dual personalities

Month: June, 2012

Happy birthday, Mildred Natwick

by chuckofish

Character actress Mildred Natwick was born on June 18, 1905 in Baltimore, Maryland.

She didn’t actually make that many movies, but the ones she made were memorable. She was in four John Ford movies: The Long Voyage Home (1940), 3 Godfathers (1948), She Wore a Yellow Ribbon (1949), and The Quiet Man (1952). In all four she co-starred with John Wayne–lucky lady.

She was also in two other favorite films of mine: Alfred Hitchcock’s The Trouble With Harry (1955) with Shirley MacLaine and Jerry Mathers and Tammy and the Bachelor (1957) with Debbie Reynolds. According to IMDB.com, Truman Capote and Tennessee Williams “adored her” and cast her often in their plays. Well.

She always lent humor and authenticity to any role she played. She was nominated for two Tony Awards and finally in 1967 she received her only Oscar nomination for supporting actress in Barefoot in the Park.

A devout Christian Scientist and all-around class act, she died in 1994. She is interred next to the remains of her sister (and dual personality?) in Lorraine Cemetery in Baltimore, Maryland.

Why I love Raymond Chandler

by chuckofish

“On the right the great fat solid Pacific trudging into shore like a scrubwoman going home. No moon, no fuss, hardly a sound of the surf. No smell. None of the harsh wild smell of the sea. A California ocean. California, the department-store state. The most of everything and the best of nothing. Here we go again. You’re not human tonight, Marlowe.

The Little Sister

It’s been awhile since we’ve heard from ol’ Raymond Chandler. Such a way with words. Don’t we all feel better now?

On Father’s Day…take a hike!

by chuckofish

I wanted to do a father’s day post. At first I thought of reminiscing about my own father, but my dual personality has pretty much covered that for now. Then I thought of doing something current, but I do not have immediate access to a scanner so can’t scan in the really embarrassing choice photos. So we’ll just have to settle for something prettier, if more mundane.

As I was looking through the photos I do have on the computer, I came across our most recent trip to Banff, Alberta. Here’s the happy couple, taken when I was still speaking to him.

Right after that photo the hike took an upward turn and we climbed and climbed. I accused my hubbie of trying to kill me. He knew I was out of shape and didn’t want to go up a mountain — I was very out of breath and thinking that I was soon to drop dead of a heart attack. But the husband is a patient man, who knows when to ignore his wife.

The scenery was spectacular. My mood lightened and we didn’t meet any bears, just smaller uber-friendly wildlife:

Mom gets up close and friendly with a chipmunk

The way downhill was easier

and at the end of the day, we were exhausted, but happy, which just goes to show you that “Father knows best”!

You can tell this was a few years ago — boy #3 is now as tall as his dad!

And if you can’t get out with your dad/husband this father’s day, take some time to remember a good time you have had with him! HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!

Bunker Hill Day

by chuckofish

June 17 is Bunker Hill Day which commemorates the battle fought in 1775 mostly on and around Breed’s Hill, during the Siege of Boston early in the American Revolutionary War. The battle is named after the adjacent Bunker Hill, which was peripherally involved in the battle and was the original objective of both colonial and British troops.

Our grandfather, Daniel Hilton Cameron was born on June 17, 1900 and was always from that day forward called Bunker or Bunk.

He was the 4th child of Daniel and Susie Taylor Cameron of Burlington, Vermont.

I have blogged about Bunker and his baseball playing prowess previously here. School never agreed with him, but he was, by all accounts, a highly intelligent child who was talented in many areas. Rumor has it that he could pick up a musical instrument and play it by ear. Another story has him and a friend taking a car apart at night and putting it back together on top of a porte-cochère as a prank.

A porte-cochère, in case you’d forgotten

Clearly he had other talents as he convinced our strait-laced, deeply religious grandmother to run away and elope with him.

His own deeply religious father had had enough at that point (even though he and Bunker’s mother totally approved of his choice of wife) and disowned him, so he and his new bride were forced to go home to her father in Chicago. (No doubt, he hoped this would teach Bunker a lesson, something he had been trying to do for twenty years.) He worked at odd jobs and for awhile was a taxi driver. Eventually his father relented and they returned to the east where he went into his father’s lumber business. He and Catherine had three girls, our mother the middle and his favorite child. (They were the most alike.)

Funnily enough, when our mother decided against his wishes to marry our father in Savannah, Georgia, where he was stationed in the army, instead of waiting and getting married at home, he refused to come to the wedding, echoing his own stubborn father’s behavior. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. He also eventually forgave her, but think of her getting married far from home without her “daddy” there to give her his blessing.

