dual personalities

Month: August, 2012

Fat Baby Friday: swimsuit edition

by chuckofish

Better than Sports Illustrated! Here are a couple of beautiful, chubby babies to lift your spirits and get you ready for the long weekend ahead. Let’s go twisting by the pool: “You’re gonna look so cute,
Sunglasses, Bathing suit…”

And aprés le swim, a little sunbathing.

I particularly like the casual hand on knee pose and curly toes in both pictures. And I can’t lie, the adorable chubbiness.

But let’s not forget the boys! Here’s a slightly risqué pic of my middle son enjoying a trip to the pool in his birthday suit. The quintessential fat baby…

Isn’t the expression on his doting father’s face priceless? And what about the sad, contemplative, or dozing brother in the background? Anyone for a pool party?

Comfort food for the soul

by chuckofish

It’s been a stressful summer. One way I have dealt with it is by re-reading some of my old favorites. Right now I am reading Out to Canaan, 4th in Jan Karon’s Mitford series, having just read These High Green Hills (#3).

These books are not for everyone (although they have been perennial bestsellers), but for me, these simple stories of the adventures of an Episcopal priest in a small town in North Carolina peopled by wonderful and endearing characters, are the only kind of fantasy I enjoy.

They had a good life in Mitford, no doubt about it. Visitors were often amazed at its seeming charm and simplicity, wanting it for themselves, seeing in it, perhaps the life they’d once had, or had missed entirely.

Yet there were Mitfords everywhere. He’d lived in them, preached in them, they were still out there, away from the fray, still containing something of innocence and dreaming, something of the past that other towns had freely let go, or allowed to be taken from them.

The books are also very funny, sometimes laugh-out-loud funny. And they are filled with the Holy Spirit. Yes, and Karon quotes the likes of Bonhoeffer and Pascal and Wordsworth (freely)–all right up my alley.

I also enjoy the #1 Ladies Detective Agency series by Alexander McCall Smith about a wonderful lady detective in Botswana. These books, like the Mitford books, seemingly simple and straightforward, are full of truth.

The world, Mma Ramotswe believed, was composed of big things and small things. The big things were written large, and one could not but be aware of them–wars, oppression, the familiar theft by the rich and the strong of those simple things that the poor needed, those scraps which could make even the reading of a newspaper an exercise in sorrow. There were all those unkindnesses, palpable, daily, so easily avoidable; but one could not think of those, thought Mma Ramotswe, or one would spend one’s time in tears–and the unkindnesses would continue. So the small things came into their own: small acts of helping others, if one could; small ways of making one’s own little life better: acts of love, acts of tea, acts of laughter. Clever people might laugh at such simplicity, but, she asked herself, what was their solution?

And, as you know, when in doubt, it’s always a good time to re-read Raymond Chandler. But, look, someone seems to have “borrowed” my Chandler volume 1. (Ahem.)

What do you read for comfort?

Though he with giants fight

by chuckofish

John Bunyan (28 November 1628 – 31 August 1688) was, of course, an English Christian writer and preacher, who is well known for his wonderful book The Pilgrim’s Progress. Though he was a Reformed Baptist, he is remembered in the Church of England with a Lesser Festival on August 30, and on the liturgical calendar of the Episcopal Church (US) on August 29.

I have mentioned before that we had a daily chapel service at the private school I attended. I remember our English headmaster telling us that the hymn “He Who Would Valiant Be” was a favorite (if not the favorite) hymn of Winston Churchill. That struck me as significant and I paid close attention to the words.

He Who Would Valiant Be Hymn

He who would valiant be ’gainst all disaster,
Let him in constancy follow the Master.
There’s no discouragement shall make him once relent
His first avowed intent to be a pilgrim.

Who so beset him round with dismal stories
Do but themselves confound – his strength the more is.
No foes shall stay his might; though he with giants fight,
He will make good his right to be a pilgrim.

Since, Lord, Thou dost defend us with Thy Spirit,
We know we at the end, shall life inherit.
Then fancies flee away! I’ll fear not what men say,
I’ll labor night and day to be a pilgrim.

I tried to find a Youtube video of the hymn, but they all featured the wrong tune (Monk’s Gate). Here is one that at least plays the St. Dunstan’s tune, so you can sing along!

If you wait long enough

by chuckofish

Back in the sixties and into the seventies our mother was inclined to wear blouses with peter pan collars. Just like everyone else.

