can I say? This little angel is special. I bet the person who gave her to me doesn’t even remember the party, let alone the gift. Life is funny that way, isn’t it?

Don’t stress about finding that one right present or think you have to spend a lot of money. And never apologize that your gift is not good enough, for sometimes the least of things makes the greatest impact.

I leave you with Christina Rossetti’s wonderful hymn. Pay particular attention to the last verse.

 

 

Father of minutes, Father of days*

by chuckofish

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Well, the weekend is upon us. Sigh. I intend to check out our Grace Church Holiday Sale, go to a baby shower for daughter #3, and attend our Advent Lessons and Carols service. Maybe I will convince the OM to go with me to buy our Christmas trees…

In between the aforementioned fun activities, I plan to start watching Christmas movies. You know:

Miracle on 34th Street (1947)

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The Bishop’s Wife (1947)

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or maybe Edward Scissorhands (1990)

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There are so many to choose from! Meanwhile, maybe I’ll get started on those Christmas cards!

BTW, don’t forget to set your DVR this month, because TCM is, of course, showing a lot of Christmas classics! Here’s the schedule.

And this Instagram made me laugh:

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Enjoy your weekend!