dual personalities

Month: December, 2013

Let’s face it, most of us are scoffers. But moments before zero hour, it did not pay to take chances.*

by chuckofish

It’s that time of year when I get out the “Visit to Santa” photos. They are pretty special. There is undoubtedly a blog or Tumblr somewhere entitled “Unfortunate Visits to Santa” or “Ugly Children Visit Santa”. Here are a few classics from our family.

Oy Vey, Santa had a bad night before this dual personality’s visit:

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Only a toddler husband could count what he wanted on his fingers!

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Even Santa thought daughter #1 was ADORable!

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The next year, the same Santa thought daughter #1’s new brother was pretty cute too.

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When her mother finally took this neglected third child to see Santa, she didn’t notice there was a giant hole in her red tights! So sad…

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*Anyway, these pictures remind me that it is probably time to watch one of our favorite Christmas movies: A Christmas Story (1983)–Bob Clark’s hilarious re-telling of Jean Shepherd’s story “In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash”.

Bumpuses!! Have a great weekend! Only 19 days ’til Christmas!

That’ll be the day!

by chuckofish

Last weekend I ended up watching three of my all-time favorite movies: Breakfast at Tiffany’s, The Searchers and The Wizard of Oz. All three should have won Best Picture Oscars, but, of course, none of them did. For me, Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1962) and The Wizard of Oz (1939) are perfect movies. I wouldn’t change a thing about either of them.

The Searchers (1956) is a great, great movie, but it is not perfect. It is arguably the pinnacle of the John Wayne-John Ford collaboration and is considered one of the greatest Westerns ever made. I watched it on TCM as part of their “Essentials” series, introduced by Robert Osborne and Drew Barrymore. I was curious to hear what they had to say. Robert Osborne, who has the best job in the world, can be quite a dolt, and he certainly was this time around.

Permit me now a little rant. Osborne said he preferred John Ford’s black and white films shot in Monument Valley. The technicolor photography of The Searchers was “lurid”. This is comparing apples and oranges. I love the black and white westerns as well, but The Searchers is a whole different scale and category. It is an epic. To give Drew credit, she said she felt like she was watching a work of art, and for once I agreed with her.

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Osborne said a lot of other stupid things, but the most egregious comment was stating that John Wayne is at his most “Duke-ish” in this movie. John Wayne is not the Duke in this movie. He is a bitter war veteran who is eaten up with hate. The woman he loves has been savagely murdered by Indians along with her husband and son. He is heart-broken and angry and hell-bent on vengeance. Is this the Duke? Hardly. (As the boy explained, “The Duke is The Fighting Seabees.”)

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No, John Wayne is acting in this movie and he is great. He should have won an Oscar for this movie. But, of course, Robert Osborne and Drew Barrymore never mention Wayne’s acting or anyone else’s for that matter. It is as if they do not expect there to be acting in a Western–there is only action, right? He did mention that for once Jeffrey Hunter had a better part than usual, but no credit was given to John Wayne.

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As I said before, this is a flawed film. The great John Ford seems uneasy with the serious subject matter and he undermines Wayne’s great performance by frequently cutting from a dramatic scene to a haw-haw “my fi-an-cy” scene in an irritating way. Even at the denouement of the movie when Wayne’s character finally confronts his long-lost niece, Ford cuts immediately to Ward Bond with his pants down. Why does he do this? It is perplexing. It is, indeed, almost like two films: the one with John Wayne out on the trail and the one with the people back at home. When the two intersect, it is problematic.

But still, John Wayne is at his graceful best: throwing his hat, gesticulating and waving, galloping and shooting, and spitting out lines like,

“Well, Reverend, that tears it! From now on, you stay out of this. All of ya. I don’t want you with me. I don’t need ya for what I got to do..”

and

“What do you want me to do? Draw you a picture? Spell it out? Don’t ever ask me! Long as you live, don’t ever ask me more.”

He does it all like no one before or since. He can tell you how he feels by moving one muscle in his face. I have heard that the Duke himself considered this his greatest role and his own favorite movie. Of course he did.

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What do you seek so pensive and silent?* What are you reading?

by chuckofish

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I have been all over the board (and map) recently with my reading choices. I read a good mystery by James Lee Burke, In the Electric Mist with Confederate Dead. I like the detective Dave Robicheaux and the author knows what he is writing about. The characters are not wooden and/or cardboard and the locale is detailed and real. A lot of bad things happen, however, and so I probably will not be in a hurry to read more, but if you like good, well-written mysteries, here you go.

