dual personalities

Month: September, 2013

Bonne Anniversaire to us

by chuckofish

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Today is the second anniversary of our Dual Personalities blog! This is our 643rd post! Yay, us! Last year at this time we had 34 followers. Now we have 140! We are truly shrimps in the greater blogosphere, but we’re happy.

As you know, there is much in the modern post-modern world that drives me crazy, but I do like blogs. It is nice to know that Mrs. Blandings is out there in Kansas City and Amanda Blake Soule up in Maine. It is great to hear what’s up with Meg Frazier Fielding in Baltimore and Jenny Komenda out in Arizona. And of course I love to hear from daughter #1 in NYC and daughter #2 in Maryland. I do so look forward to hearing from all of them. So I hope we are not being immodest in thinking that we add our little light to the sum of light in the blog world.

Dancing With the Stars is back!

by chuckofish

“The desires of the heart are as crooked as corkscrews
Not to be born is the best for man
The second best is a formal order
The dance’s pattern, dance while you can.
Dance, dance, for the figure is easy
The tune is catching and will not stop
Dance till the stars come down from the rafters
Dance, dance, dance till you drop.”

― W.H. Auden

I watched DWTS last night.

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No one grabbed me like last season. And I thought the judges were way harsh with Bill Nye the Science Guy. We’ll have to wait and see who tickles my fancy next week. What did you think?

Weekend update

by chuckofish

Oh fall weekends! The heat finally broke here last Thursday and the temperatures plunged to where they really should be. Sweet relief.

On Saturday I decided to throw away my list of estate sales and instead I walked downtown to view our flyover town’s annual Greentree Parade. (Please forgive my iPhone pictures!)

Motorcycle cops showing off skillfully driving in circles opened up the parade.

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They were followed by the High School band and cheerleaders,

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motley groups of scouts,

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local vendors,

Yes, that's a giant bison he's pulling!

Yes, that’s a giant bison he’s pulling!

bagpipers,

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a giant motorized shopping cart,

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and various groups of equestrians,

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In addition, of course, the elementary schools and middle schools in town all had floats. A lot of churches also participated as well. The Methodist church always has the best entry and this year was no different with their own super-cool rockin’ Christian band blasting their live music.

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Seriously, I always want to join their church after seeing them rock by. But my own Grace Church tries so hard—you have to love them despite the fact that they might as well hang a banner that says, “Yes, we’re Episcopalian nerds–join us!” We had music too, but we piped in hymns like “Let Us Gather at the River,” because we always stick to the yearly theme—this year it was “The Wild, wild West”. At least for our trouble we were awarded 1st place in the category of theme interpretation!

I took this picture on Sunday morning outside our church where it was proudly parked.

I took this picture on Sunday morning outside our church where it was proudly parked.

I did not take a picture of our float at the parade because I was so distracted by this friendly Episcopalian who was trotting around very much in character (“Howdy, Ma’am”).

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(I found this better picture–with cacti–on our church website)

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He handed out these invitations.

Real wooden crosses handmade in Bethlehem!

Real wooden crosses handmade in Bethlehem!

We may be a small congregation, but we are always classy! (No candy or dog treats for us.)

As if all this local excitement wasn’t enough, the boy and his bride invited us to go to the Cardinals game with them that evening.

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Our seats were in the seventh row behind the home dugout–how perfect is that? Besides seeing the game at a great vantage point and the players up close and personal, we had many opportunities to see this guy.

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Fred Bird never ceases to amuse and entertain me.

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We may have lost the game, but the day was spectacular. God bless America!

Let us celebrate the occasion with wine and sweet words

by chuckofish

Number 2 son turned 21 on Thursday this week, the day after his cousin Mary’s birthday. We celebrated by taking him to dinner at our wonderful local restaurant, the 1844 House. And, of course, I made him “Sarah’s special cake” too.

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He’s a senior in college now, but not so (very) long ago he was just a happy little guy.

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He’s always been cool as a rock star

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or an Aussie commando,

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and wild as a turbaned warrior,

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but he’ll always be my ‘little heart thob’

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Happy Birthday, Chris!

Another Friday the 13th

by chuckofish

It is a commonly held superstition that Friday the 13th is an unlucky day.

According to Wikipedia, the number twelve, in numerology, is considered the number of completeness, as reflected in the twelve months of the year, twelve hours of the clock, twelve gods of Olympus, twelve tribes of Israel, twelve Apostles of Jesus, the 12 successors of Muhammad in Shia Islam, twelve signs of the Zodiac, etc., whereas the number thirteen is considered irregular, transgressing this completeness. There is also a superstition, thought by some to derive from the Last Supper or a Norse myth, that having thirteen people seated at a table results in the death of one of the diners.

Friday has been considered an unlucky day at least since the 14th century’s The Canterbury Tales, and many have regarded Friday as an unlucky day to undertake journeys or begin new projects. Friday is also the day when Jesus Christ was crucified, adding to its unpopularity.

Well, you may be thinking that I am going to pick a movie from the Friday the Thirteenth film franchise (there are 12) to watch tonight, but I have not seen any of them. Horror movies are not my bag. I saw Halloween once on TV. Please. I recently saw Psycho (1960) and, despite the actors’ best efforts, it was really very silly.