Rest in peace, Bunker. I hardly knew ye, but I remember when our mother returned from Massachusetts after her own mother died and she wept because she knew she would never see you again. And she was right. You died within the year.

Daughter #1 at the Cameron plot in Lakeview Cemetery in Burlington, Vermont

When all the sky is clear and blue

by chuckofish

“In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candle-light.
In summer quite the other way,
I have to go to bed by day.
I have to go to bed and see
The birds still hopping on the tree,
Or hear the grown-up people’s feet
Still going past me in the street.
And does it not seem hard to you,
When all the sky is clear and blue,
And I should like so much to play,
To have to go to bed by day?”

– Robert Louis Stevenson, Bed in Summer

I remember this so well–going to bed when it was still light outside! The days are long in June in this flyover state!

Another ugga wugg memory

by chuckofish

“Well, one afternoon I was supposed to be taking care of Sonny while Mother was out shopping. He couldn’t have been older than three or four at the most. I was about ten. Well, we had a big fight about something, I forget what it was about, but Sonny got so mad he packed a suitcase and ran away. He was always running away. When Mother came home from shopping a few hours later, she found him in the lobby. He was dressed from head to toe in his Indian costume, long feather headdress and all. He said, ‘Mother, I’m running away, but I stayed to say good-bye to you.’

“When she unpacked his suitcase, it was full of toy soldiers.”

(Story told about J.D. Salinger by his sister Doris in “Dream Catcher” by Margaret Salinger)

I cannot tell you how much I love this story. What would you give to see a picture of little J.D. (Sonny) dressed in his Indian costume with full feather headdress?

Well, the best I could do is show you a picture of daughter #1 wearing the Indian costume that my mother made for me when I was in the first grade and we played the Indians in a school production of Peter Pan. Unfortunately, although I searched high and low, I could not find the picture! But I did find the dress!

All the mothers made the costumes for their own daughters, so you can imagine they varied quite a lot according to the skill level of each mama. Not surprisingly, some were store-bought and pretty fancy. I seem to remember some glitter in there too. Mine had real leather fringe and hand-beaded trim.

My older brother even strung me a bead necklace to wear with the dress. My mother, of course, went for authenticity and made the costume brown, unlike some mothers who went for “cute”. There was much diversity of headbands, I recall–some definitely leaning to the “tiara”.

Come to think of it, I would like to see a picture of those first grade Indian maidens, wouldn’t you?

What are you reading?

by chuckofish

Detail from “The New Novel” by Winslow Homer

Well, having just read the first two books in the Hunger Games trilogy, the super popular young adult series, I am taking a break from Katniss and company and plunging into Drums Along the Mohawk by Walter D. Edmonds, written in 1936. Drums Along the Mohawk was on the bestseller list for two years, second only to Margaret Mitchell’s Gone with the Wind for part of that time. But why am I reading it now? you ask.

Well, I bought a nice hardback copy a few weeks ago at an estate sale, and then I watched the great John Ford movie (1939) for the umpteenth time on TCM.

It tells the story of Gil and Lana Martin, settlers in the Mohawk Valley of the New York frontier during the American Revolution who are beset by the British, Tories and Mohawk Indians. I’m not very far, but it is a good, well-written yarn. It sure beats Jonathan Franzen.

And I will get back to Katniss et al eventually. First, I would like to get my hands on a copy of Edmond’s The Matchlock Gun, about a boy in Colonial New York who defends his home against invading Indians, and for which he won the 1942 Newbury Medal. He was, it seems, a man after my own heart.

Tout va bien

by chuckofish

“I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to those teachers.”

–Kahlil Gibran

Into the Great Wide Open

by chuckofish

Packing the U-haul

Our #1 son (the eldest, that is) bid a fond adieu to his devoted, proud parents this last Thursday to move to Washington DC with friends, who are sharing a house and job-hunting. In the meantime, James (not Jim) is keeping up with his movie reviews on a new blog Rooster Illusion Reviews. Good luck, God bless, and don’t forget to call or email your parents from time to time!!!

We’ll be coming willy-nilly, Lily

by chuckofish

Tiger Lily:
Beat on a drum
And I will come

Peter Pan:
And I will come and save the brave noble red skin

Ugga wugga wigwam! I have always been a big fan of day lilies or, as we say in our flyover state, tiger-lilies. They are all over the place and they bloom for a long time during the hottest of weather. As a small child I was jealous because we did not have any in our yard. I really felt deprived. (Not that I ever verbalized this to my mother who no doubt would have gamely tried to add them to our garden.) Anyway, I have made sure that we always have them in any yard that we have lived in since I had any say in the matter.

Aren’t they great?