From the low life in Louisiana I headed to lovely Botswana and the fourteenth entry in the #1 Ladies Detective series by Alexander McCall Smith. As I have said before, there is certainly not a lot to these novels. Nothing much happens and some of the characters are downright annoying, but when I am in the right mood, I don’t care. I like Precious Romotswe and her little white van. The author skillfully weaves a gentle tale of friendship and family. We are reminded that people are the same everywhere and the important things in life do not change. It is good to be reminded of this.

From there I moved on to the wonderful Marilynne Robinson and her engagingly titled book of essays When I Was a Child I Read Books. I can relate to that. I love everything Marilynne has ever published–and sadly that is not a whole lot–but she is one of those people who, if I ever met her and tried to have a conversation with her, I would feel like this:

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She just knows so much and is so articulate. But she is on my page. She looks at history in context. She likes to give credit where it is due. She questions arrogant scientists. She is a Calvinist. I highly recommend her, if you are up to it.

Now I am back to the what-to-read-next question. What are you reading?

*Old Walt Whitman

“…Do you think she’s talented, deeply and importantly talented?”

by chuckofish

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Daughter #2 breezed into town last Tuesday and we had a wonderful time together. We shopped “small” in Kirkwood. We tried a trendy new restaurant in a converted gas station in a hipster south STL neighborhood. The food was amazing.

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We caught up with her old buddy who came over for dinner. (Daughter #2 cooked.)

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Edwina works for Anheuser-Busch–have Bud will travel.

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We over-ate at the boy’s house with his in-laws on Thanksgiving and then watched Planes, Trains and Automobiles together. This picture really says it all.

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We watched one of our favorite movies together. Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Perfect.

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And then it was time for her to return to Maryland.

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Will I ever learn to take these farewells in stride? I doubt it.

You know what time it is

by chuckofish

You know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake up from sleep. For salvation is nearer to us now than when we became believers; the night is far gone, the day is near. Let us then lay aside the works of darkness and put on the armor of light; let us live honorably as in the day, not in reveling and drunkenness, not in debauchery and licentiousness, not in quarreling and jealousy. Instead, put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

Romans 13: 11–14

Well, this reading from Sunday morning seems like a timely scripture for this Advent when the country goes en masse on a month-long frenzy of spending and partying which has nothing to do with the real “reason for the season”. I don’t know about you but I’m taping this one to the mirror.

I went to church twice this Sunday, because we had the annual Lessons and Carols service at Grace in the early evening. I got to be one of the readers and read the third lesson. This still makes me so happy. It doesn’t take much, right?

In other news, the boy came over and put up our lights.

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Not a great iPhone picture, but you get the idea.

Not a great iPhone picture, but you get the idea.

Don’t they look beautiful?

I also got out a lot of Christmas decorations this weekend. And I put away a lot of stuff to make room for the Christmas decorations. I set up my mantle.

Come, thou long-expected Jesus, born to set thy people free;
from our fears and sin release us, let us find our rest in thee.

Let us live honorably.

Deck the halls and shoot the pumpkins

by chuckofish

We had a busy Saturday. I got up and made cookies — our favorites, Oatmeal Scotchies. Yum!

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Then we gathered these and some clementines and went off to church to help with “the greening”, i.e. decorating for Christmas. It was a lot of fun. There was quite a crowd and all the cookies got gobbled up. Here, husband, son, and friend festoon the altar.

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The sanctuary looks nice, don’t you think?

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After that, for a wild change of pace, we loaded up the car with our three pumpkins and several gourds and drove out the the camp to shoot ’em up. Alas, I forgot the camera so you will just have to use your imaginations. Suffice it to say that frozen pumpkins are very fun to shoot. And did I mention that we have snow? The trees looked more or less like this

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but with a little less snow. Once we were well and truly cold and the pumpkins well and truly shot up, we came home to a richly deserved glass of sherry and a dinner of turkey/onion/mushroom/cheese quesadillas. Contentment all around.

And now I’ve got to hit the road to take boy #3 back to college for the final weeks of the semester. As we all get super busy heading toward Christmas just remember to enjoy it — it’s all a gift!