The best scary movies are the ones that could actually really happen–like Jaws (1975) or Rear Window (1954). But I have to admit that I like the early M. Night Shyamalan movies, especially The Sixth Sense (1999) and Signs (2002). They kept me guessing and were very creepy when I first saw them. I even liked Lady in the Water (2006) which features a favorite actor of mine, Paul Giamatti. The horror in these movies is all based on the personal heartbreak and loss experienced by the hero in each story. The story lines may be far-fetched, but the human loss is real and relatable.

I think I’ll watch Signs tonight.

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So, Merrill… swing away.

A caged bird sings

by chuckofish

Clasped Hands of Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning by Harriet Goodhue Hosmer

Clasped Hands of Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning by Harriet Goodhue Hosmer

On this day in 1846 Elizabeth Barrett Browning and Robert Browning eloped! You know the famous story of their love. Six years her junior, the poet Robert Browning exchanged 574 letters with Elizabeth Barrett over a twenty-month period. Immortalized in the 1930 play The Barretts of Wimpole Street, by Rudolf Besier, their romance was bitterly opposed by her father, who did not want any of his children to marry. After they married, her father never spoke to her again. Gee whiz.

Anyway, she was a darn good poet, mostly known today for her famous How Do I Love Thee sonnet. But she wrote a lot more than that. Here is the beginning of Aurora Leigh (1850) and a link so you can read the whole thing.

OF writing many books there is no end;
And I who have written much in prose and verse
For others’ uses, will write now for mine,–
Will write my story for my better self,
As when you paint your portrait for a friend,
Who keeps it in a drawer and looks at it
Long after he has ceased to love you, just
To hold together what he was and is.

You can read the rest here.

And if you feel like it, you can watch either of the film versions of the famous play:

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or

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(They are both pretty good. I prefer John Gielgud (in anything) to Charles Laughton, but I was never a big fan of Jennifer Jones.)

Mary, Mary

by chuckofish

It is daughter #1’s birthday today. I wish I could teleport to the Upper West Side and take her out to lunch. Sigh.

More than gems in my comb box
shaped by the God of the Sea,
I prize you, my daughter

–Otomo no Sakanoue Iratsume, eighth-century Japanese poet

Happy Birthday!

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Worthy of consideration

by chuckofish

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“Every man is more than just himself; he also represents the unique, the very special and always significant and remarkable point at which the world’s phenomena intersect, only once in this way, and never again. That is why every man’s story is important, eternal, sacred; that is why every man, as long as he lives and fulfills the will of nature, is wondrous, and worthy of consideration. In each individual the spirit has become flesh, in each man the creation suffers, within each one a redeemer is nailed to the cross.”

–Hermann Hesse

Darlin’, pardon me

by chuckofish

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This picture was taken over 10 years ago backstage at the high school during the production of Girl Crazy. The boy is in the middle flanked by his two best friends. He was in 10th grade in his long flowing hair phase. He and two upperclassmen (not pictured) were the “cowboy trio” who got to sing “I’m Bidin’ My Time” at various times during the musical. They were adorable.

This is the time period when some people got the idea that the boy looked like Andy Samberg.

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I can see it. But it drove the boy crazy.

People do this all the time. Sometimes they are on target; sometimes not so much. Something strikes them as similar. People are always looking for a connection, aren’t they? I wonder why that is?

I do it myself. People frequently remind me of my father and also my father-in-law. The classic example of this is Grumpy Old Men (1993), starring Jack Lemmon (my father) and Walter Matthau (my father-in-law).

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Jack Lemmon IS my father–the fair-haired skinny wasp in khaki pants right down to the Brooks Brothers porkpie hat. I think he even says, “GodDAMit!”. And Walter Matthau is Bob. They were the quintessential grumpy old men in real life–how wonderful that they made a movie about them.

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And a sequel.

As for why we do this, I guess it gives us comfort and makes the world less strange and intimidating. Makes sense to me.

All my heroes stand up straight*

by chuckofish

I had a good day yesterday. I stayed home to work, which means that I got plenty of other things done, but very little work. For example, I went to the dentist, the farmer’s market, the post office, grocery store, and liquor store (you can’t buy wine at the grocery store in this state), and worked on packing up extra china and cleaning son #3’s room, a task that gives new meaning to the term “Herculean.” I also got to listen to my new Gregory Alan Isakov CD — it’s just wonderful. Listen to “Second Chances”

and “Time will Tell”.

See, I told you he was great. Now go buy it — my dual personality already has.

Last night I watched “Everything is Illuminated” and I really liked it. It’s quirky in the right way but also made me cry. The music was perfect as were the actors, especially the grandfather and Alex, who is played by the lead singer of the strange, but occasionally wonderful, gypsy punk band, Gogol Bordello. The film is about odd and emotionally stunted Elijah Wood and his journey to the Ukraine to discover what happened to his grandfather during WWII. According to IMDB, it was filmed in the Ukraine and the Czech Republic — both of which have beautiful scenery as well as plenty of evidence of their violent pasts. And who knew that Liev Shreiber could write (screenplay from novel) and direct?

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Earlier in the week I watched a quirky Indie film on Netflix called “the Giant Mechanical Man” that I also liked a lot (yes, that’s 2 quirky movies in one week!). Although it was very “Indie”, it was also charming and kind of sad. Well worth a viewing.

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This post would not be complete without a book recommendation. In honor of recently departed Seamus Heaney, I’m reminding you all of his peerless translation of Beowulf. If you don’t have it handy, you can listen to him read it:

Beowulf is one of my favorites and every time I read it I get something new out of it.

So those are my recommendations for you this weekend. Take a listen or a look and let me know what you think!

*a line from “Second Chances”