‘If Candlemas be bright and clear There’ll be two winters in that year’*
by chuckofish
It rained all day Saturday, so I stayed home and puttered around the house. I would probably not have ventured out at all, but the old man and I had tickets to attend the “Elegant Italian Dinner” at our church.
Every year the youth of the parish (and their parents) put on this dinner to raise money for their annual spring mission trip. Frighteningly, this was the nineteenth such dinner. All three of my children participated in this dinner and so did I–usually in the kitchen, serving up the plates and washing dishes.
So now it is nice to go and sit at a table with friends and be on the receiving end.
It is always the same menu: salad and lasagna and Italian bread with some fancy desserts thrown in. “Elegant” means they use real china and hang up some strings of twinkly white lights in Albright Hall. There are checkered tableclothes and candles in chianti bottles. You get the picture. The teenage waiters wear white shirts, black pants and bow ties. Oh my.
Everyone goes home at 9 o’clock. And, thank you, I would rather attend this function than any society ball or self-aggrandizing academic ceremony you can name.
On Sunday we watched the Super Bowl with some other like-minded, football-indifferent friends. I rooted for Peyton Manning and his Broncos, but was uninvested really in the outcome. (Ever since the Rams lost that heart-breaker in Super Bowl XXXVI and Kurt Warner moved to Phoenix, I haven’t cared much about football.) It was a major bummer, nevertheless, that Peyton’s team lost and lost Big Time, but oh well. It is just football. We enjoyed seeing our hometown Clydesdales in the latest AB commercial. However, my favorite (besides the Oikos Full House reunion) was the Go Daddy commercial with the running bodybuilders.
Now our local weather wizards are saying we’ll have more snow this week. But Candlemas was dark and dreary, so I hope that means that we will NOT have two winters. However, I see that Punxsutawney Phil predicted six more weeks of winter, much to the chagrin of everyone hoping for an early spring. Conflicting superstitions. C’est la vie.
How was your weekend?
* Charles Causley



Your church dinner looks really lovely! I love the lights and tablecloths, and the great pic of Paul….but is that a crucifix on the wall (shock, horror) or just a large cross?
…I don’t mean to be snarky.
I think it is! Must be something new–a gift no doubt from some anglo-catholic–I try not to sweat the small stuff.
May the dark and dreary Candlemas prediction rule! Enough is enough. It’s dark and rainy today in “Hotlanta” but temp is much warmer than last week and don’t think more snow is in the forecast…come on down!
#Hotlanta!
Our weekend was nice. The in-laws took a weekend trip to Texas to visit their daughter #2 so we watched their lovely dog for a couple of days. Oonagh was none-too-pleased. I wen’t out with some pals on Saturday and had a rollicking-good time. And for the first time in years, we didn’t do anything special at all for the Super Bowl. I knew that by rooting for Peyton I would be a huge jinx. Dangit.
Well, you had a good weekend despite the disastrous game. I knew you would hate the Seahawks and their posturing. Have a great week on the new job!
It really does look quite elegant! And I totally have a soft spot for wine-bottles-as-candle-sticks.
It was so “Lady and the Tramp”!
I knew as soon as I instagrammed in a orange and referenced rooting for Peyton, it was over. Oh well. At least the game was over at 10p and I got home by 11. #oldlady
I know, me too. #Boohoo
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