I wore them myself. Here I am in the eighth grade wearing the very popular shirtwaist dress from Ladybug with tucks and a peter pan collar.

The peter pan collars that my mother wore were from the Tog Shop catalog and had piping of a contrasting color and were frequently monogrammed with her initials. She wore these most often with a wrap-around style skirt that matched the piping on the blouse. It was almost a uniform. I always said, I couldn’t wait to grow up and wear those blouses.

Unfortunately, they were completely out of style and long-gone by the time I entered my middle years.

But wait. Can it be that Kate Spade has brought them back? Zut alors!

What do you know? They are everywhere!

I guess it’s official. The peter pan collar has made a comeback.

And I want.

(Photos from Kate Spade New York, Harpers Bazaar and Real Simple)

A good thought for Monday

by chuckofish

The Peace of Wild Things
By Wendell Berry

When despair for the world grows in me
and I wake in the night at the least sound
in fear of what my life and my children’s lives may be,
I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.

I especially like the line about taxing our lives with “forethought of grief.” Why do we do that? Lord, help me to rest in the grace of the world!

I am the Raisuli. Do not laugh at me again.

by chuckofish

Since it’s Sean Connery’s birthday, I thought I would honor him by reminding everyone to watch one of his best and one of my favorite movies. The highly underated

This movie has it all: Mr. Connery at his manly best; a great script; stirring score; Brian Keith as Teddy Roosevelt; lovely Candice Bergen; plucky children, and plenty of humor, suspense, action, and sniffle inducing moments.

Who could forget the great fight on the beach against the “blue guys”?

or the Raisuli’s endearing habit of quoting proverbs like “The lion takes long strides but the path is worn smooth by pygmy armies.”

Rousing as it is, this movie is also thought provoking and perceptive. Take this exchange, for example:

President Roosevelt: “The American grizzly is a symbol of the American character: strength, intelligence, ferocity. Maybe a little blind and reckless at times… but courageous beyond all doubt. And one other trait that goes with all previous.”
2nd Reporter: “And that, Mr. President?”
TR: “Loneliness. The American grizzly lives out his life alone. Indomitable, unconquered – but always alone. He has no real allies, only enemies, but none of them as great as he.”

There are so many great scenes…what is your favorite part of the movie?

Send out your light and your truth

by chuckofish

Well, it’s Friday once again. Time to look back over the week and to remind ourselves of some important things. Here’s Frederick Buechner with some wise words:

“We must be careful with our lives, for Christ’s sake, because it would seem that they are the only lives we are going to have in this puzzling and perilous world, and so they are very precious and what we do with them matters enormously.”

Have a great weekend and be careful with your life!

Like a river flows surely to the sea

by chuckofish

The wedding pictures are here. This one prompted me to rummage around and find ours from back in 1980. (Unlike most people we do not have them prominently displayed.)

The church is the same and the flowers were from the same florist, but our wedding was much smaller. An even smaller wedding was Mary and Newell’s wedding at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Savannah, Georgia in 1950.

Do you think he borrowed that blazer, or what? (I did a little internet sleuthing and verified the name of the church. Here’s an up-to-date picture of the church door–see?)

Here is a picture of my mother’s sister Donna’s more traditional wedding back home in Worcester, Massachusetts. I thought I had a picture of the wedding party with multiple bridesmaids (including my mother) and groomsmen, but (not surprisingly) I couldn’t find it.

Word is that we’ll get a CD with all 300-plus photos on it. Oh, the wonders of digital wedding photography!

Are we there yet?

by chuckofish

I’m feeling a little nostalgic today about those days of old when we loaded the kids into the wagon and headed for cooler climes and visits with family and friends.

Maybe it was the sight of daughter #2 heading off in her loaded Kia:

Ah, but for those of us on the academic calendar, the summer is virtually over. Sigh. Well, there’s always next year!

Okay now, who said: “Why aren’t we flying? Because getting there is half the fun. You know that.”

Look for me when it’s stormy

by chuckofish

Tut tut. It sure looked like rain yesterday. But (once again) no rain! It has been a frustrating summer of 100-degree weather and drought and burned up grass.

While we’re waiting for some drizzle, let’s enjoy this classic scene from Just Around the Corner (1938) with Shirley Temple and Bill Robinson on another bone-dry flyover day.

Don’t you just love Shirley?